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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it ok to arrive at an orgy or gang bang and spend the entire time masturbating?

recently some men have done this and not joined in the action

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the ones I have been to, there is usually 4/5 guys who do well and perform, a few wanking and totally phased by it all and 1 who has to go back to the car for something... and then all you hear is the screech of the tyres as he flees as if he is being chased by a mad axeman.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wankers xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it ok to arrive at an orgy or gang bang and spend the entire time masturbating?

recently some men have done this and not joined in the action "

Out of curiosity, do you feel that everyone should join in then?

If I want to an orgy, Although I wouldn't be wanking, I wouldn't join in either.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it ok to arrive at an orgy or gang bang and spend the entire time masturbating?

recently some men have done this and not joined in the action "

i think it depends on the person holding the gang bang

if they dont mind just being watched and wanked over then yes its fine

if they do mind im sure they will ask them to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the ones I have been to, there is usually 4/5 guys who do well and perform, a few wanking and totally phased by it all and 1 who has to go back to the car for something... and then all you hear is the screech of the tyres as he flees as if he is being chased by a mad axeman....."

I wonder which id be!!

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By *andL1970Couple
over a year ago

hemel hempstead

Don't see anything wrong with it personally. I'd be more concerned by somebody who didn't participate in any way, but even then, if that was their preference and ok with the organiser, then why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the fight or flight syndrome or in this case fun or run

Its a fanny 'ole game innit!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"the ones I have been to, there is usually 4/5 guys who do well and perform, a few wanking and totally phased by it all and 1 who has to go back to the car for something... and then all you hear is the screech of the tyres as he flees as if he is being chased by a mad axeman....."

lol

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

I cant think of anything more off putting then sitting there in a room full of strangers wanking..must be like a dirty ol man convention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wankers xx "

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"the ones I have been to, there is usually 4/5 guys who do well and perform, a few wanking and totally phased by it all and 1 who has to go back to the car for something... and then all you hear is the screech of the tyres as he flees as if he is being chased by a mad axeman....."

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i like to join in and have some fun, then sit back and watch for a while. I find it extremely erotic watching and ususaly end up wanking before diving back into the action. It makes a space for someone else to get in on the action.

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"the ones I have been to, there is usually 4/5 guys who do well and perform, a few wanking and totally phased by it all and 1 who has to go back to the car for something... and then all you hear is the screech of the tyres as he flees as if he is being chased by a mad axeman....."
Oh so true !!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We got fed up in Chams a while back by one man who popped up in every room where we were involved in the action (except the couples room thank heavens!) wanking frantically with a vacant, fixed expression on his face. We later mentioned him in the bar to be told by a woman "he's always here, we call him the meerkat!"

Don't mind people looking through windows, but to suddenly look up from play to see someone like that standing close to you is totally off-putting. Very sad, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant think of anything more off putting then sitting there in a room full of strangers wanking..must be like a dirty ol man convention.

"
Don't knock dirty old men. Its my ambition to be one and I'm already half way there.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"I cant think of anything more off putting then sitting there in a room full of strangers wanking..must be like a dirty ol man convention.

Don't knock dirty old men. Its my ambition to be one and I'm already half way there. "

Same here! lol

This reminds me of years ago..sitting in a darkened room with about 8 other blokes watching a bluey while our wives and girlfriends were at a tupperware party next door..after all the funny comments etc (which I find hilarious) everyone settled down to watch the 'action'..

I was distracted after about 20 mins by what sounded like someone rattling loose change in their pocket..I looked over and there to me amazement was a bloke cheerfully knocking one out!!!

In fact half the blokes had their hands down their trackies having a sly rub!!

When it was my girlfriends turn to host a party I went down the pub!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Sometimes I like to watch and wank some times I like to fuck end of......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We got fed up in Chams a while back by one man who popped up in every room where we were involved in the action (except the couples room thank heavens!) wanking frantically with a vacant, fixed expression on his face. We later mentioned him in the bar to be told by a woman "he's always here, we call him the meerkat!"

Don't mind people looking through windows, but to suddenly look up from play to see someone like that standing close to you is totally off-putting. Very sad, really.

"

this is what i'm talking about

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"I cant think of anything more off putting then sitting there in a room full of strangers wanking..must be like a dirty ol man convention.

Don't knock dirty old men. Its my ambition to be one and I'm already half way there. "

And I am already there He He

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

personally i love to see a guy wank over me, i find it a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally i love to see a guy wank over me, i find it a turn on "

Id wank over you anytime hun but would probarbly have to bottle up and mail the man fat to you as ya feckin miles away lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"personally i love to see a guy wank over me, i find it a turn on

Id wank over you anytime hun but would probarbly have to bottle up and mail the man fat to you as ya feckin miles away lol x "

haha cam fun folks lol... no what i mean is the bloke who sits in the corner wanking frantically groaning to himself making more noise than anybody else there. Very off putting don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont no have never been to one lol was offered a place at one the other week with they said 8blokes confirmed as attending but they were insisting on bareback only so bollox to that and said thanx but no thanx and got blocked for being polite haha

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"personally i love to see a guy wank over me, i find it a turn on

Id wank over you anytime hun but would probarbly have to bottle up and mail the man fat to you as ya feckin miles away lol x

haha cam fun folks lol... no what i mean is the bloke who sits in the corner wanking frantically groaning to himself making more noise than anybody else there. Very off putting don't you think? "
no it is still a turn on for me but as i say love to see it, i get hubby to wank all the time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally i love to see a guy wank over me, i find it a turn on

Id wank over you anytime hun but would probarbly have to bottle up and mail the man fat to you as ya feckin miles away lol x

haha cam fun folks lol... no what i mean is the bloke who sits in the corner wanking frantically groaning to himself making more noise than anybody else there. Very off putting don't you think? no it is still a turn on for me but as i say love to see it, i get hubby to wank all the time xx "

Well going off your photos hun your worth a wank any time deffo xx

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

thank u xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" thank u xxx "

Hey Stacey ur so welcome hun. Pitty you are so far away maybe you should get over here some time and we can get a hotel and make a night of it haha x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"is it ok to arrive at an orgy or gang bang and spend the entire time masturbating?

recently some men have done this and not joined in the action "

It really depends where it is and what has been arranged.

For instance a privately organised gang bang... it may have been arranged for a reason, a purpose… and it’s not much of a gang-bang if the guys are just tugging one off. Yet at a bukkake party… it may be the order of the day.

At a club, in an open room/orgy room… who is to say what is right and wrong for a person? How does a guy know if he is welcome to join in? And so what if he wants to just watch and wank? He has every right to do so if that’s what he wants to do.

I have no right to tell anyone else how they should enjoy themselves. If I play in an open room everyone else has just as much right to be there and to do what they want with their own body.

If you don’t like men watching and wanking, don’t play in rooms where they have every right to do it…. it’s not rocket science is it?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"personally i love to see a guy wank over me, i find it a turn on "

BoOks flight to Belfast when I am back in london lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it ok to arrive at an orgy or gang bang and spend the entire time masturbating?

recently some men have done this and not joined in the action

It really depends where it is and what has been arranged.

For instance a privately organised gang bang... it may have been arranged for a reason, a purpose… and it’s not much of a gang-bang if the guys are just tugging one off. Yet at a bukkake party… it may be the order of the day.

At a club, in an open room/orgy room… who is to say what is right and wrong for a person? How does a guy know if he is welcome to join in? And so what if he wants to just watch and wank? He has every right to do so if that’s what he wants to do.

I have no right to tell anyone else how they should enjoy themselves. If I play in an open room everyone else has just as much right to be there and to do what they want with their own body.

If you don’t like men watching and wanking, don’t play in rooms where they have every right to do it…. it’s not rocket science is it?

"

100% agree!

I do wonder if this thread was started about ladies doing as they please (not joining in full sex) in an open room... how many would have been very supportive about the woman's choices?

....oh hang on.... no need to wonder...

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"personally i love to see a guy wank over me, i find it a turn on "

J also loves guys wanking over her...she finds a huge turn and and not humiliating...if anything empowering!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I wouldnt sit really having a wank and cum while watching others..im just expressing im good to go, as in FUCK who I'm watching or recieve some Bjness hehe

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Last Friday ima club I was wanking and a lady asked me to carry on and she would watch me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only realised that I needed glasses when I saw a sign on a shop doory saying orgy sessions and was just in the mood for a good wank so went in to the stairs and up and at um. The police soon arrived and and I was escorted out of the oregami place at once. Still as the officer rightly pointed out tho at least I had folded that tissue up nice and neatly afterwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know in a group like heck I'd be sat there strumming me banjo...unless it was tired and shagged out after a long squawk and needed resuscitation...

I'd be ready and waiting to get docked.. but yeah there's always someone wanders room-to-room chicken choking... usually with a daft grin on their chops to match

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know in a group like heck I'd be sat there strumming me banjo...unless it was tired and shagged out after a long squawk and needed resuscitation...

I'd be ready and waiting to get docked.. but yeah there's always someone wanders room-to-room chicken choking... usually with a daft grin on their chops to match

Wolf"

Some one else been tellin ya stories about me then hey wolf lol word soon getts around dont it haha

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


" thank u xxx

Hey Stacey ur so welcome hun. Pitty you are so far away maybe you should get over here some time and we can get a hotel and make a night of it haha x "
we're just back from birmingham and will be back

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Have noted this

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

oh i prefer full input, oral, groping, and full sex, if i got a gang bang i'd just love every aspect of straight sex but as i say a guy having a wank would turn me on too, it's all sex it's all fun an some like to stay a bit back some need to be encouraged, i just enjoy the moment so long as everyone is comfortable and happy, let the good times roll xx

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"oh i prefer full input, oral, groping, and full sex, if i got a gang bang i'd just love every aspect of straight sex but as i say a guy having a wank would turn me on too, it's all sex it's all fun an some like to stay a bit back some need to be encouraged, i just enjoy the moment so long as everyone is comfortable and happy, let the good times roll xx "

Defiantly noted and added to hotlist lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" thank u xxx

Hey Stacey ur so welcome hun. Pitty you are so far away maybe you should get over here some time and we can get a hotel and make a night of it haha x we're just back from birmingham and will be back "

Mmmmmm well then in that case I will indeed look fwd to speaking more with you on this matter lol but I like to play tho as well as watch by the way x

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By *ayc_BigballsMan
over a year ago

Derby

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By *ayc_BigballsMan
over a year ago

Derby


"personally i love to see a guy wank over me, i find it a turn on

Id wank over you anytime"

got to agree, it would be apleasure to wank over you.

however if i was at an orgy id want to be joining in not just wanking!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"oh i prefer full input, oral, groping, and full sex, if i got a gang bang i'd just love every aspect of straight sex but as i say a guy having a wank would turn me on too, it's all sex it's all fun an some like to stay a bit back some need to be encouraged, i just enjoy the moment so long as everyone is comfortable and happy, let the good times roll xx "

Wanking over you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what you get when you go to Chameleons, they wander around holding it, wanking it in the desperate hope you might want to grab hold of it, suck it and even wank under water in the jacuzzi gets incredibly annoying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's what you get when you go to Chameleons, they wander around holding it, wanking it in the desperate hope you might want to grab hold of it, suck it and even wank under water in the jacuzzi gets incredibly annoying "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes when I am having a gang bang hubby also fucks me, sometimes he just watches and wanks.

Personally, I find other men having a wank while they watch me very horny - as long as they also fuck me at some poing. I do hate seeing a cock and a cum shot go to waste!!!

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes when I am having a gang bang hubby also fucks me, sometimes he just watches and wanks.

Personally, I find other men having a wank while they watch me very horny - as long as they also fuck me at some poing. I do hate seeing a cock and a cum shot go to waste!!!

x"

That sounds good lol

when is the next gang bang?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That sounds good lol

when is the next gang bang?"

Generally whenever I go into Chams!!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's what you get when you go to Chameleons, they wander around holding it, wanking it in the desperate hope you might want to grab hold of it, suck it and even wank under water in the jacuzzi gets incredibly annoying "

knew i swallowed some salt water when i was there!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is chams a no no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is chams a no no?"

Not for me, I go there specifically because I KNOW there will be a lot of hard cocks available!

Some ladies dont like that and I can fully see how it could be overbearing if it isnt your thing, but for me its great!

xx

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Keep hearing about Chams! Is it the place to go? Would love to see what the fuss is all about?

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