FabSwingers.com forum: When chemistry evaporates

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just had a weird one. I've met a very sexy woman for a couple of dates and in each one the chemistry was completely off the chart. I was even starting to think of jacking in Fab and the dating apps and just focusing on her. Tonight, however, we met to finally have sex and the chemistry was just gone. I tried my best to fathom it up... and she seemed to enjoy herself a lot. So sexually speaking it was as good as meaningless sex gets. But nope. Gone.

Now I don't know what to say without looking like a total dick

I didn't even know this was a thing. Anyone else ever experienced chemistry just evaporating like that?

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Just be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chase was more thrilling than the catch. Its not uncommon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just be honest

Thanks for this. I hate upsetting people. But I think you're right. I'm just going to have to find a really nice way of saying it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The chase was more thrilling than the catch. Its not uncommon."

You may be right. But I've also been meeting another woman. There's only mild chemistry between us. Hence why I'm still looking. But we fuck like rabbits when we meet. So the lack of chase hasn't caused our chemistry to evaporate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It didn't help that she had Guinness book of world record length pubes. We've gotta be talking about 20cm

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"... Now I don't know what to say without looking like a total dick

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Too late...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I didn't even know this was a thing. Anyone else ever experienced chemistry just evaporating like that? "

It normally happens to me, immediately after ejaculation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just zombie her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It didn't help that she had Guinness book of world record length pubes. We've gotta be talking about 20cm

Is that what turned you off?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"It didn't help that she had Guinness book of world record length pubes. We've gotta be talking about 20cm

Eight inch long pubes??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tricky. She’s gonna assume it’s cos you finally had sex and that’s all you wanted.

But you always come across as a decent guy, I’m sure you’ll find a way. Just don’t ghost her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest and tell her it's not working out anymore. There's no other way,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be honest x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've gone off people after meeting them a few times it's not uncommon. Just tell her that you don't want to see her again as you don't feel you're compatible. Part of dating is being able to end a short relationship in an adult way.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

It could just be because it's been off the charts before that you're expecting more each time? Or maybe you were having an off day and weren't really feeling it?

You could try meeting her again and see if you feel the spark again. If not then go your separate ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thrill is in the chase, isn't that the appeal of non-monogamy for most? Chuck her back in and go fishing again.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I would say tell her the truth - you're gutted because the amazing chemistry you had seems to have evaporated and you have no idea why, but sorry you think it's best to call it a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pubes sound a bit scary.

I get bored of people. Find it hard work to keep in contact with most people. I think that's why chemistry evaporates for me.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"The thrill is in the chase, isn't that the appeal of non-monogamy for most? Chuck her back in and go fishing again."

That sounds so callous!

Sometimes the reality doesn't live up to the expectation but I would hope to stay kind and respectful.

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By *heangelWoman
over a year ago

wonderland

I would try again .

But ask her to cut back the hedge lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens sometimes when the build up is so much when it finally happens your just left disappointed

Or I've had it before when the first time was totally explosive best sex of your life with amazing emotional connection but after that it was just meh and no matter what you do you can't get it back to what it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thrill is in the chase, isn't that the appeal of non-monogamy for most? Chuck her back in and go fishing again.

That sounds so callous!

Sometimes the reality doesn't live up to the expectation but I would hope to stay kind and respectful."

The whole dating thing is just a meat conveyor these days. People think it's fine to just chuck the person out and move onto the next.

It's certainly not respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thrill is in the chase, isn't that the appeal of non-monogamy for most? Chuck her back in and go fishing again.

That sounds so callous!

Sometimes the reality doesn't live up to the expectation but I would hope to stay kind and respectful."

Of course, but the net result remains the same. And next time, have sex on the first date, that way, no-one's time is wasted.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I also think that if you found her pubic hair distasteful the chemistry was only superficial.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"The thrill is in the chase, isn't that the appeal of non-monogamy for most? Chuck her back in and go fishing again.

That sounds so callous!

Sometimes the reality doesn't live up to the expectation but I would hope to stay kind and respectful.

The whole dating thing is just a meat conveyor these days. People think it's fine to just chuck the person out and move onto the next.

It's certainly not respectful. "

No, I think I've been lucky in avoiding most people like that, or inspiring a bit more respect maybe. One date that was not to be became a good friend, but I can't remember meeting anyone I wanted to see again, I've had far more luck on here. Ah there was one but he turned out not to be properly free....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also think that if you found her pubic hair distasteful the chemistry was only superficial. "

I have to agree, and the idea of asking her to change it is a little outrageous, why should she? Her body, her choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I also think that if you found her pubic hair distasteful the chemistry was only superficial.

I have to agree, and the idea of asking her to change it is a little outrageous, why should she? Her body, her choice."

Thanks for all the replies guys. On this front unfortunately the chemistry was lacking last night before we even got as far as pubegate. I continued because, as you do, I hoped it would return.

I would certainly never suggest she should change it for me... and didn't catch anyone else on this thread suggesting as much either. But she should probably take a look down there. It was only a few hairs, the rest completely shaved. But I got one in my mouth and pulled back to let it slide out and no kidding it was like the length of a ruler. It was a bit gross. I'm sorry. But it just was

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tricky. She’s gonna assume it’s cos you finally had sex and that’s all you wanted.

But you always come across as a decent guy, I’m sure you’ll find a way. Just don’t ghost her!"

That's very nice of you to say that about me

Thanks. I wrote her a really nice "thanks but no thanks" msg this morning. I'll either get a torrent of vitriol or maybe she felt the same. I hope so. It's always easier when it's mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also think that if you found her pubic hair distasteful the chemistry was only superficial.

I have to agree, and the idea of asking her to change it is a little outrageous, why should she? Her body, her choice.

Thanks for all the replies guys. On this front unfortunately the chemistry was lacking last night before we even got as far as pubegate. I continued because, as you do, I hoped it would return.

Jeez I hope she's not on here reading that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I also think that if you found her pubic hair distasteful the chemistry was only superficial.

I have to agree, and the idea of asking her to change it is a little outrageous, why should she? Her body, her choice.

Thanks for all the replies guys. On this front unfortunately the chemistry was lacking last night before we even got as far as pubegate. I continued because, as you do, I hoped it would return.

I read and contributed to your thread about dating and pickup with interest. Don't the sources you were reading give you strategies to deal with telling a woman you don't want to see her again?

I think that it's difficult when you get a long hair in your mouth I hate it when my hair gets in mine. However I think the gentlemanly or even manly thing to do would be to acknowledge to yourself that there's something about this woman that doesn't suit you and tell her respectfully and politely that you don't want to see her again. No need to mention that she missed a couple of hairs when grooming to her or us just say "I've enjoyed our time together but we're not compatible". There's no other way to do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I also think that if you found her pubic hair distasteful the chemistry was only superficial.

I have to agree, and the idea of asking her to change it is a little outrageous, why should she? Her body, her choice.

Thanks for all the replies guys. On this front unfortunately the chemistry was lacking last night before we even got as far as pubegate. I continued because, as you do, I hoped it would return.

I read and contributed to your thread about dating and pickup with interest. Don't the sources you were reading give you strategies to deal with telling a woman you don't want to see her again?

Oh absolutely. I won't make any mention of anything to do with the sex. Indeed I told her it was beautiful. I just explained that, for me, something was missing.

As for the dating advice videos...

I'm starting to go off them. They're amusing and have, at times, been thought provoking. But they really are full of shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No need to mention that she missed a couple of hairs when grooming to her or us "

Didnt spot the "or us" bit. Yeah. I know what you mean. But it was rather funny and I didn't want to mention it to anyone else. So you guys have become my go to port of call for confessing stuff anonymously. And for as long as no one on here even wants to have a social with me my cover shall be maintained

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As for the dating advice videos...

I'm starting to go off them. They're amusing and have, at times, been thought provoking. But they really are full of shit "

You're not wrong there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As for the dating advice videos...

I'm starting to go off them. They're amusing and have, at times, been thought provoking. But they really are full of shit

You're not wrong there! "

I watched one the other day about tests which women deliberately give men to hurdle. One was the "I need to nip to the loo real quick can you wait for me?" test. Here it's perfectly clear that the woman is testing if a guy is actually a real alpha or just a wimpy wimp who hangs around waiting for people. So clearly what you need to do to hurdle this test successfully is show her what a man you are and say ok but then when she's gone wander off and start chatting up other women.

Err or maybe she just wanted to wee and you've just been a class A twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just had a weird one. I've met a very sexy woman for a couple of dates and in each one the chemistry was completely off the chart. I was even starting to think of jacking in Fab and the dating apps and just focusing on her. Tonight, however, we met to finally have sex and the chemistry was just gone. I tried my best to fathom it up... and she seemed to enjoy herself a lot. So sexually speaking it was as good as meaningless sex gets. But nope. Gone.

Now I don't know what to say without looking like a total dick

I didn't even know this was a thing. Anyone else ever experienced chemistry just evaporating like that? "

Sounds just like a typical man. They love the chase...

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

The pube issue would have totally put us off , and yes , we are that shallow . We have refused play many times over the years because of an unkempt lady garden . The issue being that early on in our swinging life , my wife had a stray pube causing her to be really embarrassed in a club . What started as a quick cough to clear her throat soon ended up with her retching in front of a room full of people playing and watching .

Now of course it’s different for you as a single guy and dating the said lady . I would certainly agree with the poster that suggested you have sex earlier on , rather than a few dates down the line . If you’re not sexually compatible it’s pointless going on , so the sooner you know the better .

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could just be because it's been off the charts before that you're expecting more each time? Or maybe you were having an off day and weren't really feeling it?

You could try meeting her again and see if you feel the spark again. If not then go your separate ways. "

I’ve had that before, I just wasn’t feeling it and then the next time was amazing. We then had an 18 month relationship.

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By *heangelWoman
over a year ago

wonderland

Maybe I’m too sensitive, but if after a build up and I agreed to sleep with someone and then they said sorry it’s not going to work we have no connection, I would feel really awful about myself and wonder all sorts . I know it’s a no win situation, but I do know I would feel shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe I’m too sensitive, but if after a build up and I agreed to sleep with someone and then they said sorry it’s not going to work we have no connection, I would feel really awful about myself and wonder all sorts . I know it’s a no win situation, but I do know I would feel shit "

I know. I hate making people feel shit. But my only consolation is that it was definitely far better to nip it in the bud now than to have let it spill out for longer and then try and explain myself a few fucks further into it. The woman deserves to find love. At this moment I am an impediment to that. So I'll just quickly get out of her way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I didn't even know this was a thing. Anyone else ever experienced chemistry just evaporating like that?

Sounds just like a typical man. They love the chase..."

One of the reasons why I enjoy posting some of my dating (mis)adventures is to try and give women insight into what it looks like from a man's point of view. It's easy to blame the man... just another nob who just wanted to chase a shag and got bored once it was a cert. But for me it was more complex than that. The moment I saw her she just looked different. And she seemed less happy and less into me. So I started to see other sides of her. In someone you're compatible with seeing these sides isn't a problem. Anyway there were a bunch of things that meant I wasn't really carried away by her. It was like sitting through a film without being absorbed by it. I just kept on thinking "nah this isn't working". And that was that. Prior to that I really felt like I might be falling for her. So I'm just as disappointed.

The heart is a strange teacher

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"As for the dating advice videos...

I'm starting to go off them. They're amusing and have, at times, been thought provoking. But they really are full of shit

You're not wrong there!

Err or maybe she just wanted to wee and you've just been a class A twat

That sort of behaviour signals huge issues with insecurity. As you point out it's nothing to do with being alpha and everything to do with mistrust, game playing and immaturity. I truly wonder how some people function as adults.

People like you see it for what it is its the ones who don't that worry me.

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

Sod the chemistry mate pass her over to us and we will just fuck her good and proper like she probably wants

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sod the chemistry mate pass her over to us and we will just fuck her good and proper like she probably wants

Taking my hand me downs. Class

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

"Sod the chemistry mate pass her over to us and we will just fuck her good and proper like she probably wants

Taking my hand me downs. Class

If she is sexy and likes a lot of cock she is perfect for us fella

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Sod the chemistry mate pass her over to us and we will just fuck her good and proper like she probably wants

Taking my hand me downs. Class

If she is sexy and likes a lot of cock she is perfect for us fella

It’s good to see a couple of magnamanous guys willing to take the cast offs on fab . Hats off to you guys

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

"Sod the chemistry mate pass her over to us and we will just fuck her good and proper like she probably wants

Taking my hand me downs. Class

If she is sexy and likes a lot of cock she is perfect for us fella

It’s good to see a couple of magnamanous guys willing to take the cast offs on fab . Hats off to you guys

We are here to ‘fuck’ not ‘fuck about’!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It didn't help that she had Guinness book of world record length pubes. We've gotta be talking about 20cm

Nice man. Hope she doesn't read this. How rude and cruel. Hopefully she will dump you and problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey, you sound like a right charmer

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I've gone off someone the min I walked into a hotel room for a meet. I was just honest , paid my half and left.

I was disappointed as we had a great social and chat was excellent however 2 things just made me say " this isn't going to work" it's just how it goes sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happens.. sometimes the whole chase and will we won’t you is far more exciting than the actual sex when it happens. I love the chase but will only meet someone a couple of times for exactly this reason.. but to be fair, I’m not here to find a relationship..

just be honest with her - if it was me I’d far more prefer that to just no contact. We are all only human, it’s not uncommon..

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

"I've gone off someone the min I walked into a hotel room for a meet. I was just honest , paid my half and left.

I was disappointed as we had a great social and chat was excellent however 2 things just made me say " this isn't going to work" it's just how it goes sometimes

What two things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This happens.. sometimes the whole chase and will we won’t you is far more exciting than the actual sex when it happens. I love the chase but will only meet someone a couple of times for exactly this reason.. but to be fair, I’m not here to find a relationship..

just be honest with her - if it was me I’d far more prefer that to just no contact. We are all only human, it’s not uncommon..

That should have said will we won’t we. Blonde moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just explain that you didn't feel the chemistry and didn't want to lead her on by continuing it. She may see it as you've had sex and now you don't want to know, but you can't control that, or her reaction. All you can do is be honest about it. Rejection is never nice, but at least you'll know you did the right thing and didn't just leave her hanging, by cutting her off and have her questioning what went wrong.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You say she seemed to enjoy herself ~ maybe she was putting that on and wasn't really? Has that crossed your mind?!!

Anyway I agree with most people's comments about saying it's not going to work for you early on. Less feels involved.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Sod the chemistry mate pass her over to us and we will just fuck her good and proper like she probably wants

Taking my hand me downs. Class

If she is sexy and likes a lot of cock she is perfect for us fella

It’s good to see a couple of magnamanous guys willing to take the cast offs on fab . Hats off to you guys

We are here to ‘fuck’ not ‘fuck about’!

A rarity

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By *ssex Playfull CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Grays

if your not into her leave her be, it’s not rocket science!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't even know this was a thing. Anyone else ever experienced chemistry just evaporating like that?

Sounds just like a typical man. They love the chase...

The heart is a strange teacher "

I like reading about it from a man's point of view.

It's good to have an anonymous place to discuss things.

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

"Sod the chemistry mate pass her over to us and we will just fuck her good and proper like she probably wants

Taking my hand me downs. Class

If she is sexy and likes a lot of cock she is perfect for us fella

It’s good to see a couple of magnamanous guys willing to take the cast offs on fab . Hats off to you guys

We are here to ‘fuck’ not ‘fuck about’!

A rarity

We should come to Gloucester

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By *isstemptressWoman
over a year ago

york

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By *isstemptressWoman
over a year ago

york

"The chase was more thrilling than the catch. Its not uncommon."

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You say she seemed to enjoy herself ~ maybe she was putting that on and wasn't really? Has that crossed your mind?!!"

It's always a possibility with women Lady Lick. But I don't think it was the case here. We did a couple of rounds over a couple of hours, lots and lots of kissing whilst we fucked, she rode me like a wild woman, and she definitely got a case of the shudders a few times. It would be a tad theatrical if she went as far as to fake shudders. But I guess it's possible. It was really nice cuddling up to her afterwards and talking about interesting things that had happened in our lives. As I said, it was about as good as meaningless sex gets. But the chemistry was just flat on my side. When I told her this morning she wrote that she was very surprised. But she was pretty cool about it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You say she seemed to enjoy herself ~ maybe she was putting that on and wasn't really? Has that crossed your mind?!!

a mature and realistic woman then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't even know this was a thing. Anyone else ever experienced chemistry just evaporating like that?

Sounds just like a typical man. They love the chase...

The heart is a strange teacher "

It definitely is but you mentioned that the chemistry was a bit off prior to sleeping with her. Why did you continue? You could have ended it there and then it would have been easier on both parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The chase was more thrilling than the catch. Its not uncommon."

I heard this.

Been chatting to a woman for weeks, soon as I gave in she blocked me.

Sure they do it for a laugh with their mates tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you mentioned that the chemistry was a bit off prior to sleeping with her. Why did you continue? You could have ended it there and then it would have been easier on both parties. "

The chemistry with her had been wild the couple of times we'd met before... including the night before which was one of the most erotic experiences. I only began to realise the chemistry was missing the next night when I started to explore her with my lips. I've never experienced chemistry going like that so I just assumed it would return the more I got into it. It didn't. I guess I could've stopped in the middle and left her unsatisfied. But the fab side of me kicked in and I wanted her to have a fun time... and of course me too

I actually liked her, hence why we cuddled and chatted afterwards. But I just wasn't into having a relationship with her anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also think that if you found her pubic hair distasteful the chemistry was only superficial.

I have to agree, and the idea of asking her to change it is a little outrageous, why should she? Her body, her choice."

So where was his choice to decide if he wanted to carry on with someone who has a yeti for a foof. If someone wants to be natural, then good for them, but the other person should be told before it gets to the stage where it could be potentially awkward when it turns out they don't like going down on extreme fluffy muff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also think that if you found her pubic hair distasteful the chemistry was only superficial.

I have to agree, and the idea of asking her to change it is a little outrageous, why should she? Her body, her choice.

Eh, he seems to have exercised his choice,no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The chase was more thrilling than the catch. Its not uncommon.

I heard this.

Been chatting to a woman for weeks, soon as I gave in she blocked me.

Sure they do it for a laugh with their mates tbh"

Be thankful you won't need to speak to her anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It didn't help that she had Guinness book of world record length pubes. We've gotta be talking about 20cm

Send her my way ! I love hairy minge !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It didn't help that she had Guinness book of world record length pubes. We've gotta be talking about 20cm

Send her my way ! I love hairy minge ! "

While I was in the bath last night, washing my pubic hair, I thought about measuring it and doing a "How long is your pubic hair?" thread.

Is it possible to have 20cm pubes??

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over a year ago

"I also think that if you found her pubic hair distasteful the chemistry was only superficial.

I have to agree, and the idea of asking her to change it is a little outrageous, why should she? Her body, her choice.

I always tell men I'm hairy. I've never had a man feel the need to tell me he is.

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over a year ago

"It didn't help that she had Guinness book of world record length pubes. We've gotta be talking about 20cm

Send her my way ! I love hairy minge !

While I was in the bath last night, washing my pubic hair, I thought about measuring it and doing a "How long is your pubic hair?" thread.

Is it possible to have 20cm pubes??"

This provides the perfect moment for me to explain, if I haven't already, that I wasn't kidding. She had shaved most of it off but left a few strands and these were ACTUALLY 20cm long. I'm not exaggerating. That was their actual length. So this remark wasn't derogatory. It was a statement of fact

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over a year ago

"It didn't help that she had Guinness book of world record length pubes. We've gotta be talking about 20cm

Eight inch long pubes??

I have nasal hair that length and every time I sneeze I self-flagellate

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"It didn't help that she had Guinness book of world record length pubes. We've gotta be talking about 20cm

Send her my way ! I love hairy minge !

While I was in the bath last night, washing my pubic hair, I thought about measuring it and doing a "How long is your pubic hair?" thread.

Is it possible to have 20cm pubes??

So they were hanging down her leg?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I didn't even know this was a thing. Anyone else ever experienced chemistry just evaporating like that?

Sounds just like a typical man. They love the chase...

The heart is a strange teacher

I like reading about it from a man's point of view.

It's good to have an anonymous place to discuss things. "

I agree!!

And it sounds like you did the right thing, Soulful

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over a year ago

"And it sounds like you did the right thing, Soulful

xx"

Thanks Morticia

Yeah. Although it was a bit abrupt (the next morning) it meant that I didn't fake any feelings with her with more messages and send out mixed signals and I tried to do it in the nicest way possible. She said she suspected that I'd just wanted sex and that was all... But we all knew I had that coming to me. I assured her that wasn't the case and that's where we left it.

Concerning poochie's question about pubes down legs. Yes I guess they would hang down but they were curly and curled up in her knickers. This shit can creep up on you. I once found a hair that was about 10cm long coming out of the middle of my forehead

How the heck that grew without me noticing is crazy haha

So yeah I'm guessing she was similarly unawares... and shall remain so for the time being

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"It didn't help that she had Guinness book of world record length pubes. We've gotta be talking about 20cm

Send her my way ! I love hairy minge !

While I was in the bath last night, washing my pubic hair, I thought about measuring it and doing a "How long is your pubic hair?" thread.

Is it possible to have 20cm pubes??"

Think mine were about that when I was pregnant!

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"And it sounds like you did the right thing, Soulful

Thanks Morticia

How the heck that grew without me noticing is crazy haha

So yeah I'm guessing she was similarly unawares... and shall remain so for the time being

What kind of rulers are you using Mr or is it a case of ‘men and their measurements’?

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over a year ago

"What kind of rulers are you using Mr or is it a case of ‘men and their measurements’?

Well as you know I am getting old and the print on my wooden rulers is a bit faded

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"What kind of rulers are you using Mr or is it a case of ‘men and their measurements’?

Well as you know I am getting old and the print on my wooden rulers is a bit faded

That’s more like it kinky

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