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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So were happy to chat but would like to know who were chatting to via a face pic (private message of course) this seems strange to some and I'm wondering if their not really couples ?? I know were naive but help are they real or not?? Xxx arnt genuine couples happy to send face pics ????

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Some are fantasists...some timewasters..and some just guys pretending to be couples

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"So were happy to chat but would like to know who were chatting to via a face pic (private message of course) this seems strange to some and I'm wondering if their not really couples ?? I know were naive but help are they real or not?? Xxx arnt genuine couples happy to send face pics ????

Not really sure why you posted this message in this section? If you've looking for meets and chatting maybe try chat room?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not really sure why you posted this message in this section? If you've looking for meets and chatting maybe try chat room?"

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex

You have no pics of you together as a couple? Some will think you are fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some are fantasists...some timewasters..and some just guys pretending to be couples "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are some arnt some have genuine reasons like me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure where to post either just wanted a bit of a heads up on how to spot a dodgy profile really xx a nd from the forms I've been looking at this seemed like the most honest and sensible one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Were happy to send couple pics via messanger but live in a very small place xx we send our pics but then other supposed couples don't arnt happy to do the same but want to know all about us or we get a single man pic xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some are fantasists...some timewasters..and some just guys pretending to be couples

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure where to post either just wanted a bit of a heads up on how to spot a dodgy profile really xx a nd from the forms I've been looking at this seemed like the most honest and sensible one

xx"

Don't know if it helps but I had one recently..

I was approached by the female of the couple who seemed nice enough so I replied, every message after that was from a bi male. When I started asking questions he cancelled the 'meet'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure where to post either just wanted a bit of a heads up on how to spot a dodgy profile really xx a nd from the forms I've been looking at this seemed like the most honest and sensible one

Don't know if it helps but I had one recently..

I was approached by the female of the couple who seemed nice enough so I replied, every message after that was from a bi male. When I started asking questions he cancelled the 'meet'"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It seems that's what's happening but I'm not sure if I'm being too cautious block list keeps getting bigger xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems that's what's happening but I'm not sure if I'm being too cautious block list keeps getting bigger xx"

You can never be too cautious and if you've been getting gut feelings there is a reason.

Look what could have happened to me if I had gone to that meet, you need to protect yourself at all times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just seem to Confuse ambition with ability lol x

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"It seems that's what's happening but I'm not sure if I'm being too cautious block list keeps getting bigger xx

You can never be too cautious and if you've been getting gut feelings there is a reason.

Look what could have happened to me if I had gone to that meet, you need to protect yourself at all times."

What do you mean by could have happened to you? Surely your first meet would have been a social meet in a public place?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Not sure where to post either just wanted a bit of a heads up on how to spot a dodgy profile really xx a nd from the forms I've been looking at this seemed like the most honest and sensible one

xx"

This or support and advice is the right room for this thread.

And welcome to the forums OP, have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems that's what's happening but I'm not sure if I'm being too cautious block list keeps getting bigger xx

You can never be too cautious and if you've been getting gut feelings there is a reason.

Look what could have happened to me if I had gone to that meet, you need to protect yourself at all times.

What do you mean by could have happened to you? Surely your first meet would have been a social meet in a public place? "

No 'They' invited me to 'their' house where three of his mates could've been waiting. Do I need to spell it out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure where to post either just wanted a bit of a heads up on how to spot a dodgy profile really xx a nd from the forms I've been looking at this seemed like the most honest and sensible one

This or support and advice is the right room for this thread.

And welcome to the forums OP, have fun

Thank you it's hard knowing where to post things on here

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Not sure where to post either just wanted a bit of a heads up on how to spot a dodgy profile really xx a nd from the forms I've been looking at this seemed like the most honest and sensible one

This or support and advice is the right room for this thread.

And welcome to the forums OP, have fun

Thank you it's hard knowing where to post things on here

Don't worry too much about the where, if I find one in the wrong room I can easily move it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are thousands of real cples and thousands of fake ones, mainly its down to luck who you chat to on here, we do not send face pics unless we have an imminent meet planned, we understand what you are saying but its everyones choice as to who and when they send a face pic, we also noticed you have no pics of the male half most cples like to see both halves of the cple not just the fem ,

there is no real way of detecting fakes but we watch closely the way messages are worded single guys often end up typing I like this I want that ect talking as singular instead of we ect.

if your not sure ask the fem a question most fems will hold back in the reply acting shy and coy not showing too much,

if its a guy he will often give you a graffic reply most unlike a fem would,

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Try the introductions section too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't like to send face pics but we also don't ask for them.

Once we know a meet is likely then we swap faces.....we just limit the amount of people who see us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems that's what's happening but I'm not sure if I'm being too cautious block list keeps getting bigger xx

You can never be too cautious and if you've been getting gut feelings there is a reason.

Look what could have happened to me if I had gone to that meet, you need to protect yourself at all times.

What do you mean by could have happened to you? Surely your first meet would have been a social meet in a public place? "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to Fab OP.

You will be wondering why lots of people do or don't do lots of different things, and you may never get answers, because as they say 'nowt as queer as folk'.

Just run your profile and use the site how you want to, and don't take things to heart. I always ask for face photos and if people don't supply then I tell them to forget it. To me, if someone won't send face photos then they have something to hide.

Good luck OP and hope you have lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Welcome to Fab OP.

You will be wondering why lots of people do or don't do lots of different things, and you may never get answers, because as they say 'nowt as queer as folk'.

Good luck OP and hope you have lots of fun

Its been a learning curve that's for sure thank you all x sound advice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi just have lots of fun, I like you just love to chat. Maybe we can sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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yes8 weeks in you're probably wiser now I think a good idea is ask initially for a face pic so most likely you get his pic then possibly hers but after that's achieved then ask for a pic together, check all pics together using a magnifying glass sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may need to rethink your idea of asking for face photos at the beginning of chatting. As I'm sorry, why would I be sending my face photo to someone I may not meet? I am a single woman on fab, with real life and a job that takes me into my local community regularly. I would rather not get strange looks, or maybe even more, when I'm working. Therefore, I have no face pic on fab, either public or friends only, and also don't send one to everyone that asks for it, only to people I have agreed to meet. If they then run away, screaming, it's fine, as there are plenty more fish in the sea.

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