FabSwingers.com forum: Which is more irritating...

By *vy_Green OP Woman
over a year ago

Soham

People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who don't bother reading at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta love a tryer

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'

not a lot to choose between them but I think the "I know i am not what your looking for" one just edges it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about if they tick some of your boxes but not others OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you're adventurous, exceptions will be made and you don't take things seriously. Sounds like youre open to most things, including triers. What am I missing when reading your profile?

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By *vy_Green OP Woman
over a year ago

Soham

"You say you're adventurous, exceptions will be made and you don't take things seriously. Sounds like youre open to most things, including triers. What am I missing when reading your profile?"

The 'looking for black or heavily tattooed guys' bit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Has to be the tryer we find more irritating

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Gotta love a tryer "

Nah! Gotta block a trier.

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

Not reading at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't let anything so unimportant irritate me

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Probably people who don't read my profile because they're more likely to be abusive when I reply " sorry but you're not my type "

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah definitely people who don't bother reading,at least the others are just trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who don't bother reading at all"

Agreed

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I know I'm outside your age range but..."

"I know you're not looking for guys with beards but..."

"I know you don't meet smokers but..."

"I know I'm not the type you're looking for but..."

Just a selection of the message openers we regularly receive. Why they bother we don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are just annoying full stop.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

It's some stiff competition, pardon the pun, but I think the triers infuriate me more. If you know you're not what we're looking for them fook off!

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sea gulls squirting over my car irritates me the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the profiles who say 'put this in the heading'.

I always read profiles before messaging. I also find the Sydney warning annoying

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

The I know I’m not what your looking for crowd are the worst . It’s like they already know yet still expect a no.

Plus the ones that have to tell you they are clean p me off .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those that don't read our profile. If they did then their time wouldn't be wasted by them messaging with 'I know I'm out of your age range' or guys who have a little weight on them. We're looking for a certain type.

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By *vy_Green OP Woman
over a year ago

Soham

""I know I'm outside your age range but..."

"I know you're not looking for guys with beards but..."

"I know you don't meet smokers but..."

"I know I'm not the type you're looking for but..."

Just a selection of the message openers we regularly receive. Why they bother we don't know."

Haha yep. My favourite is 'I know I'm not black or tattooed but I've got an 8" dick...' complete with a picture of a 6 incher at best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people get so upset when the profile hasn’t been read?

I never open profiles, never mind read them. Everyone I’ve ever spoke to has ever asked if I’ve read there profile. ... I sure as hell know they didn’t read mine and I don’t throw a fit over it.

If your judging them for not reading your page, I can judge those that throw their dummies around over it.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It doesn't bother me if they read it or not, if they blatantly don't I'd just delete the message. Sometimes I can't be bothered reading profiles either and just look at the pretty pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life’s to short to be reading profiles, who wants to be doing that shit. To much like work, this is supposed to fun people, fun I tell you.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'

The latter.

It's usually younger guys who used to say, I know your lower age limit says 38.....

So we upped it to 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably more annoying to be fair as I don't even read the message to know if they've read the profile or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was this thread about again, i didn’t read it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life’s to short to be reading profiles, who wants to be doing that shit. To much like work, this is supposed to fun people, fun I tell you. "

If I read all the text on a women’s profile, ... I’d need a personal assistant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'

The latter.

It's usually younger guys who used to say, I know your lower age limit says 38.....

So we upped it to 40

That’s right. 40yrs plus’s read, ... under that age and they expect a podcast.

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By *orningtonCroissantMan
over a year ago

notts and humberside

"I'm probably more annoying to be fair as I don't even read the message to know if they've read the profile or not

Haha! My bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life’s to short to be reading profiles, who wants to be doing that shit. To much like work, this is supposed to fun people, fun I tell you.

If I read all the text on a women’s profile, ... I’d need a personal assistant.

It’s all ‘blah blah blah. Me, me me.’

Well I’ve got news lady, I ain’t reading it and I’m sending a message and I’m gonna guess what title I’ve got to put in the box!

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By *orningtonCroissantMan
over a year ago

notts and humberside

Young guys trying to ‘turn’ me. I’m not gay guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Young guys trying to ‘turn’ me. I’m not gay guys!"

Yeah, you say that.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"I don't let anything so unimportant irritate me"

Totally agree

. Some people need to get a bloody life and lighten up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who don't read our profile.

And people that ask "what are you looking for then?"

When we've polity said no thanks.

Boils my piss, just accept it ain't you.. and move on.

Adam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘How big is ur cock’ in a first message, no question mark, ur instead of your. Disgraceful.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

""I know I'm outside your age range but..."

"I know you're not looking for guys with beards but..."

"I know you don't meet smokers but..."

"I know I'm not the type you're looking for but..."

Just a selection of the message openers we regularly receive. Why they bother we don't know."

Totally agree, we've had this from so many that we are completely no match to, ask questions that are answered in first few lines of profile never mind rest. Clearly just look at pics & the male runs profile is our guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get irritated by such trivial things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life’s to short to be reading profiles, who wants to be doing that shit. To much like work, this is supposed to fun people, fun I tell you.

If I read all the text on a women’s profile, ... I’d need a personal assistant.

It’s all ‘blah blah blah. Me, me me.’

Well I’ve got news lady, I ain’t reading it and I’m sending a message and I’m gonna guess what title I’ve got to put in the box! "

When did, hi, how are you doing? Become such a f’kin insulting start to a conversation. I blame the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'

Both are equally as bad and both gets the same response which is the delete button.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Both as annoying ,as both not respecting what's there in my profile.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Neither irritate me. I ignore them mostly and use my filters so it has little impact on my day.

V x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'

The latter.

It's usually younger guys who used to say, I know your lower age limit says 38.....

So we upped it to 40

That’s right. 40yrs plus’s read, ... under that age and they expect a podcast. "

What's a podcast?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get messages from either, so I can't comment.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Its just none of the above

It has to be when they dont know the difference between there and their, surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'

The latter.

It's usually younger guys who used to say, I know your lower age limit says 38.....

So we upped it to 40

That’s right. 40yrs plus’s read, ... under that age and they expect a podcast.

What's a podcast?

Haha. It’s like listening to radio 4.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'

The latter.

It's usually younger guys who used to say, I know your lower age limit says 38.....

So we upped it to 40

That’s right. 40yrs plus’s read, ... under that age and they expect a podcast.

What's a podcast?

Haha. It’s like listening to radio 4.

We have heard of it and it's like a video blog we guess??

Not into social.media or anything related other than on here.

We don't even have a website for our company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate, "i wish you were my mom so i can sniff your panties and play with my cock!" instand block. not into that roleplay.

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By *G999Man
over a year ago

Bath & Surrounding

I read the whole profile of the OP. It is absolutely riddled with such words as: adventurous, perhaps, likely, rarely, sometimes, all of which indicate a person who is open to negotiation.

I find it difficult to empathise with someone who is getting upset with the responses their profile narrative is generating when the language used doesn't match the members actual wishes and is less than specific in nature.

Perhaps a more definitive statement of your intention would benefit?

But to be honest, they probably wouldn't read it.

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By *vy_Green OP Woman
over a year ago

Soham

"I read the whole profile of the OP. It is absolutely riddled with such words as: adventurous, perhaps, likely, rarely, sometimes, all of which indicate a person who is open to negotiation.

Perhaps a more definitive statement of your intention would benefit?

But to be honest, they probably wouldn't read it. "

It also says very specifically the type of guy I'm looking for which, despite your 'thorough' read, you've managed to miss. Another selectivity blind fabber I think...

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By *G999Man
over a year ago

Bath & Surrounding

No it doesn't, it says, and I'm paraphrasing now; "I like black men, but if you're big and have a beard (Or something like that) then I could be persuaded" I might be as you say 'selectively blind' but that's cleary ambiguous?

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By *vy_Green OP Woman
over a year ago

Soham

"No it doesn't, it says, and I'm paraphrasing now; "I like black men, but if you're big and have a beard (Or something like that) then I could be persuaded" I might be as you say 'selectively blind' but that's cleary ambiguous? "

Reading comprehension fail!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus the ones that have to tell you they are clean p me off . "

This, we would bloody hope they are and shouldn't have to tell you.

But pretty much everything mentioned above.

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