FabSwingers.com forum: Am I wrong?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So; I have been chatting with a couple for a few weeks and the guy half of said couple suggested he and I met for a social, somewhere halfway between us, so he could get to know me and vice versa. I of course agreed to this request and waited for him to decide on a time and place..

A few days later I received a ‘location’ on a form of social media from said guy, which was basically a country road somewhere. Now, I declined this and suggested we meet up somewhere close to that point at a Costa coffee or the such. Then everything went quiet..

I have since made contact with male half again to see what his thoughts were and he is now saying it’s off as I don’t trust him and he doesn’t trust me...

Now that’s not the case, but I wouldn’t want to meet anyone, for the first time, down a country lane at 8pm... allsorts was running. Through my mind..

Am I being stupid and over the top? Or is he? Thoughts please?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really need to ask ?

Either they meet me in costa or a pub in town or in a milkshake factory where they do bueno milkshake... Or they don't meet me.

He wanted to mug you probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t sound right that personally to me. I’d have done what you did to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good this is what I thought. They have verifications too, but we all know how easy they are to make up..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds dodgy as fuck

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Stick to what you feel comfortable with . If the other person isn't interested in you feeling comfortable then not a person is be meeting.

Personally if it's supposed to be a couple then I'd be meeting them both not just the guy .

Me thinks there is no fem

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Nope ~ you're right. Anyone is not happy to meet in a public place is not being reasonable and I'd immediately be waving my red flag!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I would report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds shady...public places all the way for your 1st meet with any one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does sound dodgy, no way should you meeting in the middle of nowhere. Also it sounds to me like the female half probably isn't playing, otherwise why wasn't she coming. He probably wanted to bend you over the bonnet and poke you up the arse with his cock. Or get you to suck it. XXX

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Creepy fucker! Always use ur common sense if it feels iffy do not meet anyone!

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By *mokey_KinksMan
over a year ago

Essex

sound a bit strange maybe not a couple stick to what you feel safe with

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

No don't name and shame, just report

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