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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Without going into detail and therfore getting this thread closed Have you ever viewed a profile or gone to arrange a meet and thought ooooow hang on a min I no him or her or them they live round the corner or work near me etc etc

And if so what did you do the next time you seen them in the street or workplace etc etc knowing that they dont no that you no??????

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By *DSRMan
over a year ago

leicester

Nope, but i have chatted to two girls from different sites that where girls that knew me, i enjoyed a catch up and although i recon they wanted to talk again... I didn't getback in conatc with them.. i can pull those types of girls al summer long out on the piss

pointless doing them online

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By *inkyrikMan
over a year ago

chorleywood

well if you liked the pics you can think about there intrests and know what they look like naked.

personally it turns me on thinking someone close might have seen me and reconised me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, but i have chatted to two girls from different sites that where girls that knew me, i enjoyed a catch up and although i recon they wanted to talk again... I didn't getback in conatc with them.. i can pull those types of girls al summer long out on the piss

pointless doing them online"

I can see that you are shy and modest m8 no doubt a big hit with the ladies on here yeah hahaha

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By *DSRMan
over a year ago

leicester


"Nope, but i have chatted to two girls from different sites that where girls that knew me, i enjoyed a catch up and although i recon they wanted to talk again... I didn't getback in conatc with them.. i can pull those types of girls al summer long out on the piss

pointless doing them online

I can see that you are shy and modest m8 no doubt a big hit with the ladies on here yeah hahaha"

LOL

funny bugger :P

& yeah, i don't do well online, i don't do well offline.. but anyone can pull a d*unk slag mate, and my home town is full of them mate, i mean seriously, it's packed with them!!! people in other towns around leicester often comment, your from (where i live) then say wicked loads of pussy there mate!

peace

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No comment exept maybe a lol or three!. Just a suggestion dude but maybe if ya changed your profile some what to not be all me me me me and come accross as if your trying to find a full time girl friend or wife then you may do better on here!.

Thats not meant as an insult to you by the way and no disrespect in any way shape or form just my observation but then hey dont matter to me does it as im not female and am far from gay haha all the best yeah good luck dude

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

I have.

I came across a profile that had winked us a few month previous and relised its a new guy within our company.

In work the next day as i was leaving to go home i told him to have a fab day lol

Over the next few wks whenever i was around the desk where he works (and a few others) the subject always seem to get on sex (as it does) and he asked if anyone had ever thought of swinging to be told by 1 of my coleagues that im into swinging holidays .....hes face lit up.

Not to sure wheather hes sussed me out

But i know he and his wife play but would never cross that line

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have.

I came across a profile that had winked us a few month previous and relised its a new guy within our company.

In work the next day as i was leaving to go home i told him to have a fab day lol

Over the next few wks whenever i was around the desk where he works (and a few others) the subject always seem to get on sex (as it does) and he asked if anyone had ever thought of swinging to be told by 1 of my coleagues that im into swinging holidays .....hes face lit up.

Not to sure wheather hes sussed me out

But i know he and his wife play but would never cross that line"

haha well theres a couple I used to play with regular from off here when I was on last time and they told me they came across a profile and both fems got chatting with a view to meeting up as a 4some only to find it was in the next street and tho not personal friends the two knew each other quite well and decided it was far too close for comfort but had a giggle and smile at each other the next time they were at the school gates waiting for the kids lol

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By *DSRMan
over a year ago

leicester


"No comment exept maybe a lol or three!. Just a suggestion dude but maybe if ya changed your profile some what to not be all me me me me and come accross as if your trying to find a full time girl friend or wife then you may do better on here!.

Thats not meant as an insult to you by the way and no disrespect in any way shape or form just my observation but then hey dont matter to me does it as im not female and am far from gay haha all the best yeah good luck dude

"

Lol i have been asking about my profile for ages on here mate, i am very happy to have some feedback, thanks

i recon it's to late though, since i have emailed every local girl on the site over 10 times now and they all hate me MAAA MAA sob sob... i'm not getting any replies now (Not been nasty or anything it[s not my way) just they would have made up their minds by now wouldn't they

But thanks anyway mate, i'll change it incase i get a newbie interested oneday

& i'll ask on here what epople think to the new one... In vain no doubt lol

later pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, many years ago, chatted with a couple on here.

We were cautious about meeting and eventually settled on a "central" pub to us both. Of course, both couples had not been totally honest about their location and we ended up in a pub in our local town.

As soon as we walked in, we recognised the couple....only parents of children in the same class as our daughter!!

needless to say...no play was had...but the "have you had a good weekend?" school gate chat took on a whole new meaning...we knew exactly what we meant, saying very little!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awkward or what?

Suppose it's the risk you take with locals.

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By *anther10158Couple
over a year ago

Burgess hill


"Nope, but i have chatted to two girls from different sites that where girls that knew me, i enjoyed a catch up and although i recon they wanted to talk again... I didn't getback in conatc with them.. i can pull those types of girls al summer long out on the piss

Yeah right !

pointless doing them online"

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By *anther10158Couple
over a year ago

Burgess hill


"Nope, but i have chatted to two girls from different sites that where girls that knew me, i enjoyed a catch up and although i recon they wanted to talk again... I didn't getback in conatc with them.. i can pull those types of girls al summer long out on the piss

pointless doing them online

I can see that you are shy and modest m8 no doubt a big hit with the ladies on here yeah hahaha

LOL

funny bugger :P

& yeah, i don't do well online, i don't do well offline.. but anyone can pull a d*unk slag mate, and my home town is full of them mate, i mean seriously, it's packed with them!!! people in other towns around leicester often comment, your from (where i live) then say wicked loads of pussy there mate!

peace"

If you can pull all this " pussy " why the hell are you on this site ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, but i have chatted to two girls from different sites that where girls that knew me, i enjoyed a catch up and although i recon they wanted to talk again... I didn't getback in conatc with them.. i can pull those types of girls al summer long out on the piss

pointless doing them online

I can see that you are shy and modest m8 no doubt a big hit with the ladies on here yeah hahaha

LOL

funny bugger :P

& yeah, i don't do well online, i don't do well offline.. but anyone can pull a d*unk slag mate, and my home town is full of them mate, i mean seriously, it's packed with them!!! people in other towns around leicester often comment, your from (where i live) then say wicked loads of pussy there mate!

peace

If you can pull all this " pussy " why the hell are you on this site ?"

hahaha BUSTED!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Without going into detail and therfore getting this thread closed Have you ever viewed a profile or gone to arrange a meet and thought ooooow hang on a min I no him or her or them they live round the corner or work near me etc etc

And if so what did you do the next time you seen them in the street or workplace etc etc knowing that they dont no that you no??????"

Yes we have...

Used to smile to ourselves every time we saw them out and about.

Ended up emailing and now they are very good friends of ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on cam the other day and a guy I used to work with spotted me lol

Small world haha

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By *riapus4uMan
over a year ago

Charlestown, Cornwall

Had this experiance earlier this year when I recognised a profile from a woman, (a new user on Fab), from our gym.

We messaged each other a few times without me letting on.

I think she must have got cold feet about the Fab scene & closed her account on here.

I get on great with her at the gym & we tease each other etc, but I still have not let on that I know.

Every so often on a Friday when she is leaving the gym, I say goodbye to her with a "have a FABulouse weekend"-(emphasising the FAB of course!).

She always looks back with a quizical look!!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without going into detail and therfore getting this thread closed Have you ever viewed a profile or gone to arrange a meet and thought ooooow hang on a min I no him or her or them they live round the corner or work near me etc etc

And if so what did you do the next time you seen them in the street or workplace etc etc knowing that they dont no that you no??????"

Yes seen a couple of profiles and was told by a good friend you say nothing, don't treat them any different to how you did before.

If you want to do anything send a face picture to the profile and see how they respond. Anything more looks like stalking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we actualy prefere local people, saves the travel, but you do have to be careful

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Had that "oh hello" moment a few times. lol.

Always act discreet, if that means no reaction then that is the response. If we chatted and got on prior just say hello like an old friend.

Did have a girl from Chams start chatting to us one day in town. It wasn't till about 20 min later we twigged where she knew us from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been sent a message at one night by my son's friend, and blocked him instantly

On another occasion, I arranged to meet a couple who were going to give me a lift to a party and it turns out that she was my brothers ex girlfriend we played in separate rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, but i have chatted to two girls from different sites that where girls that knew me, i enjoyed a catch up and although i recon they wanted to talk again... I didn't getback in conatc with them.. i can pull those types of girls al summer long out on the piss

pointless doing them online

I can see that you are shy and modest m8 no doubt a big hit with the ladies on here yeah hahaha

LOL

funny bugger :P

& yeah, i don't do well online, i don't do well offline.. but anyone can pull a d*unk slag mate, and my home town is full of them mate, i mean seriously, it's packed with them!!! people in other towns around leicester often comment, your from (where i live) then say wicked loads of pussy there mate!

peace

If you can pull all this " pussy " why the hell are you on this site ?"

He said it himself.. cos their all "d*unk slags"

But yet cant find any local girls online..

Maybe they need to be d*unk first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No comment exept maybe a lol or three!. Just a suggestion dude but maybe if ya changed your profile some what to not be all me me me me and come accross as if your trying to find a full time girl friend or wife then you may do better on here!.

Thats not meant as an insult to you by the way and no disrespect in any way shape or form just my observation but then hey dont matter to me does it as im not female and am far from gay haha all the best yeah good luck dude

Lol i have been asking about my profile for ages on here mate, i am very happy to have some feedback, thanks

i recon it's to late though, since i have emailed every local girl on the site over 10 times now and they all hate me MAAA MAA sob sob... i'm not getting any replies now (Not been nasty or anything it[s not my way) just they would have made up their minds by now wouldn't they

But thanks anyway mate, i'll change it incase i get a newbie interested oneday

& i'll ask on here what epople think to the new one... In vain no doubt lol

later pal"

Your first post is so disrespectful it is bordering on unbelievable. Though an underlying attitude like that is possibly why you have emailled al your local gorls 10 times. And somehow I don't think thet you were exagerating for comic effect...

Seriously mate, please don't take this the wrong way but you really need to look at what and how you post. There is another thread on here where you posted a couple of days ago that as a single man it is all down to nice pictures and a big cock. Embaressingly wide of the mark to be honest. Personally, while you aren't what we are looking for, I think you could do well on here, some of your posts are fun, you're keen and you appear to want feedback, but posts like the one on this thread and the other one I've just highlighted must really set you back.

That's meant to be constructive and not an attack, I hope it is taken like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back on topic, if someone lived too close I'd be a little wary. If I worked with them then I really wouldn; go there.

Once chatted on another site to someone that lived in the same road as me, that was weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I can see that you are shy and modest m8 no doubt a big hit with the ladies on here yeah hahaha

LOL

funny bugger :P

& yeah, i don't do well online, i don't do well offline.. but anyone can pull a d*unk slag mate, and my home town is full of them mate, i mean seriously, it's packed with them!!! people in other towns around leicester often comment, your from (where i live) then say wicked loads of pussy there mate!

peace"

That is seriously offensive to women. On several levels. And I don't care if you think I'm judgemental; damn right I'm judging you.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


"Without going into detail and therfore getting this thread closed Have you ever viewed a profile or gone to arrange a meet and thought ooooow hang on a min I no him or her or them they live round the corner or work near me etc etc

And if so what did you do the next time you seen them in the street or workplace etc etc knowing that they dont no that you no??????"

I have met people I know from outside fab through the site. Some I have played with, some I have not. If I see them in the street etc I always acknowledge them with a nod or a hi though if it looks like they are with someone or I am with someone that is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without going into detail and therfore getting this thread closed Have you ever viewed a profile or gone to arrange a meet and thought ooooow hang on a min I no him or her or them they live round the corner or work near me etc etc

And if so what did you do the next time you seen them in the street or workplace etc etc knowing that they dont no that you no??????"

Not had this, but did have someone who knew me from school ask me on fb if i was on SDC (which i am) i dont find it awkward, i just said yeah, you a swinger too? if they are there and you are there whats the problem? as long as its not your boss asking you to play lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No comment exept maybe a lol or three!. Just a suggestion dude but maybe if ya changed your profile some what to not be all me me me me and come accross as if your trying to find a full time girl friend or wife then you may do better on here!.

Thats not meant as an insult to you by the way and no disrespect in any way shape or form just my observation but then hey dont matter to me does it as im not female and am far from gay haha all the best yeah good luck dude

Lol i have been asking about my profile for ages on here mate, i am very happy to have some feedback, thanks

i recon it's to late though, since i have emailed every local girl on the site over 10 times now and they all hate me MAAA MAA sob sob... i'm not getting any replies now (Not been nasty or anything it[s not my way) just they would have made up their minds by now wouldn't they

But thanks anyway mate, i'll change it incase i get a newbie interested oneday

& i'll ask on here what epople think to the new one... In vain no doubt lol

later pal"

Not really surprising when you call them all slags!

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