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First time clubbing as a single male...

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By *tudmuffinka OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke

So last night was the first time I went to a club as a single male. I have been previously a few times as a couple.

I was naturally a little nervous at first, and pressing the bell was pretty hard...... god knows why.....

Having met some lovely people before, I hoped to do so again.

Little did I know that when I entered that I would be welcomed back with such open arms. Both owner and hosts were brilliant. They made me feel like I was a regular.

So this really was just a thank you, to the owner, hosts and some of you lovely swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's good news OP. Let's hope your post inspires other single men and gives them some confidence to give a club a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't no how you bucked up the courage I really want to try it but the only place I know is Atlantis but heard a lot of negativity about it! But good for you to try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't no how you bucked up the courage I really want to try it but the only place I know is Atlantis but heard a lot of negativity about it! But good for you to try! "

Grow a pair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been not down to bottle down to i dont want to bump into people i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't no how you bucked up the courage I really want to try it but the only place I know is Atlantis but heard a lot of negativity about it! But good for you to try!

Grow a pair!"

Ok then well...looks like I'm going Atlantis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been not down to bottle down to i dont want to bump into people i know"

Yeah that's my biggest worry just imagine..."oh she's nice..oooo there having fun...wait ..is that.. is that..DAD!!" Yeah I would die

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By *tudmuffinka OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke

You are joking aren't you mate?

Atlantis is my venue of choice. It's a great place, and people are friendly.

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By *tudmuffinka OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke


"Never been not down to bottle down to i dont want to bump into people i know

Yeah that's my biggest worry just imagine..."oh she's nice..oooo there having fun...wait ..is that.. is that..DAD!!" Yeah I would die "

If they are in the club, then they will no doubt have already seen you on here......

Plus what if you do see someone you know............. they are there too....... so it's not likely that they would say anything.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are joking aren't you mate?

Atlantis is my venue of choice. It's a great place, and people are friendly."

It's just people I've discussed clubs with and mainly what I read on the forum don't shoot the messenger I'm yet to experience the club scene so I cannot possibly have an opinion yet!

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By *tudmuffinka OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke


"You are joking aren't you mate?

Atlantis is my venue of choice. It's a great place, and people are friendly.

It's just people I've discussed clubs with and mainly what I read on the forum don't shoot the messenger I'm yet to experience the club scene so I cannot possibly have an opinion yet! "

No worries mate, obviously, if you can find a girl to go with, it's easier, because there is someone that you know....... however, people can and will talk, so just bite the bullet.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"You are joking aren't you mate?

Atlantis is my venue of choice. It's a great place, and people are friendly."

I have to say, I visited Atlantis by myself, and didn’t have a great evening. It wasn’t a party night like the OP went to mind, and I think this makes all the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is actually easier to go alone. You only have to look after yourself and you can stay or leave without question.

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