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By *utonguy2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

So how do you get over the nerves of tending to another mans woman with his blessing but him watching any pointers will be first time for this.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We have found that some men find it difficult. I would say don't over think it, understand that both the man and his partner want this and you aren't doing anything you shouldn't be. A social first might help but don't be tempted to drink too much.

Also realise that the woman isn't the guys property in any way they're enjoying a mutually held fantasy and hopefully you're enjoying one of yours.

Good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The couple as in both the guy and the lady want you there and he might get off on watching / joining in. Like they said ^^^ don’t overthink it and just enjoy.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Spend some time with the two of them. A social could help you all relax and feel at ease with one another.

There's no need to overthink it. Chances are he will be quiet and watch anyway but then again a bit of encouragement never hurts lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ve meet a couple three times the same couple I should say.. I know what you mean... They both put me at ease and it soon flowed... Instinct and action... No real thought...

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By *utonguy2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

Sounds good to me onwards a upwards i guess

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By *exyFusionCouple
over a year ago

Near to you


"...

Also realise that the woman isn't the guys property in any way they're enjoying a mutually held fantasy and hopefully you're enjoying one of yours...."

Well said!!

OP just try to block out the fact that he's there and enjoy yourself - the more uninhibited you are and the more you are into what you and the lady are doing, the better the experience for everyone, including you. Have fun!!

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By *utonguy2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

Ill certanly try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a couple different scenarios, on a longer meet, the guy left me and his mrs alone for 10 mins to get started, so by the time he returned it was all good. On a quicker meet i just got on with the fun while he watched.

Just bear in mind all mutually want the same fun and the guy watching his mrs loves it.

For me nothing more horny than being balls deep in another guys mrs while he watches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get over your nerves you can try what my boss always said ... picture them naked.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"So how do you get over the nerves of tending to another mans woman with his blessing but him watching any pointers will be first time for this."

Big pressure pal, he’s going to be watching your every move, let’s hope Mr Floppy doesn’t turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how do you get over the nerves of tending to another mans woman with his blessing but him watching any pointers will be first time for this.

Big pressure pal, he’s going to be watching your every move, let’s hope Mr Floppy doesn’t turn up "

That is really helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big pressure pal, he’s going to be watching your every move, let’s hope Mr Floppy doesn’t turn up "

Yep Been there, seen that

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"So how do you get over the nerves of tending to another mans woman with his blessing but him watching any pointers will be first time for this.

Big pressure pal, he’s going to be watching your every move, let’s hope Mr Floppy doesn’t turn up

That is really helpful "

He’s a big boy, he can handle it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spending a little time with the couple helps. Especially if you’ve had a bit of banter because then if anything doesn’t go quite to plan you can laugh it off. This is a three way fantasy, everyone will be getting what they want from it so try not to concentrate too much and go with the flow. Heed direction if it’s given and I think you’ll find that everyone will enjoy it. Once you’ve done it once you’ll want to do it again and again..

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By *exyFusionCouple
over a year ago

Near to you


"...Big pressure pal, he’s going to be watching your every move, let’s hope Mr Floppy doesn’t turn up "

Someone's jealous

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