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"Why are some women's profiles on here so disrespectful and rude." ooo rude , lol i was thinking you said nude . But yes there are some on here like that . Rude and find the ones thay hang around with here just the same. My mum say birds of a feather say together and some truth in that. | |||
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" so far up themselves they are able to do their own internal cardiac massage. " *giggles at the mental image* | |||
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"Why are some women's profiles on here so disrespectful and rude." This is where pre-emptive blocking comes in handy! | |||
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"It is my belief the more rude and aggressive they are...... the more hassle/timewasters/idiots they will attract." I agree with you on this,its like a red rag to a bull to some people | |||
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"Beacause not all of us single men on here are just walking cock's after quick mindless one off shags. Women on here are always asking for respect, so I only think it's fair to get some back don't you." dont worry sunshine, i'll respect you in the morning | |||
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"I just think that if us single guys were as rude and, as you say, so far up ourselves, in our own profiles we would get absolutely nowhere." Yes your so right xx | |||
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"I just think that if us single guys were as rude and, as you say, so far up ourselves, in our own profiles we would get absolutely nowhere. Yes your so right xx" thank-you x | |||
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"I just think that if us single guys were as rude and, as you say, so far up ourselves, in our own profiles we would get absolutely nowhere." Why not exercise your right, as everyone else has, to simply click off of a profile if it offends your sensitive side? If you also block them you won't be open to being shocked by their profile in future...... Just a thought | |||
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"ia gonna do a test profile and just put 'fuck off all you drty swingers' on it and see if i still get offers " Any replies yet? | |||
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"I just think that if us single guys were as rude and, as you say, so far up ourselves, in our own profiles we would get absolutely nowhere." A bit like when we're polite and nice then? Its just the way it goes I guess, there's lots of things like this on the site where it's one thing for one sex and different for another. | |||
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"A bit like when we're polite and nice then? " i was gonna say the same thing | |||
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"Beacause not all of us single men on here are just walking cock's after quick mindless one off shags. Women on here are always asking for respect, so I only think it's fair to get some back don't you." for every rude women profile I bet I can show you one that I would consider a rude man profile... rude man... rude and lazy man... rude lazy and disrespectful man.... I think you get the drift.... | |||
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"Why are some women's profiles on here so disrespectful and rude." what do you class as rude and disrespectful? perhaps its a perception thing? we are all sensitive to differant things and probbaly as women get more and more experienced they get tougher and tougher in their profiles lovely ass by the way want it warming? | |||
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"It's not just women, I had a guy message me the other day, who's whole profile slagged of women on this site, saying we were all up ourselves and think we were goddesses and should take a look in the mirror as were not all that, needless to say, he got a no" Did he have a pic on his profile? | |||
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"Why are some women's profiles on here so disrespectful and rude." It is anybody's right to be rude. Just as it is your right to leave the profile and maybe block them if it annoys you so much | |||
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"Why are some women's profiles on here so disrespectful and rude." because single woman on here are in high demande and they get a lot of attention so women who most guys whouldnt look twice at on the street all of a sudden get inundated with offers and they turn into Englands next top model in their head they get above themselves and it goes to their head they start getting demanding, because on here they can and the arrogance and rudeness comes tho i get messages daily from guys who are clearly out of my league, the thing is im a realist and i know they're mailing me because im a verified single woman and not because they think im gorgeous most guys on here would sooner mail a 'ordinary' woman whos verified than a stunner whos not, because they know they have a better chance of meeting the 'ordinary' one some women dont realise lots of guys on here will shag anything | |||
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"they are either... so fed up of being hassled and think that is the way to deal with it. so fed up their profile not being read and preferences noted. so far up themselves they are able to do their own internal cardiac massage. and probably many other reasons. It is my belief the more rude and aggressive they are...... the more hassle/timewasters/idiots they will attract." The wise sage, brother _iew has summed it up! | |||
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"Why are some women's profiles on here so disrespectful and rude. because single woman on here are in high demande and they get a lot of attention so women who most guys whouldnt look twice at on the street all of a sudden get inundated with offers and they turn into Englands next top model in their head they get above themselves and it goes to their head they start getting demanding, because on here they can and the arrogance and rudeness comes tho well put i get messages daily from guys who are clearly out of my league, the thing is im a realist and i know they're mailing me because im a verified single woman and not because they think im gorgeous most guys on here would sooner mail a 'ordinary' woman whos verified than a stunner whos not, because they know they have a better chance of meeting the 'ordinary' one some women dont realise lots of guys on here will shag anything " | |||
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"Why are some women's profiles on here so disrespectful and rude. because single woman on here are in high demande and they get a lot of attention so women who most guys whouldnt look twice at on the street all of a sudden get inundated with offers and they turn into Englands next top model in their head they get above themselves and it goes to their head they start getting demanding, because on here they can and the arrogance and rudeness comes tho i get messages daily from guys who are clearly out of my league, the thing is im a realist and i know they're mailing me because im a verified single woman and not because they think im gorgeous most guys on here would sooner mail a 'ordinary' woman whos verified than a stunner whos not, because they know they have a better chance of meeting the 'ordinary' one some women dont realise lots of guys on here will shag anything " love your posts here .. alot of truth in what you say good post xx, | |||
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"I just think that if us single guys were as rude and, as you say, so far up ourselves, in our own profiles we would get absolutely nowhere." but the million dollar question...are the women getting shags,would you with the same profile? i just giggle at men spitting their dummies out at a thousands of years of patriarchy being reversed | |||
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"they are either... so fed up of being hassled and think that is the way to deal with it. so fed up their profile not being read and preferences noted. so far up themselves they are able to do their own internal cardiac massage. and probably many other reasons. It is my belief the more rude and aggressive they are...... the more hassle/timewasters/idiots they will attract." Probably a lot of truth there | |||
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"I reckon if there is anything important you want to state on your profile, you'd be better writing on ur body and putting the pics up!!! That way you have a better chance of them reading that bit!! lol" Ha Ha very true for the picture scrollers, my OH does that, I like to read the profile first. | |||
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"Yes there are rude profiles and I have read some that I've instantly known I could never get on with these people. It shows peoples true colours so I think its quite a good thing. " +1 If they're like that in their profile, dread to think what they're like when I meet them. Dodged a bullet methinks! | |||
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"It is my belief the more rude and aggressive they are...... the more hassle/timewasters/idiots they will attract. I agree with you on this,its like a red rag to a bull to some people" ** Yes i agree... rudeness attracts certain people like moths to a flame and also like someone else commented, thank god for the block button! I can only speak from personal experience, but i get a tit full of people assuming im a time waster. As strange as it may seem... I do actually HAVE a life + although I enjoy Fab, I CAN'T always meet at the drop of a hat. It might take weeks or months to sometimes arrange a meet. I know, how rude of me! I treat meets like vampires... They have to be invited into my home (not assume) xx | |||
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"ia gonna do a test profile and just put 'fuck off all you drty swingers' on it and see if i still get offers " Hey sweet cheeks like your profile, fancy a bunk up??? (joke) | |||
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"I reckon if there is anything important you want to state on your profile, you'd be better writing on ur body and putting the pics up!!! That way you have a better chance of them reading that bit!! lol" you could be on to somthing there . lol fab could have a new pic thing wright on your body things you wish people to know. | |||
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"Why are some women's profiles on here so disrespectful and rude. because single woman on here are in high demande and they get a lot of attention so women who most guys whouldnt look twice at on the street all of a sudden get inundated with offers and they turn into Englands next top model in their head they get above themselves and it goes to their head they start getting demanding, because on here they can and the arrogance and rudeness comes tho i get messages daily from guys who are clearly out of my league, the thing is im a realist and i know they're mailing me because im a verified single woman and not because they think im gorgeous most guys on here would sooner mail a 'ordinary' woman whos verified than a stunner whos not, because they know they have a better chance of meeting the 'ordinary' one some women dont realise lots of guys on here will shag anything " Your a lovely lady dont put yourself down ... your not ordinary your a really nice lady and as for league your up with the rest here xx was thinking about this post last night in bed . lol for me could be one of the best of the year as sum some up so well .. why thay become so nasty. | |||
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"Why are some women's profiles on here so disrespectful and rude." Thing is its A FACT that there are far far more male profiles on here than female profiles so women can wel afford to be picky and choosy and fussy as thats just the way it is. I cant say I have seen any rude profiles but I must say some look like they are advertiseing for husbands to me with the whole check lists etc etc As for the rude bit well I must say that a female friend of mine on here as shown me the tons of msgs she recieves on a daily basis from men and about 90% of those men are right rude towards her in there msgs if she dont reply to say yes you can shag me. I cant say I blame some women if they seem rude as they get a hard time on here from men who cant seem to grasp that women have the upper hand on here and thats just the way it is guys im sorry but if we men were a little more respectfull towards them when sending initial msgs then we may get some were but its not a case of hi im here girls and the best thing on fab so im coming over now yeah hahaha it takes a whole lot more than that dont it? Am I right or wrong girls??? | |||
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"ia gonna do a test profile and just put 'fuck off all you drty swingers' on it and see if i still get offers Hey sweet cheeks like your profile, fancy a bunk up??? (joke)" oh bugger ya nicked me killer chat up line :-d Wolf | |||
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"The best thing you could do is provide editted examples. Not everything is rude, it can be misinterpretation and nothing more. D " Ok heres an eddited example You will wear barbed wire under crackers whilst dressed as a Roman Centurian complete with sandles and I dont mean Jesus sandles with socks as blokes like that reaaly piss me off and dont get my attention at all unless they are stealing my knickers off the washing line yet again!. I dont want no cock pics please as I no what a cock looks like cos I have one in the garden with a few chickens as well in the pen ooow yeah and a goat but thats for my special friend who comes around on Saturdays. Anyhow you will wine and dine me you wont 69me I want this I want that I want none of that I want plenty of that andd I want feckin all of that and switch on boy cos all of these demands will change by tomorrow so keep feckin alert yeah and put the word PMT in your msg so I no you have read this bit yeah. Ooow and by the way I cant accom and I dont travel i any way shape or form so work that fucker out how I am going to meet ya then unless you live in the same house or next door haha. I aint looking to meet unless we have spoken first and I have my tin whistle ready so you will dance to my tune. Ok look fwd to hearing from you but dont expect a reply cos truth is I am not that bothered about meeting and am just filling in abit of time until changing rooms starts at 3pm before the husband and kids get in and Ive a house full again xx IS THAT EDITED OR JUST MADE UP? haha x | |||
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"Why are some women's profiles on here so disrespectful and rude." Agree there are some very rude and aggressive profiles on here. But it's not only women, have seen quite a few from men and couples too. Think it's a good thing as then we know who to avoid. | |||
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"ok... this thread has got me thinking, do i come across as rude or disrespectful? " me me me me me me meeee aint it hahaha I wouldnt say no to ya tho hun x | |||
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"Probably better to find out they are rude and ignorant on here, rather than find out when you travel to meet them, what a waste of time if you arrive and find you dont like them, contact the ones with a nice profile you will probably find they are decent people. There are abusive ignorant people of both sexes best to ignore them all." ain't that the truth... The only two things we think of when dealing with others are - Do as you would be done by, and courtesy costs nowt... Wolf | |||
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"ok... this thread has got me thinking, do i come across as rude or disrespectful? " No don't think your profile comes across as rude or disrespectful. But if I'm completely honest then some bits do make you sound a bit scary and unapproachable (which I am sure is not the case at all, just how I read it xx) | |||
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"Why are some women's profiles on here so disrespectful and rude." why are some single males cocks ! why is the sky blue! why why why!!!! | |||
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"ok... this thread has got me thinking, do i come across as rude or disrespectful? No don't think your profile comes across as rude or disrespectful. But if I'm completely honest then some bits do make you sound a bit scary and unapproachable (which I am sure is not the case at all, just how I read it xx)" lol, really im a pussy cat honest! | |||
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" Its not just single men, all types can be rude. There's no need to write 'No ugly fuckers message me as I won't have sex with a disgusting munter' or 'Fat flabby bastards piss off' on the profile. It says more about the person including that on the profile than a 'preference' as its often thinly disguised as " thanks for making me spit my juice over the keyboard at the last paragraph | |||
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" Its not just single men, all types can be rude. There's no need to write 'No ugly fuckers message me as I won't have sex with a disgusting munter' or 'Fat flabby bastards piss off' on the profile. It says more about the person including that on the profile than a 'preference' as its often thinly disguised as thanks for making me spit my juice over the keyboard at the last paragraph" hahahaha | |||
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"I reckon if there is anything important you want to state on your profile, you'd be better writing on ur body and putting the pics up!!! That way you have a better chance of them reading that bit!! lol" Christ; with the length of my old profile I would have needed an ass 8ft wide and 6ft tall to write it on! Thankfully Ive trimmed it (the profile, not my ass) so its off to the mirror with a Sharpie to give it a go! | |||
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" Its not just single men, all types can be rude. There's no need to write 'No ugly fuckers message me as I won't have sex with a disgusting munter' or 'Fat flabby bastards piss off' on the profile. It says more about the person including that on the profile than a 'preference' as its often thinly disguised as thanks for making me spit my juice over the keyboard at the last paragraph hahahaha " i meant drink not any other juices | |||
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"I just think that if us single guys were as rude and, as you say, so far up ourselves, in our own profiles we would get absolutely nowhere. but the million dollar question...are the women getting shags,would you with the same profile? i just giggle at men spitting their dummies out at a thousands of years of patriarchy being reversed " We will be ok with it in about oh,say 350 years. Until then we expect you to be grateful that any man offers to meet you. | |||
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" Its not just single men, all types can be rude. There's no need to write 'No ugly fuckers message me as I won't have sex with a disgusting munter' or 'Fat flabby bastards piss off' on the profile. It says more about the person including that on the profile than a 'preference' as its often thinly disguised as thanks for making me spit my juice over the keyboard at the last paragraph" tis true tho theres a couple that uses the forum that has on their profile no fatties we want fab swingers not flab swingers thing that nakes me laugh is they not even anything special i mean comeone if your going to be rude about other peoples looks at least be worthy of it but iconic's right such comments do say more about the person and even if i was to their tatse theres no way id meet such rude people.....sod that | |||
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"Why are some women's profiles on here so disrespectful and rude." I don't know why, but agree with you...there are lots of rude/ shouty / demanding profiles about. | |||
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"I reckon if there is anything important you want to state on your profile, you'd be better writing on ur body and putting the pics up!!! That way you have a better chance of them reading that bit!! lol Christ; with the length of my old profile I would have needed an ass 8ft wide and 6ft tall to write it on! Thankfully Ive trimmed it (the profile, not my ass) so its off to the mirror with a Sharpie to give it a go! " will lend you my ass if you want your old profile.... | |||
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"The best thing you could do is provide editted examples. Not everything is rude, it can be misinterpretation and nothing more. D Ok heres an eddited example You will wear barbed wire under crackers whilst dressed as a Roman Centurian complete with sandles and I dont mean Jesus sandles with socks as blokes like that reaaly piss me off and dont get my attention at all unless they are stealing my knickers off the washing line yet again!. I dont want no cock pics please as I no what a cock looks like cos I have one in the garden with a few chickens as well in the pen ooow yeah and a goat but thats for my special friend who comes around on Saturdays. Anyhow you will wine and dine me you wont 69me I want this I want that I want none of that I want plenty of that andd I want feckin all of that and switch on boy cos all of these demands will change by tomorrow so keep feckin alert yeah and put the word PMT in your msg so I no you have read this bit yeah. Ooow and by the way I cant accom and I dont travel i any way shape or form so work that fucker out how I am going to meet ya then unless you live in the same house or next door haha. I aint looking to meet unless we have spoken first and I have my tin whistle ready so you will dance to my tune. Ok look fwd to hearing from you but dont expect a reply cos truth is I am not that bothered about meeting and am just filling in abit of time until changing rooms starts at 3pm before the husband and kids get in and Ive a house full again xx IS THAT EDITED OR JUST MADE UP? haha x" So thats what im supposed to put on my profile? Bugger! and ive been doing it wrong all this time!! *makes a note to change profile asap* | |||
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"Every single one of us gets messages that are outside our preferences, we all have people messaging that do not read our profiles. But a lot of us don't feel the need to shout in profiles, to put a long list of donts to ward off single guys who don't read and. ignore and there's no need to call people names ie, use positive wording such as ..... We wish to meet slim people and not Fuck off Fatties. Its a lack of intelligence and ignorance. The more negativity you put on a profile, the more the positive, happy, fun people we wll meet will click off your profile cos they can't be arsed with the dramatics " what you have profile text | |||
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