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"That's not a swingers gangbang, that's a pop-up brothel. Reasonable costs are not £60-100. Unless it's happening at the Savoy. " The trouble is these meets are rife on the meet section. | |||
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"That's prostitution, not swinging. " Absolutely broken that’s why I reported her. She is not the kind of person I want to see on fab and I’m sure others would agree | |||
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"It's an easy way of earning money. " Especially if it's pay up front. | |||
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"I meet at a club nearby and would always turn up at a gb and go for the purpose intended. I don’t want to just turn up to wank. I can do that on my own at home. Nobody near to me advertises them unfortunately. Or if they have I have sadly missed them. Hopefully in the future one may turn up" There have been many couple posts saying the same as me. It’s a shame because there are guys out there with this interest and I did like the relaxed atmosphere of playing at home. | |||
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"I meet at a club nearby and would always turn up at a gb and go for the purpose intended. I don’t want to just turn up to wank. I can do that on my own at home. Nobody near to me advertises them unfortunately. Or if they have I have sadly missed them. Hopefully in the future one may turn up There have been many couple posts saying the same as me. It’s a shame because there are guys out there with this interest and I did like the relaxed atmosphere of playing at home. " I would love to play at home | |||
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"I meet at a club nearby and would always turn up at a gb and go for the purpose intended. I don’t want to just turn up to wank. I can do that on my own at home. Nobody near to me advertises them unfortunately. Or if they have I have sadly missed them. Hopefully in the future one may turn up There have been many couple posts saying the same as me. It’s a shame because there are guys out there with this interest and I did like the relaxed atmosphere of playing at home. " I would love to play at home | |||
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"I meet at a club nearby and would always turn up at a gb and go for the purpose intended. I don’t want to just turn up to wank. I can do that on my own at home. Nobody near to me advertises them unfortunately. Or if they have I have sadly missed them. Hopefully in the future one may turn up There have been many couple posts saying the same as me. It’s a shame because there are guys out there with this interest and I did like the relaxed atmosphere of playing at home. " I would love to play at home | |||
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"I meet at a club nearby and would always turn up at a gb and go for the purpose intended. I don’t want to just turn up to wank. I can do that on my own at home. Nobody near to me advertises them unfortunately. Or if they have I have sadly missed them. Hopefully in the future one may turn up There have been many couple posts saying the same as me. It’s a shame because there are guys out there with this interest and I did like the relaxed atmosphere of playing at home. " I think gangbangs are one of those things that most guys only think they want to try because they've seen it in porn. The reality is a bit rubbish and i think guys realise that as the date gets closer. | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang "Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room . | |||
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"I meet at a club nearby and would always turn up at a gb and go for the purpose intended. I don’t want to just turn up to wank. I can do that on my own at home. Nobody near to me advertises them unfortunately. Or if they have I have sadly missed them. Hopefully in the future one may turn up There have been many couple posts saying the same as me. It’s a shame because there are guys out there with this interest and I did like the relaxed atmosphere of playing at home. I think gangbangs are one of those things that most guys only think they want to try because they've seen it in porn. The reality is a bit rubbish and i think guys realise that as the date gets closer. " Ive never had a gang bang , but after seeing one in a club I don’t think I would ever want one and don’t see the attraction . The guys just line up waiting their turn while the woman lies on her back doing nothing. Most of the guys struggle to get it up in that situation as well. I need sex to be fun and sexy  | |||
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"I meet at a club nearby and would always turn up at a gb and go for the purpose intended. I don’t want to just turn up to wank. I can do that on my own at home. Nobody near to me advertises them unfortunately. Or if they have I have sadly missed them. Hopefully in the future one may turn up There have been many couple posts saying the same as me. It’s a shame because there are guys out there with this interest and I did like the relaxed atmosphere of playing at home. I think gangbangs are one of those things that most guys only think they want to try because they've seen it in porn. The reality is a bit rubbish and i think guys realise that as the date gets closer. Ive never had a gang bang , but after seeing one in a club I don’t think I would ever want one and don’t see the attraction . The guys just line up waiting their turn while the woman lies on her back doing nothing. Most of the guys struggle to get it up in that situation as well. I need sex to be fun and sexy "Our lady in question is extremely submissive and enjoys dv and going air tight. So she had a very good time and was an active participant. Personally i felt more like i was playing a role in a film. Which i did, but the pressure to get it right meant it wasn't a fraction as enjoyable as MFMF or MMF | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room . "I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo. If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money. | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room .
I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo.
If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money."Why do you never cum? | |||
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"I was thinking of going to this GreedyGirls event on Thursday which charges too. It's rare to find a group of cock hungry women. I guess you pay for that experience / tick it off the bucket list. Clubs charge entry fees so I guess it sorta makes sense but I agree it's not the definition of swinging." Pay for the experience, tick it off the bucket list and head straight to the GUM clinic | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room .
I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo.
If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money."What enjoyment do you get from it and, if there's money left after you take the room money out, do you give refunds? | |||
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"Back in the day .. avertizers asking for money would be banned from the site ... same as people asking for or selling drugs ... now the ops dont do anything so its become normal" If you see them report them. The site cannot possibly police every profile, every thread, every post. | |||
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"Its supply and demand. If adds are appearing for gangbangs then then there is clearly a market for it. Men are clearly willing to pay for the privilege. If you dont like it dont pay money to go. " Would you charge people if you were in demand? Is a swingers site the right place to advertise yourself as giving sex for cash? Surely a site like the jobs for adults one would be better? | |||
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"Hi all, I've looked on here to see if this has been bought up before it has and hasn't so here goes. What has happened to the meets section recently? Not that we arrange to meet but I will often look anyway (wishfull thinking), quite often I see in there that people are only willing to play if the couple or single guy pay towards a hotel which I think is fine. However very rarely do I see a gangbang meet where there's no charge, in some cases I've messaged to find out how much and been told anywhere between £60-£100. Now this I find this outrageous behaviour and I'm guessing if reported could be taken down. What I don't understand is how many posts on the forum moan about lack of men attending their gangbangs but what do people expect when being forced to pay those extortionate prices. " I have been to a couple of these paid gangbangs. I have also been a few non paid gangbangs. Strangely more men will actually turn up at the paid one then the non paid one. The obvious reason to me is that at the paid gangbang you are guaranteed to have sex. the problem is it is not real gangbang. You can see the woman is not getting off on it. She isn't enjoying it. It's a business thing. The ones I went to were not extortionate . It was £20 a person. About 10 - 12 males arrived at each gangbang. I did hear a horror story some couple and single women may want to consider. One set of guys organising gangbangs simply invited some single women and couples to a house they were renting out. Then invited a load of single men. All the single men got charged £20. The couples and single women had no idea this was going on. They got away with this for a long time. They made good money as they had 3 or 4 parties a week. As I said earlier for some reason the singles guys tend to actually turn up for the paid gangbangs. What I don't understand is why fab allows these paid gangbangs to be advertised. Call me cheeky if you wish as I have been to 2 paid gangbangs. However they are using fab to make money. The ones in the Nortwest advtersise in the meet now every single day. You know it is a paid gangbang when it says single males welcome lol. | |||
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"I suspect the theory is that if you pay, you're more likely to turn up. " You don't pay until you arrive at the house/venue/hotel room. You don't pay anything in advance. Thinking about it you would be stupid to pay in advance. | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room .
I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo.
If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money."Can't the woman or one of the guys accommodate? Taking a woman and 8 guys to a hotel room must look very strange! | |||
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"I meet at a club nearby and would always turn up at a gb and go for the purpose intended. I don’t want to just turn up to wank. I can do that on my own at home. Nobody near to me advertises them unfortunately. Or if they have I have sadly missed them. Hopefully in the future one may turn up There have been many couple posts saying the same as me. It’s a shame because there are guys out there with this interest and I did like the relaxed atmosphere of playing at home. I think gangbangs are one of those things that most guys only think they want to try because they've seen it in porn. The reality is a bit rubbish and i think guys realise that as the date gets closer. Ive never had a gang bang , but after seeing one in a club I don’t think I would ever want one and don’t see the attraction . The guys just line up waiting their turn while the woman lies on her back doing nothing. Most of the guys struggle to get it up in that situation as well. I need sex to be fun and sexy "A proper gangbang should be more than that. First, the guys need to get the woman turned on by slowly undressing her, plenty of kissing, sucking, nibbling, fingering, etc. I don't see why a gangbang has to that radically different to normal sex in relation to a foreplay. In fact it is better for the woman in away. She can be kissing one man, have another two men on her tits and one man tonguing her pussy. Lol if she was standing up she could also have one man rimming her arse. With lots of guys you can do obviously do things you can't do with just one guy such as one guy licking your clit as another fucks you from behind, one guy fucking you as 2 guys enjoy your tits with their mouths and tongues, the obvious spitroast, being made water tight (a cock up your bum, a cock up your pussy and a cock in your mouth), getting the guys to wank over you and cover your body in cum etc,. A gangbang where the woman just lies there taking cock after cock would be very boring. I also think gangbangs are about the woman knowing many men desire her and want to have sex with her. It's not an ego thing more of a compliment thing. To me from a woman's point of view a gangbang should be about the woman being pleasured, enjoying it and of course being fucked many times. | |||
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"I was thinking of going to this GreedyGirls event on Thursday which charges too. It's rare to find a group of cock hungry women. I guess you pay for that experience / tick it off the bucket list. Clubs charge entry fees so I guess it sorta makes sense but I agree it's not the definition of swinging." Be very careful. At the event you are going you are not guaranteed sex. | |||
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"Hi all, I've looked on here to see if this has been bought up before it has and hasn't so here goes. What has happened to the meets section recently? Not that we arrange to meet but I will often look anyway (wishfull thinking), quite often I see in there that people are only willing to play if the couple or single guy pay towards a hotel which I think is fine. However very rarely do I see a gangbang meet where there's no charge, in some cases I've messaged to find out how much and been told anywhere between £60-£100. Now this I find this outrageous behaviour and I'm guessing if reported could be taken down. What I don't understand is how many posts on the forum moan about lack of men attending their gangbangs but what do people expect when being forced to pay those extortionate prices. I have been to a couple of these paid gangbangs. I have also been a few non paid gangbangs. Strangely more men will actually turn up at the paid one then the non paid one. The obvious reason to me is that at the paid gangbang you are guaranteed to have sex. the problem is it is not real gangbang. You can see the woman is not getting off on it. She isn't enjoying it. It's a business thing. The ones I went to were not extortionate . It was £20 a person. About 10 - 12 males arrived at each gangbang. I did hear a horror story some couple and single women may want to consider. One set of guys organising gangbangs simply invited some single women and couples to a house they were renting out. Then invited a load of single men. All the single men got charged £20. The couples and single women had no idea this was going on. They got away with this for a long time. They made good money as they had 3 or 4 parties a week. As I said earlier for some reason the singles guys tend to actually turn up for the paid gangbangs. What I don't understand is why fab allows these paid gangbangs to be advertised. Call me cheeky if you wish as I have been to 2 paid gangbangs. However they are using fab to make money. The ones in the Nortwest advtersise in the meet now every single day. You know it is a paid gangbang when it says single males welcome lol." For me the £20 is more a venue hire contribution or potential entrance fee for a club, I have no issue for that but the parties I often see apparently get 15+ guys a time and no mention of the £80 being a contribution they don't even show the ladies taking part. | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room .
I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo.
If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money.
Can't the woman or one of the guys accommodate? Taking a woman and 8 guys to a hotel room must look very strange! "Most people who live in London don’t have a space comfortable enough. A decent hotel suite or Airbnb is usually very discrete. | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room .
I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo.
If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money.
What enjoyment do you get from it and, if there's money left after you take the room money out, do you give refunds?"Enjoyment I get is being the centre of attention and pleasing my partner. My partner has always had to cover a shortfall, never had money left over. If I did I guess it would go towards the next party. Arranging these things is time consuming and expensive to host. | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room .
I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo.
If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money.
What enjoyment do you get from it and, if there's money left after you take the room money out, do you give refunds?
Enjoyment I get is being the centre of attention and pleasing my partner.
My partner has always had to cover a shortfall, never had money left over. If I did I guess it would go towards the next party.
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang "Totally agree with what you said, we have arranged lots of gang bangs & bukkakes in the past for various ladies/couples etc & have been left seriously out of pocket because of timewasters. We would usually ask for £30 each guy to cover expenses paid through PayPal etc, you know when someone has paid they will turn up so to set the cogs in motion this is the only way to eliminate time wasters & get the party you want. £100 each is a bit steep but £50-£60 is the average, swinging clubs & private parties con more money of of single guys than these types of party & at least the guys are guaranteed fun. Paying for a venue/hotel supplying light refreshments wipes condoms & food adds up & incurs costs like any sex club, next time you visit you local club & there is a £50 charge on the door for single guys you'll realise these girls are doing nothing different to the rest of the sex industry. | |||
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"It's an easy way of earning money. Especially if it's pay up front." Yes but do you get your money back if it’s a crap fuck or it’s not a gang bang but a 4 some? People paid for what was advertised | |||
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"I love gangbangs and in 10 years have set up 50+. I have never charged anyone nor will I ever charge anyone to attend. I’m doing this for my pleasure so I will incur any financial loss. I have a contact list of 100 guys that if I need them. I send out a mass text with pictures of the female and time/venue. I don’t answer stupid questions. I just get a head count and text the room number on the day of. I find that because I don’t charge anyone guys give me a certain respect and loyalty. Also if they show up unclean ... I can throw their ass out. My question to all the people advocating for paying for gangbangs... Do you refund the persons money? If they show up unclean or the female is not attracted to him? " If a person is unclean they would get shown the door as in any swinging meet & of course you would happily give them their money back & hope they don't darken your door again. | |||
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"I love gangbangs and in 10 years have set up 50+. I have never charged anyone nor will I ever charge anyone to attend. I’m doing this for my pleasure so I will incur any financial loss. I have a contact list of 100 guys that if I need them. I send out a mass text with pictures of the female and time/venue. I don’t answer stupid questions. I just get a head count and text the room number on the day of. I find that because I don’t charge anyone guys give me a certain respect and loyalty. Also if they show up unclean ... I can throw their ass out. My question to all the people advocating for paying for gangbangs... Do you refund the persons money? If they show up unclean or the female is not attracted to him? If a person is unclean they would get shown the door as in any swinging meet & of course you would happily give them their money back & hope they don't darken your door again." Ok , I have this problem a lot as some guys show up after work.... It’s not easy to tell a friend to jump in the shower | |||
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"I love gangbangs and in 10 years have set up 50+. I have never charged anyone nor will I ever charge anyone to attend. I’m doing this for my pleasure so I will incur any financial loss. I have a contact list of 100 guys that if I need them. I send out a mass text with pictures of the female and time/venue. I don’t answer stupid questions. I just get a head count and text the room number on the day of. I find that because I don’t charge anyone guys give me a certain respect and loyalty. Also if they show up unclean ... I can throw their ass out. My question to all the people advocating for paying for gangbangs... Do you refund the persons money? If they show up unclean or the female is not attracted to him? If a person is unclean they would get shown the door as in any swinging meet & of course you would happily give them their money back & hope they don't darken your door again. Ok , I have this problem a lot as some guys show up after work.... It’s not easy to tell a friend to jump in the shower " They might not have BO but might have a cheesy dick from pissing all day and not washing it. Not to mention sweaty balls. Do they go through an inspection line before they are allowed in? | |||
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"I love gangbangs and in 10 years have set up 50+. I have never charged anyone nor will I ever charge anyone to attend. I’m doing this for my pleasure so I will incur any financial loss. I have a contact list of 100 guys that if I need them. I send out a mass text with pictures of the female and time/venue. I don’t answer stupid questions. I just get a head count and text the room number on the day of. I find that because I don’t charge anyone guys give me a certain respect and loyalty. Also if they show up unclean ... I can throw their ass out. My question to all the people advocating for paying for gangbangs... Do you refund the persons money? If they show up unclean or the female is not attracted to him? If a person is unclean they would get shown the door as in any swinging meet & of course you would happily give them their money back & hope they don't darken your door again. Ok , I have this problem a lot as some guys show up after work.... It’s not easy to tell a friend to jump in the shower They might not have BO but might have a cheesy dick from pissing all day and not washing it. Not to mention sweaty balls. Do they go through an inspection line before they are allowed in?" No , I just smell them when I say what’s up. Most of my regulars guys are good. It’s always the new ones that show up rank. | |||
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"I love gangbangs and in 10 years have set up 50+. I have never charged anyone nor will I ever charge anyone to attend. I’m doing this for my pleasure so I will incur any financial loss. I have a contact list of 100 guys that if I need them. I send out a mass text with pictures of the female and time/venue. I don’t answer stupid questions. I just get a head count and text the room number on the day of. I find that because I don’t charge anyone guys give me a certain respect and loyalty. Also if they show up unclean ... I can throw their ass out. My question to all the people advocating for paying for gangbangs... Do you refund the persons money? If they show up unclean or the female is not attracted to him? If a person is unclean they would get shown the door as in any swinging meet & of course you would happily give them their money back & hope they don't darken your door again. Ok , I have this problem a lot as some guys show up after work.... It’s not easy to tell a friend to jump in the shower " We don't tolerate dirty people we ask everyone to be clean because its normal etiquette when having sex with someone, if people are unwashed/dirty then nine times out of ten they are the type that want to dump their load & have no respect for the ladies involved. | |||
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"I love gangbangs and in 10 years have set up 50+. I have never charged anyone nor will I ever charge anyone to attend. I’m doing this for my pleasure so I will incur any financial loss. I have a contact list of 100 guys that if I need them. I send out a mass text with pictures of the female and time/venue. I don’t answer stupid questions. I just get a head count and text the room number on the day of. I find that because I don’t charge anyone guys give me a certain respect and loyalty. Also if they show up unclean ... I can throw their ass out. My question to all the people advocating for paying for gangbangs... Do you refund the persons money? If they show up unclean or the female is not attracted to him? If a person is unclean they would get shown the door as in any swinging meet & of course you would happily give them their money back & hope they don't darken your door again. Ok , I have this problem a lot as some guys show up after work.... It’s not easy to tell a friend to jump in the shower They might not have BO but might have a cheesy dick from pissing all day and not washing it. Not to mention sweaty balls. Do they go through an inspection line before they are allowed in? No , I just smell them when I say what’s up. Most of my regulars guys are good. It’s always the new ones that show up rank." I've never understood what's going through their head when they show up unwashed. | |||
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"Do the people on here who object to these parties agree club & party fee's should be dropped to the same as a single lady & if not why?" When I was going clubs as a single guy it didn't bother paying a bit more, however if it was a £60+ to get in then no I wouldn't attend, same goes for a gangbang I have no issue contributing towards costs but I feel when it's coming up towards the same amount it's a no no from me. I hate the feeling of paying for sex | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room .
I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo.
If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money.
What enjoyment do you get from it and, if there's money left after you take the room money out, do you give refunds?
Enjoyment I get is being the centre of attention and pleasing my partner.
My partner has always had to cover a shortfall, never had money left over. If I did I guess it would go towards the next party.
Arranging these things is time consuming and expensive to host."They can sometimes be time-consuming to arrange, I'd agree with that, but some of us are able to host at home. I've organised and hosted a fair few gangbangs at my place now, all entirely free of charge, and they've been very positive experiences. | |||
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"I have arranged them for my ex but it was always with guys she'd already met. I guess the best way to ensure they turn up is to have met then before and built up some kind of relationship with. Over the years we built up a list of about 12 guys we could be sure would turn up clean sobber and respectful" Yes, that's exactly right, I think. Also it helps with the security issue raised above - if you already know and trust most of the guys attending, then if you do have one or two newbies, it's not a worry. | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room .
I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo.
If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money.
What enjoyment do you get from it and, if there's money left after you take the room money out, do you give refunds?
Enjoyment I get is being the centre of attention and pleasing my partner.
My partner has always had to cover a shortfall, never had money left over. If I did I guess it would go towards the next party.
Arranging these things is time consuming and expensive to host.
They can sometimes be time-consuming to arrange, I'd agree with that, but some of us are able to host at home. I've organised and hosted a fair few gangbangs at my place now, all entirely free of charge, and they've been very positive experiences."Not met a guy with a big enough apartment to host in Zone 1. | |||
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"I suspect the theory is that if you pay, you're more likely to turn up. You don't pay until you arrive at the house/venue/hotel room. You don't pay anything in advance. Thinking about it you would be stupid to pay in advance. If you'd booked a £200 apartment, spent £150 on snacks, soft drinks, tea, coffee, milk, condoms etc you'd be stupid not to ask people to pay in advance....." Wow you go all out.... I provide the woman and room. Bring your own condoms and drinks. I tend to organize my gangbangs mid week, early evening. Just so it’s not a all night thing. | |||
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"I suspect the theory is that if you pay, you're more likely to turn up. You don't pay until you arrive at the house/venue/hotel room. You don't pay anything in advance. Thinking about it you would be stupid to pay in advance. If you'd booked a £200 apartment, spent £150 on snacks, soft drinks, tea, coffee, milk, condoms etc you'd be stupid not to ask people to pay in advance..... Wow you go all out.... I provide the woman and room. Bring your own condoms and drinks. I tend to organize my gangbangs mid week, early evening. Just so it’s not a all night thing." We usually do weekends, normally in the afternoon. Renting an apartment means we don't have to worry about inviting strangers into our private residence. Also makes it a bit more of an occasion. We can fuck at home any time. We don't see it as paying to fuck her, if it costs us £200 and we invite 5 guys it's £40 each, if we invite 10 it's £20. We share pictures beforehand so it's not blind date. Everyone knows the score. Since we've started doing it like this we haven't had a single no show. | |||
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"I arrange gangbangs which are not for making money at all..." Who for? | |||
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"I suspect the theory is that if you pay, you're more likely to turn up. You don't pay until you arrive at the house/venue/hotel room. You don't pay anything in advance. Thinking about it you would be stupid to pay in advance. If you'd booked a £200 apartment, spent £150 on snacks, soft drinks, tea, coffee, milk, condoms etc you'd be stupid not to ask people to pay in advance..... Wow you go all out.... I provide the woman and room. Bring your own condoms and drinks. I tend to organize my gangbangs mid week, early evening. Just so it’s not a all night thing. We usually do weekends, normally in the afternoon. Renting an apartment means we don't have to worry about inviting strangers into our private residence. Also makes it a bit more of an occasion. We can fuck at home any time. We don't see it as paying to fuck her, if it costs us £200 and we invite 5 guys it's £40 each, if we invite 10 it's £20. We share pictures beforehand so it's not blind date. Everyone knows the score. Since we've started doing it like this we haven't had a single no show. " Have you ever had an instance where she doesn't want one of the men to touch her, when she sees him in person? | |||
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"When we’ve thrown a party, we’ve asked for contributions to cover the cost. When we’ve organised a gang bang, we’d never think to charge people, that’s prostitution plain and simple. Pay money to fuck this person. It’s not right in our opinion." There’s a lot of disguised prostitution on this site unfortunately. | |||
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"There are a couple of lovely hot girls on here that tour but to go to meet its 80 quid.. " I know the ones they came to Swansea asking me for 100. They don't know Swansea well you can get a blowjob for a fiver. | |||
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"I never charge anyone when I organise my GBs. But having read the comments on here, I am tempted to - to sift the wheat from the chaff. So many time wasters who want wank fodder, don’t turn up, arrive late in the hope of a 121 etc. " You could ask for a deposit, refundable if they turn up. | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room .
I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo.
If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money.
What enjoyment do you get from it and, if there's money left after you take the room money out, do you give refunds?
Enjoyment I get is being the centre of attention and pleasing my partner.
My partner has always had to cover a shortfall, never had money left over. If I did I guess it would go towards the next party.
Arranging these things is time consuming and expensive to host.
They can sometimes be time-consuming to arrange, I'd agree with that, but some of us are able to host at home. I've organised and hosted a fair few gangbangs at my place now, all entirely free of charge, and they've been very positive experiences.
Not met a guy with a big enough apartment to host in Zone 1."Gosh, perhaps not zone 1, but I'm in zone 2 and 5 minutes walk from the tube station, it's really not that difficult to get to!! | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room .
I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo.
If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money.
What enjoyment do you get from it and, if there's money left after you take the room money out, do you give refunds?
Enjoyment I get is being the centre of attention and pleasing my partner.
My partner has always had to cover a shortfall, never had money left over. If I did I guess it would go towards the next party.
Arranging these things is time consuming and expensive to host.
They can sometimes be time-consuming to arrange, I'd agree with that, but some of us are able to host at home. I've organised and hosted a fair few gangbangs at my place now, all entirely free of charge, and they've been very positive experiences.
Not met a guy with a big enough apartment to host in Zone 1.
Gosh, perhaps not zone 1, but I'm in zone 2 and 5 minutes walk from the tube station, it's really not that difficult to get to!!"It should be an exciting night of good music, good wine, hot sex and a luxurious location. I wouldn’t ruin that by asking people to come to Finsbury Park | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room .
I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo.
If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money.
What enjoyment do you get from it and, if there's money left after you take the room money out, do you give refunds?
Enjoyment I get is being the centre of attention and pleasing my partner.
My partner has always had to cover a shortfall, never had money left over. If I did I guess it would go towards the next party.
Arranging these things is time consuming and expensive to host.
They can sometimes be time-consuming to arrange, I'd agree with that, but some of us are able to host at home. I've organised and hosted a fair few gangbangs at my place now, all entirely free of charge, and they've been very positive experiences.
Not met a guy with a big enough apartment to host in Zone 1.
Gosh, perhaps not zone 1, but I'm in zone 2 and 5 minutes walk from the tube station, it's really not that difficult to get to!!
It should be an exciting night of good music, good wine, hot sex and a luxurious location. I wouldn’t ruin that by asking people to come to Finsbury Park "You’re posh.... I don’t think I could get my A team guys to show up for a night like that. Most are married or have girlfriends... | |||
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"A decent hotel (in London) is easily £300pn. Factor in any other expenses and 3-4 guys paying around £80 each just covers costs. Call me old fashioned but I don’t think the female should pay in a gangbang
Isn’t the gang bang for your pleasure then ? Your basically saying your only doing it for the free hotel room .
I’ve never come in a gangbang but usually make the guys come and often more than once. I think they get more out of it so a bit of luxury coming my way is a fair trade off, imo.
If I met any of these guys on tinder no doubt there would be 3-4 dates and a much bigger outlay before they got to sleep with me and never call me again. With a gangbang they’re saving time and money.
What enjoyment do you get from it and, if there's money left after you take the room money out, do you give refunds?
Enjoyment I get is being the centre of attention and pleasing my partner.
My partner has always had to cover a shortfall, never had money left over. If I did I guess it would go towards the next party.
Arranging these things is time consuming and expensive to host.
They can sometimes be time-consuming to arrange, I'd agree with that, but some of us are able to host at home. I've organised and hosted a fair few gangbangs at my place now, all entirely free of charge, and they've been very positive experiences.
Not met a guy with a big enough apartment to host in Zone 1.
Gosh, perhaps not zone 1, but I'm in zone 2 and 5 minutes walk from the tube station, it's really not that difficult to get to!!
It should be an exciting night of good music, good wine, hot sex and a luxurious location. I wouldn’t ruin that by asking people to come to Finsbury Park "Heavens, you're a woman of high standards. I do have wine...good wine you say, well, hmmm. Also a large cd collection. And some nice reliable guys to come along and help entertain. I wouldn't necessarily describe any of this as luxurious but hey, you wouldn't be bored  | |||
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To bang a hole. Oh dear "What else is it then ? Most of these invite everyone that wants to go. There’s little or no interaction before hand. The guys turn up and line up . Most don’t even get naked . They get their quick fix and go. The profiles that advertise are normally 20-30 ish and have lots of veris from guys that are over 50. Are you saying these guys turned up for the food ? | |||
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To bang a hole. Oh dear
What else is it then ? Most of these invite everyone that wants to go. There’s little or no interaction before hand. The guys turn up and line up . Most don’t even get naked . They get their quick fix and go.
The profiles that advertise are normally 20-30 ish and have lots of veris from guys that are over 50.
Are you saying these guys turned up for the food ?
"Well for ladies like me that enjoy this activity that hole as you call it, is ME and I’m a person a lady, thank you very much. Just because you don’t indulge in this yourself, there’s no need to be so derogatory to others. I doubt if your lady would appreciate being referred to in such a way | |||
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To bang a hole. Oh dear
What else is it then ? Most of these invite everyone that wants to go. There’s little or no interaction before hand. The guys turn up and line up . Most don’t even get naked . They get their quick fix and go.
The profiles that advertise are normally 20-30 ish and have lots of veris from guys that are over 50.
Are you saying these guys turned up for the food ?
Well for ladies like me that enjoy this activity that hole as you call it, is ME and I’m a person a lady, thank you very much. Just because you don’t indulge in this yourself, there’s no need to be so derogatory to others. I doubt if your lady would appreciate being referred to in such a way "I’ve not been derogatory towards you. I’m merely pointing out that the profiles that the OP is talking about charge for gaurenteed sex. The guys will turn up regardless of who the person is . So yes it’s just a hole to them. Do you just invite anybody ? Or do you have interaction ? And do you charge ? A quick username search for gangbang soon brings up numerous profiles that are quite clearly profiting from it | |||
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"Hi all, I've looked on here to see if this has been bought up before it has and hasn't so here goes. What has happened to the meets section recently? Not that we arrange to meet but I will often look anyway (wishfull thinking), quite often I see in there that people are only willing to play if the couple or single guy pay towards a hotel which I think is fine. However very rarely do I see a gangbang meet where there's no charge, in some cases I've messaged to find out how much and been told anywhere between £60-£100. Now this I find this outrageous behaviour and I'm guessing if reported could be taken down. What I don't understand is how many posts on the forum moan about lack of men attending their gangbangs but what do people expect when being forced to pay those extortionate prices. " Lifestyle parties. It’s an actual and quite popular thing. A website like this is a good way to find willing participants. Unfortunately. However it’s Not for me. I was involved with a gangbang last year. Never tried it before so thought I’d give it a go. Didn’t reallt enjoy it. I prefer someone more intimate. Each to their own | |||
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To bang a hole. Oh dear
What else is it then ? Most of these invite everyone that wants to go. There’s little or no interaction before hand. The guys turn up and line up . Most don’t even get naked . They get their quick fix and go.
The profiles that advertise are normally 20-30 ish and have lots of veris from guys that are over 50.
Are you saying these guys turned up for the food ?
Well for ladies like me that enjoy this activity that hole as you call it, is ME and I’m a person a lady, thank you very much. Just because you don’t indulge in this yourself, there’s no need to be so derogatory to others. I doubt if your lady would appreciate being referred to in such a way
I’ve not been derogatory towards you. I’m merely pointing out that the profiles that the OP is talking about charge for gaurenteed sex. The guys will turn up regardless of who the person is . So yes it’s just a hole to them.
Do you just invite anybody ? Or do you have interaction ? And do you charge ?
A quick username search for gangbang soon brings up numerous profiles that are quite clearly profiting from it "Possibly wouldn't have put it in that way but this is basically the point. Generally if your paying to attend a gangbang then it doesn't really matter who you are or what you look like. Where as a non charged one is likely to only select the guys who the gangbangee is attracted to. | |||
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To bang a hole. Oh dear
What else is it then ? Most of these invite everyone that wants to go. There’s little or no interaction before hand. The guys turn up and line up . Most don’t even get naked . They get their quick fix and go.
The profiles that advertise are normally 20-30 ish and have lots of veris from guys that are over 50.
Are you saying these guys turned up for the food ?
Well for ladies like me that enjoy this activity that hole as you call it, is ME and I’m a person a lady, thank you very much. Just because you don’t indulge in this yourself, there’s no need to be so derogatory to others. I doubt if your lady would appreciate being referred to in such a way
I’ve not been derogatory towards you. I’m merely pointing out that the profiles that the OP is talking about charge for gaurenteed sex. The guys will turn up regardless of who the person is . So yes it’s just a hole to them.
Do you just invite anybody ? Or do you have interaction ? And do you charge ?
A quick username search for gangbang soon brings up numerous profiles that are quite clearly profiting from it "I think your comment was a derogatory term to women in general. If you don’t understand how that is, why don’t you ask your hole to explain it to you. On the subject of gangbangs, perhaps you’ve been watching too much porn. There is no such thing as guaranteed sex, whether paid or unpaid and anyone who thinks this does exist better wise up quick. Everyone at any time can refuse sex, money changing hands does not make that any different. No interaction  Yeah you’ve definitely been watching too much porn!! Do any other ladies here just lie back and do nothing? I don’t! A gentleman above explained the normal situation perfectly. It’s sex but with multiple people.
That’s my personal experience and yes I’ve done this unpaid via Fab and paid via another site. Being paid changes nothing about the arranging or experience.
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"Hi all, I've looked on here to see if this has been bought up before it has and hasn't so here goes. What has happened to the meets section recently? Not that we arrange to meet but I will often look anyway (wishfull thinking), quite often I see in there that people are only willing to play if the couple or single guy pay towards a hotel which I think is fine. However very rarely do I see a gangbang meet where there's no charge, in some cases I've messaged to find out how much and been told anywhere between £60-£100. Now this I find this outrageous behaviour and I'm guessing if reported could be taken down. What I don't understand is how many posts on the forum moan about lack of men attending their gangbangs but what do people expect when being forced to pay those extortionate prices. " You're not being forced to pay anything. You have the opportunity to pay £x to be involved in a gangbang and you either attend or don't,it really is that simple. | |||
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" You're not being forced to pay anything. You have the opportunity to pay £x to be involved in a gangbang and you either attend or don't,it really is that simple." Of course your right but is it ok to advertise a pay service on fab where this this is against the rules? | |||
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"I suspect the theory is that if you pay, you're more likely to turn up. You don't pay until you arrive at the house/venue/hotel room. You don't pay anything in advance. Thinking about it you would be stupid to pay in advance. If you'd booked a £200 apartment, spent £150 on snacks, soft drinks, tea, coffee, milk, condoms etc you'd be stupid not to ask people to pay in advance..... Wow you go all out.... I provide the woman and room. Bring your own condoms and drinks. I tend to organize my gangbangs mid week, early evening. Just so it’s not a all night thing. We usually do weekends, normally in the afternoon. Renting an apartment means we don't have to worry about inviting strangers into our private residence. Also makes it a bit more of an occasion. We can fuck at home any time. We don't see it as paying to fuck her, if it costs us £200 and we invite 5 guys it's £40 each, if we invite 10 it's £20. We share pictures beforehand so it's not blind date. Everyone knows the score. Since we've started doing it like this we haven't had a single no show. Have you ever had an instance where she doesn't want one of the men to touch her, when she sees him in person?" She "sees" all the photos and emails beforehand, so has a good idea of who might be getting an invite. She has the final word at the end of the day, her body, her game, her rules. So far we haven't experienced that. If we did I'd offer to refund his contribution and we'd take the "loss". I have to say, so far, all of the guys we've invited have been really great people, quite a few are the first names on the list when we arrange our next party. | |||
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"I suspect the theory is that if you pay, you're more likely to turn up. You don't pay until you arrive at the house/venue/hotel room. You don't pay anything in advance. Thinking about it you would be stupid to pay in advance. If you'd booked a £200 apartment, spent £150 on snacks, soft drinks, tea, coffee, milk, condoms etc you'd be stupid not to ask people to pay in advance..... £150 on refreshments! That sounds more like a party. Do men stick around to eat and drink? " Yes. We make them stay until all the cake has gone. | |||
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"I have never paid for sex and don't intend to start now.. Having said that it makes little difference to me if others wish to pay or charge for some hanky panky. I see little difference in a club charging single men £30 plus to enter or an individual asking for their travelling expenses or 'donating' a fiver towards the drinks. Consenting adults... Consenting adults can do what they like but there is a big difference between paying an entrance fee to a proper swingers club where the only sex you get is where someone actually wants sex with you rather than a “contribution” gang bang where sex is guaranteed because you’ve paid. £30 to gain entry to a club where you can have a great social evening and make new friends or £60 to bang a hole for 5 mins . No choice really. Beards
To bang a hole. Oh dear
What else is it then ? Most of these invite everyone that wants to go. There’s little or no interaction before hand. The guys turn up and line up . Most don’t even get naked . They get their quick fix and go.
The profiles that advertise are normally 20-30 ish and have lots of veris from guys that are over 50.
Are you saying these guys turned up for the food ?
Well for ladies like me that enjoy this activity that hole as you call it, is ME and I’m a person a lady, thank you very much. Just because you don’t indulge in this yourself, there’s no need to be so derogatory to others. I doubt if your lady would appreciate being referred to in such a way
I’ve not been derogatory towards you. I’m merely pointing out that the profiles that the OP is talking about charge for gaurenteed sex. The guys will turn up regardless of who the person is . So yes it’s just a hole to them.
Do you just invite anybody ? Or do you have interaction ? And do you charge ?
A quick username search for gangbang soon brings up numerous profiles that are quite clearly profiting from it "And you're not? When you were in Swansea you were looking for meets just for somewhere to stay for the big weekend with no intention of fucking anyone, as your recent veri's suggest | |||
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"I have never paid for sex and don't intend to start now.. Having said that it makes little difference to me if others wish to pay or charge for some hanky panky. I see little difference in a club charging single men £30 plus to enter or an individual asking for their travelling expenses or 'donating' a fiver towards the drinks. Consenting adults... Consenting adults can do what they like but there is a big difference between paying an entrance fee to a proper swingers club where the only sex you get is where someone actually wants sex with you rather than a “contribution” gang bang where sex is guaranteed because you’ve paid. £30 to gain entry to a club where you can have a great social evening and make new friends or £60 to bang a hole for 5 mins . No choice really. Beards
To bang a hole. Oh dear
What else is it then ? Most of these invite everyone that wants to go. There’s little or no interaction before hand. The guys turn up and line up . Most don’t even get naked . They get their quick fix and go.
The profiles that advertise are normally 20-30 ish and have lots of veris from guys that are over 50.
Are you saying these guys turned up for the food ?
Well for ladies like me that enjoy this activity that hole as you call it, is ME and I’m a person a lady, thank you very much. Just because you don’t indulge in this yourself, there’s no need to be so derogatory to others. I doubt if your lady would appreciate being referred to in such a way
I’ve not been derogatory towards you. I’m merely pointing out that the profiles that the OP is talking about charge for gaurenteed sex. The guys will turn up regardless of who the person is . So yes it’s just a hole to them.
Do you just invite anybody ? Or do you have interaction ? And do you charge ?
A quick username search for gangbang soon brings up numerous profiles that are quite clearly profiting from it
I think your comment was a derogatory term to women in general. If you don’t understand how that is, why don’t you ask your hole to explain it to you.
On the subject of gangbangs, perhaps you’ve been watching too much porn. There is no such thing as guaranteed sex, whether paid or unpaid and anyone who thinks this does exist better wise up quick. Everyone at any time can refuse sex, money changing hands does not make that any different. No interaction Yeah you’ve definitely been watching too much porn!! Do any other ladies here just lie back and do nothing? I don’t! A gentleman above explained the normal situation perfectly. It’s sex but with multiple people.
That’s my personal experience and yes I’ve done this unpaid via Fab and paid via another site. Being paid changes nothing about the arranging or experience.
But I’m interested to know your experience as you seem to have knowledge of these events. Which did you go to? Why did you go?"Your confusing those who enjoy and actively want it from those that are charging to make money. (You are the first one you enjoy it , so again not being derogatory to you). And the “hole” (the second one those charging ) is all men see. This goes for female or male gangbangs . As for my experience I have been in the porn business and seen these events happen through sites like this. So perfectly aware of how money changes hands. And the women/men are not doing it for pleasure . | |||
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"I have never paid for sex and don't intend to start now.. Having said that it makes little difference to me if others wish to pay or charge for some hanky panky. I see little difference in a club charging single men £30 plus to enter or an individual asking for their travelling expenses or 'donating' a fiver towards the drinks. Consenting adults... Consenting adults can do what they like but there is a big difference between paying an entrance fee to a proper swingers club where the only sex you get is where someone actually wants sex with you rather than a “contribution” gang bang where sex is guaranteed because you’ve paid. £30 to gain entry to a club where you can have a great social evening and make new friends or £60 to bang a hole for 5 mins . No choice really. Beards
To bang a hole. Oh dear
What else is it then ? Most of these invite everyone that wants to go. There’s little or no interaction before hand. The guys turn up and line up . Most don’t even get naked . They get their quick fix and go.
The profiles that advertise are normally 20-30 ish and have lots of veris from guys that are over 50.
Are you saying these guys turned up for the food ?
Well for ladies like me that enjoy this activity that hole as you call it, is ME and I’m a person a lady, thank you very much. Just because you don’t indulge in this yourself, there’s no need to be so derogatory to others. I doubt if your lady would appreciate being referred to in such a way
I’ve not been derogatory towards you. I’m merely pointing out that the profiles that the OP is talking about charge for gaurenteed sex. The guys will turn up regardless of who the person is . So yes it’s just a hole to them.
Do you just invite anybody ? Or do you have interaction ? And do you charge ?
A quick username search for gangbang soon brings up numerous profiles that are quite clearly profiting from it
And you're not?
When you were in Swansea you were looking for meets just for somewhere to stay for the big weekend with no intention of fucking anyone, as your recent veri's suggest "no idea what this means but yes we were looking for somewhere to stay as there were no hotels or campsites available . And no we weren’t looking to fuck just anyone as we advertised for people to show us round the town and have drinks and then meet up with us at a music festival . Guessing we didn’t choose you seeing as you blocked us. | |||
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"I have never paid for sex and don't intend to start now.. Having said that it makes little difference to me if others wish to pay or charge for some hanky panky. I see little difference in a club charging single men £30 plus to enter or an individual asking for their travelling expenses or 'donating' a fiver towards the drinks. Consenting adults... Consenting adults can do what they like but there is a big difference between paying an entrance fee to a proper swingers club where the only sex you get is where someone actually wants sex with you rather than a “contribution” gang bang where sex is guaranteed because you’ve paid. £30 to gain entry to a club where you can have a great social evening and make new friends or £60 to bang a hole for 5 mins . No choice really. Beards
To bang a hole. Oh dear
What else is it then ? Most of these invite everyone that wants to go. There’s little or no interaction before hand. The guys turn up and line up . Most don’t even get naked . They get their quick fix and go.
The profiles that advertise are normally 20-30 ish and have lots of veris from guys that are over 50.
Are you saying these guys turned up for the food ?
Well for ladies like me that enjoy this activity that hole as you call it, is ME and I’m a person a lady, thank you very much. Just because you don’t indulge in this yourself, there’s no need to be so derogatory to others. I doubt if your lady would appreciate being referred to in such a way
I’ve not been derogatory towards you. I’m merely pointing out that the profiles that the OP is talking about charge for gaurenteed sex. The guys will turn up regardless of who the person is . So yes it’s just a hole to them.
Do you just invite anybody ? Or do you have interaction ? And do you charge ?
A quick username search for gangbang soon brings up numerous profiles that are quite clearly profiting from it
And you're not?
When you were in Swansea you were looking for meets just for somewhere to stay for the big weekend with no intention of fucking anyone, as your recent veri's suggest no idea what this means but yes we were looking for somewhere to stay as there were no hotels or campsites available .
And no we weren’t looking to fuck just anyone as we advertised for people to show us round the town and have drinks and then meet up with us at a music festival . Guessing we didn’t choose you seeing as you blocked us. "Is there a burn emoji? | |||
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"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/762966 This new thread about covers the above " I think we should agree to disagree on the hole comment then. Sorry what’s this thread title ? | |||
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"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/762966 This new thread about covers the above I think we should agree to disagree on the hole comment then. Sorry what’s this thread title ?" That’s cool and like I said I’m sorry if I offended you. I may have worded it wrongly . It’s a thread called “re gangbang” | |||
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"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/762966 This new thread about covers the above I think we should agree to disagree on the hole comment then. Sorry what’s this thread title ? That’s cool and like I said I’m sorry if I offended you. I may have worded it wrongly . It’s a thread called “re gangbang”" No wait the thread is called re payment for parties. It’s in the feedback forum | |||
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"To me, and this is just me, plus I’ve not read the whole thread. If you were serious about a non profit making gangbang, why not use a a club and create a greedy girl night. Still, never been to a gangbang." So the club profit from the female? | |||
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"Back in the day .. avertizers asking for money would be banned from the site ... same as people asking for or selling drugs ... now the ops dont do anything so its become normal If you see them report them. The site cannot possibly police every profile, every thread, every post. " Exactly this. They are unpaid volunteers with real lives who give up their spare time. | |||
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