FabSwingers.com forum: Send a message or not?

By *ed wine OP Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Right now I am in Birmingham Centre. In my sorroundings there are a couple very near. My profile is close to what they are looking for.

However there are no more women or couples nearby; just men.

And when I am writing a message, I realise that in that moment, possibly their inbox is getting flooded by other guys' messages. I am not a shy man but I try to have in high consideration others' intimacy, so I decide not to send my presentation.

So guys, would you have sent the message?

And couples/girls, would you have appreciated such message or are you overwhelmed by dozens of men's messages?

Adrian xx

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We always appreciate messages from people who genuinely have similar interests to us. It doesn't mean we'll met them though. What do you have to lose?

By *ed wine OP Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Well, my self-esteem does not get on well with rejections and I try to take care of it. Self-esteem is a good refuge when Life is not kind...