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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee "

You should print this on flyers and hand them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top Tip #2.

Keep your hips loose and you get a better rhythm (this works for all genders).

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee

You should print this on flyers and hand them out. "

Haha!

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Invest in long foreplay.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Communicate with the person you're having sex with is my sex tip.

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Anymore for anymore??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you have a bottle of water to hand;)When giving a BJ, it's important to keep a cool wet mouth, helps the slipping in and out more lubricated.

Jo.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy your wife a wand. Leaves you free to go about your day after you've emptied your baws

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Make sure you have a bottle of water to hand;)When giving a BJ, it's important to keep a cool wet mouth, helps the slipping in and out more lubricated.

Jo.x"

Ooh that's a good one! (Though I'm quite partial to flavoured lube)

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Listen to what she says as you move, notice how her body reacts and change gradually if you need to.

Once you hit the spot, on no account do anything different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm, Lube, I smothered hubbies piece in Galaxy chocolate once, that was quiet a messy one, but wow when you suck it off, his groans, and his orgasam was very erotic

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Mmmm, Lube, I smothered hubbies piece in Galaxy chocolate once, that was quiet a messy one, but wow when you suck it off, his groans, and his orgasam was very erotic

"

I think I would turn Fab Straight if it was covered in Galaxy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BDSM

Where no means yes

Yes means harder

And pineapple means stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee "

Lol so true ... good tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm, Lube, I smothered hubbies piece in Galaxy chocolate once, that was quiet a messy one, but wow when you suck it off, his groans, and his orgasam was very erotic

"

I favour a jar of nuttella for this, it is already smearable and licking it off my partmers cock is delicious, both for me and for him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm, Lube, I smothered hubbies piece in Galaxy chocolate once, that was quiet a messy one, but wow when you suck it off, his groans, and his orgasam was very erotic

I favour a jar of nuttella for this, it is already smearable and licking it off my partmers cock is delicious, both for me and for him!"

Mmmm I have a bottle of Lyles sqeezey Chocolate Syrup in the cupboard, bought for the kids ice cream.

How did I not think this would be ideal for the Job in hand

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

When we ask for "More Lube! More Lube!"...we mean lots and we mean NOW!

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By *asco3Man
over a year ago

neath

After youve cum make sure to wipe your cock on the bedroom curtains. She'll fucking love that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tease us. That means really take your time (time that whatever you're thinking by 50). Watch us move. If we are quiet, it's bad so try something else. Forget what you've seen in porn and do NOT start with frantic fingering, even if we're wet.

Wouldn't you prefer hearing us beg for more??

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"When we ask for "More Lube! More Lube!"...we mean lots and we mean NOW!"

All the lube!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Communicate with the person you're having sex with is my sex tip."

This has to be the nail on the head!! No more needed surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm, Lube, I smothered hubbies piece in Galaxy chocolate once, that was quiet a messy one, but wow when you suck it off, his groans, and his orgasam was very erotic

"

Once and he didnt fill your cuboards

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By *aughtychopsCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

I love Mr giving slow foreplay, he knows to gently build until I’m dripping wet, something that sends me over the edge is when he sits in front of me on his knees, I think he’s going to fuck me ... and no! Wets his cock slowly circling my lips then rests perfectly on my clit ... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr yummyyyyyy!

I can then put pressure on his wet cock on my clit and slowly edge him in

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Communicate with the person you're having sex with is my sex tip.

This has to be the nail on the head!! No more needed surely

"

That's a given but I'm thinking more specifically so everyone can benefit There's lots of stuff I've yet to try and would like to know how to go about it.

Ok, playing with a man's bum for the first time tip.

Men, your prostate is magic! Just give your poop chute a good clean (douching is enough and they're only a couple of quid online). For the person administrating, have him lie on his back, knees up and sit between his legs. Play with his cock a bit to get him relaxed. Glove up (my favorite, nitrile) and cover with lube (Liquid Silk). Slowly tease his balloon knot and slowly enter him with index or middle finger. Curl your finger up a bit towards you until you hit the prostate and massage. Wank or suck his plonker until the prostate becomes rock hard and he orgasms like never before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee

You should print this on flyers and hand them out.

Haha! "

At tube station entrances

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee

You should print this on flyers and hand them out. "

I’ve just printed a couple and put one above the headboard. Oh, how about squirting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Communicate with the person you're having sex with is my sex tip.

This has to be the nail on the head!! No more needed surely

That's a given but I'm thinking more specifically so everyone can benefit There's lots of stuff I've yet to try and would like to know how to go about it.

Ok, playing with a man's bum for the first time tip.

Men, your prostate is magic! Just give your poop chute a good clean (douching is enough and they're only a couple of quid online). For the person administrating, have him lie on his back, knees up and sit between his legs. Play with his cock a bit to get him relaxed. Glove up (my favorite, nitrile) and cover with lube (Liquid Silk). Slowly tease his balloon knot and slowly enter him with index or middle finger. Curl your finger up a bit towards you until you hit the prostate and massage. Wank or suck his plonker until the prostate becomes rock hard and he orgasms like never before

"

Once you've done that he will tell you if he wants harder pressure/2 fingers/legs tied to his arms or bedstead etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure you have a bottle of water to hand;)When giving a BJ, it's important to keep a cool wet mouth, helps the slipping in and out more lubricated.

Jo.x

Ooh that's a good one! (Though I'm quite partial to flavoured lube)"

Jack Daniels and Coke works for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always carry a variety of condoms.....

Some women are allergic to latex.....

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

No top tips really. But always willing to learn.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

French kiss nostrils then french kiss belly button while caressing knee caps will send any woman to the edge

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"French kiss nostrils then french kiss belly button while caressing knee caps will send any woman to the edge"

What do you do with the pheasant feather?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"French kiss nostrils then french kiss belly button while caressing knee caps will send any woman to the edge

What do you do with the pheasant feather?"

Have a guess my love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BDSM

Where no means yes

Yes means harder

And pineapple means stop "

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"French kiss nostrils then french kiss belly button while caressing knee caps will send any woman to the edge

What do you do with the pheasant feather?

Have a guess my love "

Hey sugar lump I’ll ask the wife, she mentioned a fox tail assumed was linked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure you have a bottle of water to hand;)When giving a BJ, it's important to keep a cool wet mouth, helps the slipping in and out more lubricated.

Jo.x

Ooh that's a good one! (Though I'm quite partial to flavoured lube)

Jack Daniels and Coke works for me too."

Nice

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By *aughtychopsCouple
over a year ago

Dartford


"Communicate with the person you're having sex with is my sex tip.

This has to be the nail on the head!! No more needed surely

That's a given but I'm thinking more specifically so everyone can benefit There's lots of stuff I've yet to try and would like to know how to go about it.

Ok, playing with a man's bum for the first time tip.

Men, your prostate is magic! Just give your poop chute a good clean (douching is enough and they're only a couple of quid online). For the person administrating, have him lie on his back, knees up and sit between his legs. Play with his cock a bit to get him relaxed. Glove up (my favorite, nitrile) and cover with lube (Liquid Silk). Slowly tease his balloon knot and slowly enter him with index or middle finger. Curl your finger up a bit towards you until you hit the prostate and massage. Wank or suck his plonker until the prostate becomes rock hard and he orgasms like never before

"

Yep! THIS!

I would also advise safety goggles if you hit that P Spot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm, Lube, I smothered hubbies piece in Galaxy chocolate once, that was quiet a messy one, but wow when you suck it off, his groans, and his orgasam was very erotic

Once and he didnt fill your cuboards "

Haha he buys me a share bar most days,but I do like to eat it as much as I like licking it off

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

How about pleasing your partner and not having an orgasm yourself. Maybe even try spontaneous quickies where neither of you cum but arouse each other keep the passion hot for another time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised no one has mentioned eye contact.....

She loves nothing more than keeping eye contact and matching our breathing......

really slows things and intensifies our pleasure.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Communicate with the person you're having sex with is my sex tip.

This has to be the nail on the head!! No more needed surely

That's a given but I'm thinking more specifically so everyone can benefit There's lots of stuff I've yet to try and would like to know how to go about it.

Ok, playing with a man's bum for the first time tip.

Men, your prostate is magic! Just give your poop chute a good clean (douching is enough and they're only a couple of quid online). For the person administrating, have him lie on his back, knees up and sit between his legs. Play with his cock a bit to get him relaxed. Glove up (my favorite, nitrile) and cover with lube (Liquid Silk). Slowly tease his balloon knot and slowly enter him with index or middle finger. Curl your finger up a bit towards you until you hit the prostate and massage. Wank or suck his plonker until the prostate becomes rock hard and he orgasms like never before

"

That's the one that should also be printed up and put on tube stations and bus stops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know any tips....I'm crap

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I don't know any tips....I'm crap "

I've a wee tip I'd happily share with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee "

In addition to this, while conducting the above technique fluctuate between kissing her, working each nipple in turn and random pecks around her neck and tummy.

I find kneeling on the floor while she's close to the edge of the bed allows the freedom to move around easier while keeping the handwork steady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not commenting so I can find this later... It's for a friend... honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee

You should print this on flyers and hand them out. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cube in the woman's mouth when sucking your cock lovely ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've cube in the woman's mouth when sucking your cock lovely ha "

That's hurting my head.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

For all you kinky couples where the guy likes his gurl to fuck him up the ass........ gurls, you're onlt half way there. Learn how to milk his prostate. If you like to watch ur guy shuddering and begging, then this is a must try!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When giving a hand job-

lots of lube-

and use two hands-

try one going down as the other rocks over the head-

try weaving your fingers together and squeezing down and then back over the head,

try ever so slowly sliding down one after the other for a few strokes then reverse- apparently feels like an ever lasting deep shag...

gently massage with one finger the area between balls and anus.

Use base pad of finger to rest on anus until he is wanting more ( if he wants it)- then slowly tease in whilst still wanking with other hand...

Position mouth over head.... wait for dinner

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When giving a hand job-

lots of lube-

and use two hands-

try one going down as the other rocks over the head-

try weaving your fingers together and squeezing down and then back over the head,

try ever so slowly sliding down one after the other for a few strokes then reverse- apparently feels like an ever lasting deep shag...

gently massage with one finger the area between balls and anus.

Use base pad of finger to rest on anus until he is wanting more ( if he wants it)- then slowly tease in whilst still wanking with other hand...

Position mouth over head.... wait for dinner

Kx"

Use cherry flavoured lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow no takers on my tip..

Never had a female not come from it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is the best sex tip...men, stop being so selfish!!!

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"When giving a hand job-

lots of lube-

and use two hands-

try one going down as the other rocks over the head-

try weaving your fingers together and squeezing down and then back over the head,

try ever so slowly sliding down one after the other for a few strokes then reverse- apparently feels like an ever lasting deep shag...

gently massage with one finger the area between balls and anus.

Use base pad of finger to rest on anus until he is wanting more ( if he wants it)- then slowly tease in whilst still wanking with other hand...

Position mouth over head.... wait for dinner

Kx"

Good tip!

I enjoy lightly rubbing the tip with my palm too to mix up the sensation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Engage the mind as well as body is my mantra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Engage the mind as well as body is my mantra "

And that is the best advice you will ever get!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rub it like you're sanding a dining room table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee "

If only more fellas would take note of this!

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Engage the mind as well as body is my mantra "

Bit vague. Looking for solid sex tips here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to rub my thumb over the tip of his penis, and rub where the fore skin joins the shaft when giving a hand job, we find natural coconut oil is a great lube, no nasty rashes from chemicals, I do like some flavour from time to time though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tie her up and reach for the estim. Works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If what your doing is working keep doing it, if it's not, stop and do something else.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Don't use Deep Heat as anal lube.

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By *humper9erMan
over a year ago

Rocklin


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee "

at 65, the only way for me is slow and soft. it takes me a lot longer for the little guy to stand up. So, i figure, why try and rush my 23 yr old fb? Going slow just intensifies her orgasms to the point of her whole body quivering and her leaving a huge wet spot on my sheets.

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By *humper9erMan
over a year ago

Rocklin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss.... kiss slowly and deeply... tongues exploring.. bodies pressed against each other.. but also kiss passionately until it builds to a mad frenzy..when you want to rip each other’s clothes off.. kiss like your fuck..slow sensual or hard and deep... and make eye contact!!!! And don’t forget to kiss the neck!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s fun laugh together, if it’s intense then look her in the eyes, if it’s sensual then slow it right down.

Be diverse and keep it alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) Don’t break out into a dance when you’re done.

2) don’t make a “ding” sound when you’ve cum

3) when she says harder don’t say no

4) when she says that’s the spot, don’t say oooh I’ll pop it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes just losing control... letting what happens happen!! Not overthinking things!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appreciate the body more , men are so keen to go for the pussy , spend a little more time with the subtle kisses and licks to the thighs toes , a bite of the hand right on the outer palm below the little finger (sounds odd , but very satisfying ) kissing licking groin and belly , streight fingers and dick ain't doing it , it's all about the caressing into the fore play unless it's a streight passion fuck against a wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also ears and neck , they need attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned above... so many areas that when touched... kissed or caressed are so erotic... inner thighs... ears being nibbled and bitten.... even having you fingers sucked sounds silly but mmmmm lip biting!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciate the body more , men are so keen to go for the pussy , spend a little more time with the subtle kisses and licks to the thighs toes , a bite of the hand right on the outer palm below the little finger (sounds odd , but very satisfying ) kissing licking groin and belly , streight fingers and dick ain't doing it , it's all about the caressing into the fore play unless it's a streight passion fuck against a wall "

This!!! (Just not my belly ) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking the time to explore each other is important.

I've come across a couple of guys that are just too eager. They thought a suck of my nipple and a quick rub of my clit and that's it. I should be totally turned on and ready...... no no no. There is nothing worse than that.

It's all about the foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee "

PRRREEEAAAACH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Engage the mind as well as body is my mantra "

This is the best tip you can get. So many people think it's all about the physicall stuff....wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As mentioned above... so many areas that when touched... kissed or caressed are so erotic... inner thighs... ears being nibbled and bitten.... even having you fingers sucked sounds silly but mmmmm lip biting!!! "

Lip biting is not silly in the slightest, I find it incredibly erotic and passionate.

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Foreplay foreplay foreplay physical and mental. The brains the biggest sex organ

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By *aughtycplCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Extra strong mint just before giving oral, works for both sexes. Gives a minty tingle.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Rub a tiny (I do mean TINY) bit of mint toothpaste on a woman's clit before you go down on her. It will drive her wild.

Try eating some lemon before you go down on a woman. The sourness will make your tongue go slightly rougher and give more feeling to the woman.

Remember your tongue is not a penis. Oral sex should be like a well placed kiss moist, unhurried, and organised. You are not trying to see how far you can get your tongue up her hole.

When giving a woman oral sex remember ther are more parts to a womans pussy than her clit.

When giving a woman oral sex if you're acting like a dog lapping up water from a dish, you're probably doing something wrong.

Don't just concentrate on lips, breasts and pussy. Every woman is unique. Take your time to kiss, lick and nibble all over her body. Find the parts of her body that drive her wild when being kissed. Pay fine detail to every crevice, curve, and soft place there is.

When she says "Oh yes like that" she mean "like that". She doesn't mean faster.

Don't be afriad to ask the woman what she wants. She may be afraid to tell you wjhaty she wants. You asking her gives her that in.

Respect that every woman is unique. Respect that her body is unique. Learn how to turn her and her body on.

Learn how to turn on her mind on and her body will always follow.

Remember women don't get as turned on as quickly as men. Foreplay is essential. Foreplay = better sex.

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By *inglecuriousWoman
over a year ago

sutton


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee "

Yes!! It doesn’t always need to be fast and furious! Not to start with anyway

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By *inglecuriousWoman
over a year ago

sutton

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

Don't assume that we want to skip any type of foreplay and head straight for sex unless we ask

Don't be rough if we haven't talked about it, a random slap across the face will get you a slap back

Do warn when you are going to cum and I can decide whether or not I continue if I'm done or not

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As mentioned above... so many areas that when touched... kissed or caressed are so erotic... inner thighs... ears being nibbled and bitten.... even having you fingers sucked sounds silly but mmmmm lip biting!!!

Lip biting is not silly in the slightest, I find it incredibly erotic and passionate."

So do I! Not sure why I put sounds silly?? Haha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen to what she says as you move, notice how her body reacts and change gradually if you need to.

Once you hit the spot, on no account do anything different "

agreeing with this one and a few others.

Everybody is different, but kiss, touch, licking certain parts of my body gets me going more than just oral! Ears, neck, boobs, belly, thighs...

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Please the woman or women first then repeat twice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee "

It looks so painful when guys "finger blast" a women.

The fact you had to lay instructions out is hilarious. There will be finger blasters reading it and still won't get it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication, and listening to her body...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the noises... the moans and sighs... I love been told what to do... and I love been told when they are about to cum... drives me wild!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure you have a bottle of water to hand;)When giving a BJ, it's important to keep a cool wet mouth, helps the slipping in and out more lubricated.

Jo.x"

A glass of iced water and a hot drink to hand, especially if your partner is blindfolded. The changing sensations are very pleasing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut and file your nails please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When riding said man- change position and literally squat- practice toning those quads as you literally pump up and down- let’s man lay back and enjoy view.

hopefully end result is as good as my man’s last night xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about pleasing your partner and not having an orgasm yourself. Maybe even try spontaneous quickies where neither of you cum but arouse each other keep the passion hot for another time. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure you have a bottle of water to hand;)When giving a BJ, it's important to keep a cool wet mouth, helps the slipping in and out more lubricated.

Jo.x

A glass of iced water and a hot drink to hand, especially if your partner is blindfolded. The changing sensations are very pleasing "

Presecco is also good as well... the feeling of the bubbles and the coolness as you mouth slides over the cock Im told is very sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure you have a bottle of water to hand;)When giving a BJ, it's important to keep a cool wet mouth, helps the slipping in and out more lubricated.

Jo.x

A glass of iced water and a hot drink to hand, especially if your partner is blindfolded. The changing sensations are very pleasing

Presecco is also good as well... the feeling of the bubbles and the coolness as you mouth slides over the cock Im told is very sexy! "

Now that’s something I need to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure you have a bottle of water to hand;)When giving a BJ, it's important to keep a cool wet mouth, helps the slipping in and out more lubricated.

Jo.x

A glass of iced water and a hot drink to hand, especially if your partner is blindfolded. The changing sensations are very pleasing

Presecco is also good as well... the feeling of the bubbles and the coolness as you mouth slides over the cock Im told is very sexy!

Now that’s something I need to experience "

Definitely trying the hot and cold together, and will also give the bubble s ago

Thanks for the tip, sexy fabbers

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Yes a prosecco blow job is amazingly sexy and works well too when you go down a girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes a prosecco blow job is amazingly sexy and works well too when you go down a girl."

I agree had it done to me and it was amazing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is anyone else remembering Space Dust, those 1970s sweets?

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By *plfromcorkCouple
over a year ago

cork


"Obviously we're all different and not everything works for everyone but share your top tips. We might all learn something new

Chaps, when using your hands on a lady, if her body isn't responding to vigorous finger blasting, stop and try another technique. Slowly massage her pussy, the mound, all the lips, brush the clitoris, take your time, softly for a while then increase the pressure and speed. Wait until she's gagging for you to put your fingers/cock inside. Again go slowly initially but it shouldn't be long until she's wailing like a banshee "

Lol..love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is anyone else remembering Space Dust, those 1970s sweets?"

How is that a sex tip? Or do you use it?

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids


"Listen to what she says as you move, notice how her body reacts and change gradually if you need to.

Once you hit the spot, on no account do anything different "

This .... when you do hit the spot the lady may (as I do) become quite still as she absorbs the building tension, don’t read this as doing it wrong ..... you are doing it right .... you can tell if she is building up to an explosion of mighty orgasm .... if you are perceptive !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen to what she says as you move, notice how her body reacts and change gradually if you need to.

Once you hit the spot, on no account do anything different

This .... when you do hit the spot the lady may (as I do) become quite still as she absorbs the building tension, don’t read this as doing it wrong ..... you are doing it right .... you can tell if she is building up to an explosion of mighty orgasm .... if you are perceptive ! "

Absolutely this!!!

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