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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this a thing? I watched a dating video last night in which it was advised that guys hold back from being a really good fuck until they meet a woman they want a relationship with. Otherwise the woman will fall in love with them and become obsessive about them.

Any thoughts or experiences on this issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a croc of utter shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm I suppose it could happen. I can sometimes find myself a little starry eyed for a few days after a particularly good fuck, start doodling his name and stuff.... just need to get my bearings again then I’m fine

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sounds like bollocks to me.

That's a technical term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a guy trying to make is ego feel great. A lass isn't gonna be completely obsessive if she gets the fuck of her life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If sex with a man was crap from the start he would be dropped like a stinky sock.

I'm just here for sex though so I wouldn't want anything more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a guy trying to make is ego feel great. A lass isn't gonna be completely obsessive if she gets the fuck of her life. "

That is true for me. Can't speak for anyone else though.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sounds like a load of old tripe. Literally, if you have an endearing way of listening.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

The sex is only truely great when both (in a 1-2-1 situation) click; if either one is holding back then the sex will only ever be mediocre.

And, I doubt whether great sex alone would ever make someone fall in love - so, personality has absolutely no value? A person that plays games to control a situation is very their very behaviour not a keeper. I guess at best it's a good excuse for poor performance:

"You're shit at sex"

"That's because I didn't want you to fall in love with me; I was saving you from heart break"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is only good for me when I’m really into someone and they feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sex is only truely great when both (in a 1-2-1 situation) click; if either one is holding back then the sex will only ever be mediocre.

And, I doubt whether great sex alone would ever make someone fall in love - so, personality has absolutely no value? A person that plays games to control a situation is very their very behaviour not a keeper. I guess at best it's a good excuse for poor performance:

"You're shit at sex"

"That's because I didn't want you to fall in love with me; I was saving you from heart break""

Perfectly said!

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By *uiet LightMan
over a year ago

Hove


"What a croc of utter shite"

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Is this a thing? I watched a dating video last night in which it was advised that guys hold back from being a really good fuck until they meet a woman they want a relationship with. Otherwise the woman will fall in love with them and become obsessive about them.

Any thoughts or experiences on this issue? "

You're watching some shite just now are you not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don’t say it was advice from ‘Matthew hussey’ I love his dating advice. ( he’s easy on the eye also)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just make sure I’m shit every time to avoid complication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you need to get out more OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please don’t say it was advice from ‘Matthew hussey’ I love his dating advice. ( he’s easy on the eye also) "

Haha I was loving his ‘5 texts to make him fall for you’ article.

Number 4 was sending “I just ate a life changing burger”.... I shit you not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please don’t say it was advice from ‘Matthew hussey’ I love his dating advice. ( he’s easy on the eye also)

Haha I was loving his ‘5 texts to make him fall for you’ article.

Number 4 was sending “I just ate a life changing burger”.... I shit you not "

I never saw that one. Ha. Some of his stuff makes perfect sense. The burger thing must be tongue in cheek.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I can assure you a relationship could not be further from my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please don’t say it was advice from ‘Matthew hussey’ I love his dating advice. ( he’s easy on the eye also)

Haha I was loving his ‘5 texts to make him fall for you’ article.

Number 4 was sending “I just ate a life changing burger”.... I shit you not

I never saw that one. Ha. Some of his stuff makes perfect sense. The burger thing must be tongue in cheek. "

I’d like to think so.... I imagine if I sent that to a guy I’d get blocked hahaha

He is cute though, got a Patrick Dempsey type thing going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a thing? I watched a dating video last night in which it was advised that guys hold back from being a really good fuck until they meet a woman they want a relationship with. Otherwise the woman will fall in love with them and become obsessive about them.

Any thoughts or experiences on this issue? "

That's a get out of jail free card for all the men who are shite in bed.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of bollox, you would have to already have serious issues with relationships to put sex up there in such high regard when it comes to your heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great shag is just that. No more, no less. Someone needs to be so more than that, if I'm to fall for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a croc of utter shite"

Couldn't have put it any better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please don’t say it was advice from ‘Matthew hussey’ I love his dating advice. ( he’s easy on the eye also)

Haha I was loving his ‘5 texts to make him fall for you’ article.

Number 4 was sending “I just ate a life changing burger”.... I shit you not

I never saw that one. Ha. Some of his stuff makes perfect sense. The burger thing must be tongue in cheek.

I’d like to think so.... I imagine if I sent that to a guy I’d get blocked hahaha

He is cute though, got a Patrick Dempsey type thing going on "

I remember now, he said to tell him the amazing thing you’ve just eaten like it’s a sexual thing. I do that all the time, I send food porn to guys, ha. Last one was oysters and champagne but I do tend to send food and clothing pics a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha I thought this would stir a few amusing responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha I thought this would stir a few amusing responses "

You little tinker!!

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

A good fuck may well get you another invite to fuck again ( dependant on other factors too ) but that's about all.

This must be devised by one of those men who think all women are after a relationship and tell those women anything they think the women wants to hear just to bed said woman.

I've found these men are the ones who can't handle real NSA (that they claim to want) when a woman simply walks away/ no feelings involved after sex

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

Sounds like a good excuse for being crap in bed.

Thanks OP I'll use that myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes more than a knee trembler to melt this heart!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"What a croc of utter shite"

my thoughts exactly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never do that anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do that anyway "

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do that anyway

I know "

I know you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do that anyway "
That's what the bridesmaids said anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do that anyway That's what the bridesmaids said anyways"

They weren't lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do that anyway That's what the bridesmaids said anyways"

What kind of bastard does that on his wedding day anyway....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do that anyway That's what the bridesmaids said anyways

What kind of bastard does that on his wedding day anyway...."

Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do that anyway That's what the bridesmaids said anyways

What kind of bastard does that on his wedding day anyway...."

If we have a mmf threesome will you forgive us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do that anyway That's what the bridesmaids said anyways

What kind of bastard does that on his wedding day anyway....

If we have a mmf threesome will you forgive us "

Of course! What time can you both get here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do that anyway That's what the bridesmaids said anyways

What kind of bastard does that on his wedding day anyway....

If we have a mmf threesome will you forgive us

Of course! What time can you both get here? "

2 months and 2 weeks for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do that anyway That's what the bridesmaids said anyways

What kind of bastard does that on his wedding day anyway....

If we have a mmf threesome will you forgive us

Of course! What time can you both get here?

2 months and 2 weeks for me "

2 mins and 12 seconds for me... But I promise they will be the best of your life

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Never in my entire life have i fell for someone just because the sex is good. What utter rubbish. Shows how little some men actually know about women

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By *nsure2018Couple
over a year ago

BASINGSTOKE

why would you not fuck someone the best you could .....

surely you want to enjoy it and them to enjoy you

unless you want to be known as the worse shag anyone has ever had ....

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