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By *onny Bones OP   Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

I have asked many couples that I have met on the scene how they mutually got involved in swinging, and each response is different.

For a while I have had a 'fuck buddy' where over the years we have grown closer. Recently I have noticed a really adventurous side to her. Mostly in conversation about trying new things. I have never discussed swinging with her yet I suspect that she has looked into the scene. She speaks of holidaying together on the Cap D'agde and other places where I have looked into for fun getaways!

Would others think that now would be a good time to speak about swinging or should I respect the relationship we have already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

suggest trying a club, just as a one off!-she might discover its HER thing totally lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

ffs i shes bringing up holidaying in the famous swinging resort the subject has been broached

If you are fuck buddies you are already swinging...its about open honest nsa sex...maybe she already gets this

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By *onny Bones OP   Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Sounds so easy when you put it that way. The idea of a club to gauge reactions sounds good.

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By *i_sSwingWoman
over a year ago

Any place 4 the right Person

I would be careful of the club and the time you bring her there. A single guys night with loads of pests could be quite off putting or a real busy period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to discuss swinging with her then just have a general discussion about it. Say 'what do you think about swinging'. She may say I love the thought of a club, shall we go. Or she may just offer her views on it.

Noone should ever try and persuade others to swing.

And maybe her suggestion of holidaying in Cap D'Age is an interest in naturism and naturist holidays. After all Cap D'Age is a naturist resort and not a swinging resort.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Probably a good idea to suggest it early on in a relationship. G suggested we went to a club, and R was willing to give it a try (and liked it!) which is how we got into swinging.

G suggested swinging to his ex after many years of marriage. She got offended that he'd gone off her and wanted other women. Best to start swinging early, in our opinion.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to discuss swinging with her then just have a general discussion about it. Say 'what do you think about swinging'. She may say I love the thought of a club, shall we go. Or she may just offer her views on it.

Noone should ever try and persuade others to swing.

And maybe her suggestion of holidaying in Cap D'Age is an interest in naturism and naturist holidays. After all Cap D'Age is a naturist resort and not a swinging resort. "

+1

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"I have asked many couples that I have met on the scene how they mutually got involved in swinging, and each response is different.

For a while I have had a 'fuck buddy' where over the years we have grown closer. Recently I have noticed a really adventurous side to her. Mostly in conversation about trying new things. I have never discussed swinging with her yet I suspect that she has looked into the scene. She speaks of holidaying together on the Cap D'agde and other places where I have looked into for fun getaways!

Would others think that now would be a good time to speak about swinging or should I respect the relationship we have already?"

Mention Cap D'agde is known for swingers after you looked it up on a website. Try to gauge her reaction and take it from there.

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By *onny Bones OP   Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Thank you all for the advice. After discussing things today, she seems very interested in clubs.

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Thank you all for the advice. After discussing things today, she seems very interested in clubs. "

Enjoy......

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