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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If invited, would you meet in a person's house straight away or do you need to go out and build chemistry through drinks and so on. A part of me thinks that going to a strangers house is nuts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done. But I never rush into a meet and I don't do socials. I implicitly trust my instincts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive met in strangers houses

just use your judgement , all mine were fine

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I have done in the past and lived to tell the tale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have but was cautious to start with, soon relaxed though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If invited, would you meet in a person's house straight away or do you need to go out and build chemistry through drinks and so on. A part of me thinks that going to a strangers house is nuts."

I personally wouldn't go to someones house without several meetings/socials and then only after playing with them at hotels and clubs too. Obviously only then after knowing a lot about them via text/phone calls as well.

I was messagin someone on here a few months ago and my spidey senses where tingling that she was fake/bloke. She wouldn't do a social first and wanted me to go round to her house. I declined.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Definitely not. I don't accommodate anymore either due to previous problems with guys on fab. Always a social in a public place first, if they won't do that, I won't meet them for anything else.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We always have a social first but that's because I prefer it that way not for reasons of security. We have often met in people's houses and have had a couple of hair raising experiences and a lot of very good ones.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I broke my rule once and went to someone's house. It didn't end well and in hindsight I should of rang the police.

I won't be breaking that rule ever again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok well if i disappear like Corey whatshisface you will know that I am being kept captive against my will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have

But do worry sometimes that my skin will be made into a lampshade ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met at strangers houses, some have been great and the odd couple of meets weren't. I tend to use hotels now as so much safer.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Yes. And I make them very welcome at my place too

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We have done before and it's been ok but usually tend to meet somewhere public first

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

they are not going to kill you and if you think you are not safe call someone and tell them the area you are in while the visit can see you.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"ive met in strangers houses

just use your judgement , all mine were fine"

This

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"We always have a social first but that's because I prefer it that way not for reasons of security. We have often met in people's houses and have had a couple of hair raising experiences and a lot of very good ones. "

I thought we pre-warned you about our pet chimp... he's going through puberty

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We always have a social first but that's because I prefer it that way not for reasons of security. We have often met in people's houses and have had a couple of hair raising experiences and a lot of very good ones.

I thought we pre-warned you about our pet chimp... he's going through puberty "

It wasn't the chimp that was the problem...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"We always have a social first but that's because I prefer it that way not for reasons of security. We have often met in people's houses and have had a couple of hair raising experiences and a lot of very good ones.

I thought we pre-warned you about our pet chimp... he's going through puberty

It wasn't the chimp that was the problem..."

Ffs, you're not still going on about the blood on the walls are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its great

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We always have a social first but that's because I prefer it that way not for reasons of security. We have often met in people's houses and have had a couple of hair raising experiences and a lot of very good ones.

I thought we pre-warned you about our pet chimp... he's going through puberty

It wasn't the chimp that was the problem...

Ffs, you're not still going on about the blood on the walls are you "

All I will say is don't remove your next vict...er I mean meets blindfold. They won't see it then.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes I have but not before I've had a social with them prior.

Clock the knife rack and make sure they don't lock the door.

It's still dodgy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need chemistry full stop. Doesn't matter where the meet is.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I have been lucky enough to be invited to someone's house for coffee after a lot of chatting and speaking on phone ...turned out a lovely day

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If invited, would you meet in a person's house straight away or do you need to go out and build chemistry through drinks and so on. A part of me thinks that going to a strangers house is nuts."

First of all I would want a copy of their passport, their birth certificate, their driving license, proof of residency I.e. council tax bills and a list of their last big food shop just to see if we are compatible as I may fancy some snacks when I visit. Only after sighting all this will I visit them at their house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If invited, would you meet in a person's house straight away or do you need to go out and build chemistry through drinks and so on. A part of me thinks that going to a strangers house is nuts.

First of all I would want a copy of their passport, their birth certificate, their driving license, proof of residency I.e. council tax bills and a list of their last big food shop just to see if we are compatible as I may fancy some snacks when I visit. Only after sighting all this will I visit them at their house.

"

I'll accept a portion of chips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've mostly met men at theirs without having a social first.

I talk a long time before I commit to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always a worry not knowing who's in the house my house meets have all gone well making me feel relaxed in no time

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

We like to meet at our house with no social. If we don't like them then there's always place for a new lampshade.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

About half my meet have been house meeting, as much as the host might be worried you are a psycho so are you too thinking hope she/he/they are normal.

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By *lexer007ukMan
over a year ago

Dewsbury


"I have

But do worry sometimes that my skin will be made into a lampshade ...

"

You are simply amazing. Love your pix, sorry just had to tell you that.

P.s - you would make a gorgeous Lampshade...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never meet at someone's house and there's no way they're coming to mine.

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By *arryneverknowMan
over a year ago

Dereham

social outside of both homes for me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it funny men are scared to meet a couple or female at their house... Just leave your wallet in the car and don’t except any drinks....

You will be fine....

I was never afraid a person would do anything nefarious to me in their home.

I was more worried about if their house was clean...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive met in strangers houses

just use your judgement , all mine were fine"

Exactly, we’ve had no problems at all so far. Although we always have a social meet in public first.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I have ...most were ok just the odd one was dodgy but I’m still here

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I have done. But I never rush into a meet and I don't do socials. I implicitly trust my instincts."

This - if I don’t like the feel of someone I wouldn’t arrange a meet, by the time I meet I already know I like them and it’s always worked out great

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"We like to meet at our house with no social. If we don't like them then there's always place for a new lampshade. "

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

It has been my preferred place to meet for some time. I consider myself a good judge of character.

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

Life on the edge arranged to meet a lady at her home front door open she naked on settee play bj left never to be seen again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it a couple of times and it's been really very good.

I've also invited people to my place and that was fine too.

I trust my instincts, and it's worked out well so far.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Not for us.

Our fab life and personal life are totally seperate and that's how we like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We as a couple prefer to meet at our home ..we have been swingers for many years and never had one single problem from it..we have visited other people's homes and the same too, never had any problems

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I have met at peoples houses, and had mine at meets, but I do tend to read every very then read the profiles of those they have met and make an informed judgement, had one that was awkward, made my excuse and left.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Do prefer a social first but will do after chats and phone calls.

Even so, have had one when she invited me back to hers after a couple of car meets but the state of the house was an eye opener and unexpected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first in public place. A past experience on another site has made sure of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. If you don't like the look of them it can be very awkward. Also we would only need in hotels or apartments until we had got to know them

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By *ickeyblueeyes7Man
over a year ago

newport

Yes I have several times one was on another site I instant messaged her and literally within the hour of contact was round her house having a great session

Met her a few times after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever worry if the house will be clean, and if it’s not, I’d have no worry of turning around and walking out... happened once!

I always say it will start with a chat and see if the connection is there in person, if not then we are both grown ups and we will go our separate ways. We would have spoken for a good while before it even got to me being in their home and if I were there, there must have been a strong connection in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past but I am looking to do a quick social first now xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet in our house and don't do socials. Every one of our meets is still alive and enjoying fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only meet in our house and don't do socials. Every one of our meets is still alive and enjoying fab "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s how we normally meet other couples we like to chat online then take it from there as we can’t host. It’s all about trust

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By *itandhotCouple
over a year ago

citywest

We invited good few people to our house.

All good experiences (so far)

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