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By *andy_kisses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Walsall

Is it possible to meet a couple and to be played with by the lady !!!! I love the whole idea of another woman playing with me but not sure if I could return the favour - Am I selfish or just naive ????

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

you may find someone willing to play with you but dont you think its a little selfish not to return the favour? just my opinion (sparks)

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We met a lovely couple in Chams ages ago, she liked to be on the receiving end but couldn't reciprocate - I knew this beforehand so it wasn't a problem, I like giving pleasure. I think the key is being clear about your boundaries. Good luck. Z

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By *andy_kisses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Walsall

I do think its selfish yes lol just wondered what others thought x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I do think its selfish yes lol just wondered what others thought x"

I don't think it's that selfish! If someone agrees to meet you on that basis then they can't have a problem with it. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think its selfish yes lol just wondered what others thought x"

sounds perfect for me, i love to give but am not so keen on receiving ( though when i do i usually enjoy it) but i much prefer to see someone pleased ( and mark doesnt mind either )

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By *amchris7979Couple
over a year ago

london

pam always gives to a woman and dont mind getting anything back as long as i am behind her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what if you are being selfish, if people who meet you are happy with the arrangement then go for it, swinging is about you.

I am the same, I don't want to go down on a woman but I've had women ask if they can go down on me and I've let them. Was great, very soft and sensual, but I don't want to do it myself so if they ask I tell them this

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By *andy_kisses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Walsall

Well its nice to know I am not the only one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite happy to give to a woman and not receive, if it is good for her it makes me feel good.

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By *andy_kisses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Walsall

Lol shame you are so far away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it is selfish if you have made your boundaries clear prior to the sex and the person/people you are meeting are fine with that.

What I *do* think is selfish is when women say they like to give as well as take, but then when it comes down to it, they are only interested in lying back and being pleasured. I have experienced this in meets more times than I would like to have done, and it would have been far less of an issue for me if they had made their preferences/boundaries clear to begin with.

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By *andy_kisses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Walsall

I totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well its nice to know I am not the only one x"

oh your not the only one... i had curious on my profile when i joined but had to take it off after the amount of mail i got from couples with bi fems.. nobody was willing to listen to or respect my boundries/fears/uncertanty so ive decided its propably never gonna happen

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By *andy_kisses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Walsall

Yeah I think the same - oh well we can dream hehe x

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

think there should be a "bi-selfish" option hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think there should be a "bi-selfish" option hehe "

that would be a really perfect option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is a scene full of many different preferences. There are always others who have the same views.

Best of luck

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Is it possible to meet a couple and to be played with by the lady !!!! I love the whole idea of another woman playing with me but not sure if I could return the favour - Am I selfish or just naive ???? "

When i have met women exploring their bi side for the first time i never expect anything...except lots of orgasms and a nice thank you

Just be honest,find an experienced woman and go with the flow....if you are ever in the north east.....

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By *andy_kisses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Walsall

Awwww thanks babe and will keep you in mind lol xxx

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"I do think its selfish yes lol just wondered what others thought x

I don't think it's that selfish! If someone agrees to meet you on that basis then they can't have a problem with it. Z"

This is very true z if your both ok with it and understand that there will be no return match so to speak then alls good. Just feel its unfair when there is no understanding in the first place and one lady dose all the work then it isnt returned ( yes its happened to us), lots of ladies on here protest to be bi but in effect will only recieve and not return which i feel is not bi realy!!!! (sparks)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a bi woman, i am happy to give and receive but as long as i know beforehand that the other person doesnt want to give back i can then choose to go ahead or not, normally if i really do like the girl im more than happy for it to be one way, then ill get either my partner or someone else to finish the job for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible to meet a couple and to be played with by the lady !!!! I love the whole idea of another woman playing with me but not sure if I could return the favour - Am I selfish or just naive ???? "

I prefer to play with a lady, nad not have her return the favour as it does nothing for me.. Sure there must be others.

cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play with bi curious females and never ask them to return the favour! Most of the time they want to experience the feeling of being pleasured by a woman not having to please a woman. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im much more of a giver than a taker when with women.

unfortunately one of the reasons for this i think, has been that many of the couples Ive met have been quite new to it and actually the woman was unsure or inexperienced and it was just easier to take the lead, let them have their fantasy and put my own needs to the back.

i don't meet couples anymore lol x

i would consider meeting a couple where the women only wanted to receive from me, if she was happy with me "receiving" from her fella... rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im much more of a giver than a taker when with women.

unfortunately one of the reasons for this i think, has been that many of the couples Ive met have been quite new to it and actually the woman was unsure or inexperienced and it was just easier to take the lead, let them have their fantasy and put my own needs to the back.

i don't meet couples anymore lol x

i would consider meeting a couple where the women only wanted to receive from me, if she was happy with me "receiving" from her fella... rare "

not necessarily rare

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done this just played with the Lady in front of john .... and one of my play mates ... worked out well .. He had sex with me after and us girl had fun together after ... all she was looking for was Bi fun ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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not necessarily rare

Wolf

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well thats nice to know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i think your not selfish at all. Its about what you want. I have given oral to lots of women and some dont return the favour but that was fine with me. Atleast you are honest and know what you want. And it seems there are loads of women who wouldnt mind. for me its about what everyone wants and if ur honest which you are then they should repect that and will know before hand so it shouldnt be a problem. Have fun hun. Xx

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By *andy_kisses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Walsall

Thank you for all your comments - I live in hope that one day it will happen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think its selfish yes lol just wondered what others thought x

I don't think it's that selfish! If someone agrees to meet you on that basis then they can't have a problem with it. Z"

I agree with that ground rules if you say what you want and they happy then no harm done xxx good luck xxx

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