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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

Hi all,

It’s Mrs Rich here. One half of a bi couple and struggling to get any further than winks and a couple of messages. (In fairness most of the time it’s messages from male halves of a couple who are usually not as bi as their profile would allure too!)

But if any experienced fabbers fancies checking out our profile and giving any tips on where we might be putting people off? I’d be v grateful.

If all is good there I may have to accept it’s my dodgy personality.........

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

All your pictures are really nice.

Think you’d have more chance with other couples if you state what the Male half likes.

At the moment it’s very much about yourself , which would put a couple like ourselves off.

Purely due to the fact that I as a female half also like to play with the the Male half as well as the female.

However if your man isn’t really bothered and you just want mff then that’s fine

Miss P

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You must really like Top Gear to say it twice.

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By *ute Manchester SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"You must really like Top Gear to say it twice. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the same MrMrsRich I post on forums, in chat rooms, fab, post and wink, but very rarely get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

It’s Mrs Rich here. One half of a bi couple and struggling to get any further than winks and a couple of messages. (In fairness most of the time it’s messages from male halves of a couple who are usually not as bi as their profile would allure too!)

But if any experienced fabbers fancies checking out our profile and giving any tips on where we might be putting people off? I’d be v grateful.

If all is good there I may have to accept it’s my dodgy personality.........

"

'My needs come first' Doesn't read very well. In fact in makes you sound spoilt and princessy and would put us off even messaging let alone meeting.

As others have said, get the male half more involved on the profile, it comes across as though hes not interested and only doing it because you want too.

Poppy

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"Hi all,

It’s Mrs Rich here. One half of a bi couple and struggling to get any further than winks and a couple of messages. (In fairness most of the time it’s messages from male halves of a couple who are usually not as bi as their profile would allure too!)

But if any experienced fabbers fancies checking out our profile and giving any tips on where we might be putting people off? I’d be v grateful.

If all is good there I may have to accept it’s my dodgy personality.........

'My needs come first' Doesn't read very well. In fact in makes you sound spoilt and princessy and would put us off even messaging let alone meeting.

As others have said, get the male half more involved on the profile, it comes across as though hes not interested and only doing it because you want too.

Poppy"

Yes I didn’t think of it like that I guess. That’s the second attempt of writing the profile. First attempt was a bit friendlier and got us nowhere so I decided to cut to the chase.

Does make me sounds a bit of a bitch though

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"All your pictures are really nice.

Think you’d have more chance with other couples if you state what the Male half likes.

At the moment it’s very much about yourself , which would put a couple like ourselves off.

Purely due to the fact that I as a female half also like to play with the the Male half as well as the female.

However if your man isn’t really bothered and you just want mff then that’s fine

Miss P "

Yep totally get that. He is definitely bothered so I better demonstrate that.

Thank you!!

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

Ok going to rewrite people thank you for the advise.

Will also refrain from sharing my love of top gear!

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

Profile reads much better and is clearer as to what you want now!

Good luck x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Really good profile now. Wishing you success.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Didn’t read it before..

But you’re looking for a single girl who doesn’t mind that your partner likes guys and couples where both parties are ‘bisexual’, seeing to imply that you’d play with her whilst the guys fucked each other. I can see why it’s a tough ask.

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"Profile reads much better and is clearer as to what you want now!

Good luck x"

Thank you!!

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"Really good profile now. Wishing you success. "

Thanks guys although apparently you can’t please everyone

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"Didn’t read it before..

But you’re looking for a single girl who doesn’t mind that your partner likes guys and couples where both parties are ‘bisexual’, seeing to imply that you’d play with her whilst the guys fucked each other. I can see why it’s a tough ask. "

No that’s not it at all. Dammit I’ve already changed it once.

The bisexual focus is more of a “we’re not into couples where the guy says they’re bi but aren’t really so much”

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

Dammit I might give up. Either way perception and interpretation will always play a factor I guess.

I wouldn’t mind but in both versions I seem to come across as it’s all about me when in all honesty I’d happily sit back and only watch if that was the preference. That’s be enough for me.

Surely what I have now Is better than just a one liner

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