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How would you stop swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People often ask how other couples started swinging but what if you want to stop? I really don't see how a relationship could go back to being monogamous after swinging.

One person might want to stop but the other doesn't- then what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just an occasional hobby for us, so don't see it being a problem if one of us wanted to stop.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one who doesn't want to stop does it behind the other's back?

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

u can't stop once u get in to this

life style

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By *incolnshire SausageMan
over a year ago

spalding

Put your feet down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The one who doesn't want to stop does it behind the other's back? "

Probably.

There was a couple on here and the man said if his wife wanted to give up swinging he'd dump her.

Another couple said if either of them wanted to stop swinging their marriage would be over.

Both couples left the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People often ask how other couples started swinging but what if you want to stop? I really don't see how a relationship could go back to being monogamous after swinging.

One person might want to stop but the other doesn't- then what? "

They both take up yoga, or golf. ... one hobby for each of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just an occasional hobby for us, so don't see it being a problem if one of us wanted to stop.

Ginger "

Im with you on this, its just a hobby for us, we have an amazing sex life, but now and again a little of what you fancy does you both good lololol

Suprising hubby with a ffm for his birthday was an exciting evening indeed.

But swinging is definatly not essencial in our relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to find a husband first xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not here to “swing” i’m here for sex until i meet a fella who i want a relationship with and be mutually exclusive with.

Once i find this man and we were officially dating then i’d be off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to stop. I do stop periodically but I enjoy playing with woman too much to give up.

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"People often ask how other couples started swinging but what if you want to stop? I really don't see how a relationship could go back to being monogamous after swinging.

One person might want to stop but the other doesn't- then what? "

Just join Fabs at the moment and it will come to an end naturally. Too many people just here for the chat, pics and chase but many many timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've kinda stopped. Not met anyone in well over a year. It hasn't impacted us at all. We've just kinda moved on. Our only real rule was if one wanted to stop then we would. That's kinda where we are atm. We haven't left fab as we haven't decided what we're going to do yet. Neither of us have a burning desire to meet anyone so I guess we'll potter along and see what happens.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I have met men here that have suggested if we were to become a couple they’d not be interested in continued sexual freedom.

I am still single

I like it here. I’ve no intention of leaving permanently. I take the odd break but I know I’ll always be back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've kinda stopped. Not met anyone in well over a year. It hasn't impacted us at all. We've just kinda moved on. Our only real rule was if one wanted to stop then we would. That's kinda where we are atm. We haven't left fab as we haven't decided what we're going to do yet. Neither of us have a burning desire to meet anyone so I guess we'll potter along and see what happens. "

That's good that you both feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have just had a year out after both of us losing our swing mojo, if it hadn't come back then neither would we have.

This really is a bit of fun for us, we don't do the whole lifestyle thing.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I

I am still single

"

No idea why!

Saying that why am I still single.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one who doesn't want to stop does it behind the other's back? "

I would imagine this happens quite a lot. Cheating already happens within active swinging couples so when they stop, I would imagine the percentage that would cheat increases.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I

I am still single

No idea why!

Saying that why am I still single.

XX"

We are overqualified

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I

I am still single

No idea why!

Saying that why am I still single.

XX

We are overqualified "

I like that. XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only have meets every few months or so. It's usually one of us saying "fancy an mmf" and the other saying yes or no. It doesn't get asked again or questioned. It would more dwindle out rather than a sit down conversation x

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By *oman wantedCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester

We're not swingers. Just looking for the 'one' and if that works out. We're off here for good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When life gets in the way people stop swinging and are fine....

Illness, children, and new jobs tend to lead couples away from the lifestyle...

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