FabSwingers.com forum: Embarrassing to be a swingers ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you feel embarrassed be a swingers. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. But I don't shout my business from the rooftops either. I'm a private person.

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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

"No. But I don't shout my business from the rooftops either. I'm a private person. "

Snap!

If someone I knew said they’d seen me on this site I’d laugh and nod, although I wouldn’t share a link to my fab profile in my social media stories

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I have 99 things to be embarrassed about and swinging isn't one of them.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I'm not hurting anyone or doing anything wrong so no it's all good.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We are very open about what we do. Anyone that finds it embarrassing shouldn’t be doing it .

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Not much else to say after the previous couple of posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not embarrassed, just don't want every one knowing about our sex life!

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By *ooneyloubylouWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Do you feel embarrassed be a swingers. ?"

No. 100% open about it with family, work colleagues, friends. Why would anyone feel embarrassed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with the others. Not embarrassed but it's no one else's buisness do it's not discussed.

I like my private life kept private

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Not embarassed, just tire of explaining myself to ignorant people so prefer not to yap on about it to vanilla people

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"Not embarrassed, just don't want every one knowing about our sex life!

This

But I'm also not a swinger, I just like meeting/talking with like minded people, Oh and I'd also like to be having more sex then the average person on the street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. But I don't shout my business from the rooftops either. I'm a private person. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not embarrassed but I like that I have a secret life that no one knows about...

...it’s a sexy version of Narnia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's to be embarrassed about?

While we don't shout about it, it's no ones business. We're not doing anything ilegal, may be frowned upon but sod em, we enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not embarrassed but it's not something I tell anyone about in my 'real life'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was ‘outed’ to my family and friends a few years ago, it was a shock but it made life simpler ultimately. I don’t shout about it but I’m not bothered.

I’m an adult and I couldn’t care less what people think of what I do in bed or wherever else, no doubt it’s far more fun than what they’re doing!

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

I didn't share details of my sex life before going to swinger clubs so don't feel the need to do so now. If I found a swinging woman as a partner and she was open about it that is an interesting dilemma to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you feel embarrassed be a swingers. ?"

Not at all. In fact the opposite, my sex life is hugely more exciting than the humdrum shite that my vanilla chums have to grin and bear.

Each encounter I have is fresh and can differ wildly, and it's all down to this magnificent hobby of mine! So I'm not embarrassed in the slightest. Rather I'm having an absolute whale of a time and filling my boots!

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We're proud to be, partly because it means we have a lot more fun than most other people!

We don't see it as anything to be embarrassed about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very embarrassing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not embarrassed at all. I would never do something I’m ashamed of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn’t be embarrassed about, keep it discreet and you’re fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally open about my lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not embarrassed or ashamed but I prefer to keep my sex life and swinging adventures private and not mix with work/family life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I'm also not a swinger, I just like meeting/talking with like minded people, Oh and I'd also like to be having more sex then the average person on the street

How much sex does the average person on the street have?

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

But I'm also not a swinger, I just like meeting/talking with like minded people, Oh and I'd also like to be having more sex then the average person on the street

How much sex does the average person on the street have?"

Not much before they get arrested...

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’m not embarrassed about it, I don’t see the problem with wanting a diverse and exciting sex life, more people should try it

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By *kpiercedCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We aren’t embarrassed by it but we keep it separate, home life is also seperate from work life etc. We have bumped into people on here and in clubs, but we are all here for the same reason so it’s not a problem x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone actually asked me the other day if were swingers, having not been to a club for longer that I care to admit, I felt justified in saying no. However; I don't understand how people think they can ask such questions as I'd never dream of asking such intrusive questions about anyone's sex life.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.. our kids know our parents know. Everyone else can fuck off with their judgements. Simple.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Not embarrassed, but then again we never talked about our vanilla sex life, so why would we talk about this lifestyle.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I'm not embarrassed but it's not something I share widely. Only a few close friends know (the rest would snigger and smirk

). I don't tell at work (I've got my professional reputation to think of) and I don't tell at Church (they'd fall out of their pews

, and I don't want any tricky debates about adultery)

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I wouldn’t mention it in the staff room lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We are incredibly embarrassed to be swingers .

We would far rather not be swingers.

Every time we try to stop , we get dragged back into it as nothing comes close to swinging as far as a hobby we both enjoy goes .

So we will carry on being embarrassed enjoying it fir a while yet I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I got no problem admitting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were outted by a couple at a party who knew a lot of our friends too. They told them we were swingers then the messages started to be sent to other friends as well. Even some customers off daves know but they just ask questions about it and that's it. We would of liked to of kept it quiet but shit happens.

But we are never embarrassed in what we do

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Not embarrassed by it but, as said in previous posts, don't go telling the world about it. We find it best not to flaunt it that's all.

We've never been ones to talk amongst friends about our sex life anyway, so we'll keep it to ourselves.

Some people will understand, some won't. Just like with any sexual preferences. Although not sure the masses are ready to accept it as a mainstream sexual choice (can't foresee there being any swinger pride marches just yet).

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By *oman wantedCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester

"We were outted by a couple at a party who knew a lot of our friends too. They told them we were swingers then the messages started to be sent to other friends as well. Even some customers off daves know but they just ask questions about it and that's it. We would of liked to of kept it quiet but shit happens.

That's disgusting treating you like that. Would they out a gay person whos closeted? Just need a time that maybe in 20 years we will be accepted xx

But we are never embarrassed in what we do "

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Not embarrassed to be a swinger, however, others are not so liberal minded and we don't want to be judged or have to defend our actions all the time.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I'm just a very shy person

xxxx Suzi

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No not at all .

Nothing to be embarrassed about I like men and women and swinging is a way to find people who like the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope not embarrassed but I like that I have a secret life that no one knows about...

...it’s a sexy version of Narnia

THIS

However, have some very judgy family who would probably disown us if they knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not hurting anyone or doing anything wrong so no it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not embarressed at all, I hate that sex nudity has been made taboo by society... I adore sex totally open about what I like even with vanila friends.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Not embarrassed about it at all although I've kept this side of my life separate from my Cole ages and friends and from mist of my family

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are not embarrassed about being swingers, but as with sex between ourselves it is not something we normally mention to other people.

But if the subject came up we would not deny being swingers either.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Nope - but it's our private life

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By *esi tardkaCouple
over a year ago

acton

"Do you feel embarrassed be a swingers. ?"

What to be embarrassed about ? We love this lifestyles,family and friends know about our alternative lifestyle..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not embarrassed by it but, as said in previous posts, don't go telling the world about it. We find it best not to flaunt it that's all.

We've never been ones to talk amongst friends about our sex life anyway, so we'll keep it to ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's to be embarrassed about?

While we don't shout about it, it's no ones business. We're not doing anything ilegal, may be frowned upon but sod em, we enjoy it. "

Totally agree with you on this

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Do you feel embarrassed be a swingers. ?"

Well considering the only people who know we're swingers are other swingers, the answer would have to be 'no', we're not embarrassed.

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By *inkyDom96Man
over a year ago

Yarmouth

I’m not embarrassed at all, most of my friends and co-workers know I’m here and I’m always telling them things that I’ve been up to, they think it’s great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you feel embarrassed be a swingers. ?"

Don't hide from it if someone asks, but don't walk around with signs on our heads either.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

No I'm pretty open about. Not like rub it in people's faces but honest is asked. Some of the people close to me know and I think a fair few others who know me and my girl have a fair inkling we are.

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