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clubbing as a single female?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I really wanna go to some of these clubs but loads of people are saying don’t go alone, is it really that much of a bad idea?

Haha can’t go with friends they don’t even know about fab lol... oh how 19 year olds are lol

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Are the people saying don’t go alone wanting to go with you?

If there’s someone you know well enough on here fine, otherwise no problem going alone. Not sure what club entry age is for females though.

If you do go alone, keep alcohol intake to a minimum or none at all. And organise your transport carefully, either drive yourself or make arrangements so you won’t get hassled or follows when you come out the club. That’s not alarmist, just safety precautions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are the people saying don’t go alone wanting to go with you?

If there’s someone you know well enough on here fine, otherwise no problem going alone. Not sure what club entry age is for females though.

If you do go alone, keep alcohol intake to a minimum or none at all. And organise your transport carefully, either drive yourself or make arrangements so you won’t get hassled or follows when you come out the club. That’s not alarmist, just safety precautions "

Ahh thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry about being on your own. We’ve met single women on their own before.

As said earlier don’t get d*unk and don’t be afraid to say no.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Plenty of single women go on their own....as others have said take sensible safety precautions, but that's no different to everyday life, and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t worry about being on your own. We’ve met single women on their own before.

As said earlier don’t get d*unk and don’t be afraid to say no."

Awesome thanks xx

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By *_and_LCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

OP as a single, I almost only went clubbing alone and had a great time. Everyone was always friendly and I got chatting to loads of people. Go and have a great time!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"So I really wanna go to some of these clubs but loads of people are saying don’t go alone, is it really that much of a bad idea?

Haha can’t go with friends they don’t even know about fab lol... oh how 19 year olds are lol "

Absolutely no problem going on your own. It is probably the safest form of swinging for single girls. You also get the chance to size up, and talk to, potential partners before committing to play, and you can move from just watching or one on ones with guys or girls, to threesomes, moresomes and gang bangs as the mood suits you. Have fun

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

There's a lot of single ladies that go in cupids as they feel safe I'd say read some club reviews and make ur own mind up xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys xxx

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

I go on my own and have done for years, I prefer it that way. Its great fun and I'm never alone, always someone to talk or play with.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3


"I go on my own and have done for years, I prefer it that way. Its great fun and I'm never alone, always someone to talk or play with. "

P.S

Don't forget to check the age for entry, as someone above said, some clubs are over 21 only.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m the same ... curiosity kills me but apprehensive of taking the leap of faith alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to clubs on my own for a long time and never had any problems. People were always friendly and I always felt safe. I don’t do clubs so much now but go to parties as a single bi female and have a great time! Try it and see......

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By *arkDesiresPartiesCouple
over a year ago

London

Go party!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Op I go to clubs alone. It's safe there are always staff to help you if you aren't comfortable. People are friendly they will talk to you.

I've been fortunate to make some lovely friends by going on my own.

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Lots of ladies go to Swingers Clubs on their own, many say they feel safer there than in a local pub or nightclub. They get treated with more respect and know that they are looked out for.

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By *rincess Fiona 76Woman
over a year ago

clitheroe

I’ve been on my own 6 times (only go to cupids). Prefer to do it alone tbh - I’m not tied to thinking about someone else then and can go when I want.

It still terrifies me but I do it and love the buzz I get.

As a single female (even tho i always think it will happen) you’re never going to be stood there on your own.

Make sure you spend time reading reviews beforehand and once you’ve decided where and when - put a meet on fab so you can chat to a few people beforehand.

Good luck - you’ll wonder why you didn’t do it sooner!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go on my own and have done for years, I prefer it that way. Its great fun and I'm never alone, always someone to talk or play with.

P.S

Don't forget to check the age for entry, as someone above said, some clubs are over 21 only."
I could be completely wrong, but I thought they was all over 21’s ??

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"I go on my own and have done for years, I prefer it that way. Its great fun and I'm never alone, always someone to talk or play with.

P.S

Don't forget to check the age for entry, as someone above said, some clubs are over 21 only. I could be completely wrong, but I thought they was all over 21’s ?? "

Some are over 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I really wanna go to some of these clubs but loads of people are saying don’t go alone, is it really that much of a bad idea?

Haha can’t go with friends they don’t even know about fab lol... oh how 19 year olds are lol "
it’s a tough one really as everyone has a different experience, regardless if you do get courage to go, I hope you have a lovely safe time and the experience is ruined by some twat, mostly cant say for all A’s haven’t no visited all, but owners are normally lovely very welcoming help you feel like your at home rather than a strange new place.... good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I really wanna go to some of these clubs but loads of people are saying don’t go alone, is it really that much of a bad idea?

Haha can’t go with friends they don’t even know about fab lol... oh how 19 year olds are lol it’s a tough one really as everyone has a different experience, regardless if you do get courage to go, I hope you have a lovely safe time and the experience isnt ruined by some twat, mostly cant say for all A’s haven’t no visited all, but owners are normally lovely very welcoming help you feel like your at home rather than a strange new place.... good luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go on my own and have done for years, I prefer it that way. Its great fun and I'm never alone, always someone to talk or play with.

P.S

Don't forget to check the age for entry, as someone above said, some clubs are over 21 only. I could be completely wrong, but I thought they was all over 21’s ??

Some are over 18. "
I was wrong then lol, cheers mate thanks corn clarifying for me

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