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By *kexplorers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Lady D and I were discussing a few weeks back about the difference of perving on here to perving when out and about in every day life.

I (Mr K) have a roaming eye when out and about as I like to admire feminine beauty but this does annoy Lady D a little.

I asked her why it does not bother her when I admire ladies on here? Lady D said on here there is a reason we are all on here and that is to meet 'like minded' folk and try new experiences. After thinking about what she said, I had to agree with her as on here it is openly accepted but in the 'vanilla' world there are different boundaries.

Does anybody else feel like this or we on our own? xx

D&K xx

(Tried our best to explain what we discussed.. lol)

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

when you are on here, you are doing it together... admiring ( let's say that rather than perving )someone in the street, may be interpreted as a singular act and hurtful.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

kev and i have great fun perving women together,i am far worse than him,so its not a problen for us.

The important thing is you talked it over though...communication is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

possibly ,but women and men are engineered in that way,and people look quite often ,but without thought ,not meaning to offend, if we thought about we would think twice about looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lady D and I were discussing a few weeks back about the difference of perving on here to perving when out and about in every day life.

I (Mr K) have a roaming eye when out and about as I like to admire feminine beauty but this does annoy Lady D a little.

I asked her why it does not bother her when I admire ladies on here? Lady D said on here there is a reason we are all on here and that is to meet 'like minded' folk and try new experiences. After thinking about what she said, I had to agree with her as on here it is openly accepted but in the 'vanilla' world there are different boundaries.

Does anybody else feel like this or we on our own? xx

D&K xx

(Tried our best to explain what we discussed.. lol)"

Yup totally get that.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Lady D and I were discussing a few weeks back about the difference of perving on here to perving when out and about in every day life.

I (Mr K) have a roaming eye when out and about as I like to admire feminine beauty but this does annoy Lady D a little.

I asked her why it does not bother her when I admire ladies on here? Lady D said on here there is a reason we are all on here and that is to meet 'like minded' folk and try new experiences. After thinking about what she said, I had to agree with her as on here it is openly accepted but in the 'vanilla' world there are different boundaries.

Does anybody else feel like this or we on our own? xx

D&K xx

(Tried our best to explain what we discussed.. lol)"

Yes know what you mean and where you are coming from.

I don't really understand it myself, in swinging I don't get jealous at all when Mr is eyeing up, flirting or playing with other ladies. Infact I love it and encourage it

But in everyday life, the green-eyed monster does appear occasionally.

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By *kexplorers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Lady D and I were discussing a few weeks back about the difference of perving on here to perving when out and about in every day life.

I (Mr K) have a roaming eye when out and about as I like to admire feminine beauty but this does annoy Lady D a little.

I asked her why it does not bother her when I admire ladies on here? Lady D said on here there is a reason we are all on here and that is to meet 'like minded' folk and try new experiences. After thinking about what she said, I had to agree with her as on here it is openly accepted but in the 'vanilla' world there are different boundaries.

Does anybody else feel like this or we on our own? xx

D&K xx

(Tried our best to explain what we discussed.. lol)

Yes know what you mean and where you are coming from.

I don't really understand it myself, in swinging I don't get jealous at all when Mr is eyeing up, flirting or playing with other ladies. Infact I love it and encourage it

But in everyday life, the green-eyed monster does appear occasionally.

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Lol... yes we are both like that as well in everyday life...xx

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By *IPEEPSCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Lady D and I were discussing a few weeks back about the difference of perving on here to perving when out and about in every day life.

I (Mr K) have a roaming eye when out and about as I like to admire feminine beauty but this does annoy Lady D a little.

I asked her why it does not bother her when I admire ladies on here? Lady D said on here there is a reason we are all on here and that is to meet 'like minded' folk and try new experiences. After thinking about what she said, I had to agree with her as on here it is openly accepted but in the 'vanilla' world there are different boundaries.

Does anybody else feel like this or we on our own? xx

D&K xx

(Tried our best to explain what we discussed.. lol)

Yes know what you mean and where you are coming from.

I don't really understand it myself, in swinging I don't get jealous at all when Mr is eyeing up, flirting or playing with other ladies. Infact I love it and encourage it

But in everyday life, the green-eyed monster does appear occasionally.

Lol... yes we are both like that as well in everyday life...xx "

well both being bi helps as we can (discreetly) perv at both the guys and the ladies "would you?" is our catchphrase!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex- didn't mind me looking at other girls, as long as it wasn't too exaggerated, but dare to speak aloud about anything I'd seen, and my balls were in a sling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do remember onetime, a really hot lass walking towards us. When she passed, my ex- goes 'Did you see that, did you see that'. As I'm rolling my tongue back up, to respond, she says 'whats she thinking, those shoes with that bag....'. Shoes....bag..., what the fuck are you talking about woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried to do the perving thing in the vanilla world and my oh does encourage it (mr) but I just can't get into that mode. its like I have a swinging switch. when its turned off, its off!!

Don't get jealous though, probably cos his perving is carefully done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the word perversion means against the norm so i guess on here looking at others in a sexual way is the norm so therefore aloud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all guilty of it. Doesn't matter if you are male or female. In the 'vanilla' world we admire others and on here we perv.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH and myself frequently (discreetly) ogle other women (and men - in my case, anwyay) when we are out. "I would!" is often muttered by one of us to the other as someone walks by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are as bad as each other and always point out those around us that we both find sexy... also, always on the look out for wadrobe malfunctions or unintentional flashes... mm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I am currently in a relationship, but for me part of the fun is that many/most women expect to be ogled on here! Out in the street it tends to creep me out a bit if some stranger is openly watching me, because I'm just going about my day. It feels disrespectful and while I don't assume every woman feels like that, I treat others as I like to be treated

So I get maximum ogle time on here

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