FabSwingers.com forum: Social Meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was wondering how many of us would be up for meeting up for a drink and and a chat and see where it leads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we were meeting that was our preferred method.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people do socials. It would never lead anywhere on the day for me though, never more than a kiss on a social for me so I can come away and decide if I actually do want more to happen #fussy bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of us enjoy doing just that

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always try to.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It's the only way we do meets

Have a chat,laughs and see where it leads ,no pressure.

Miss

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Most people do socials. It would never lead anywhere on the day for me though, never more than a kiss on a social for me so I can come away and decide if I actually do want more to happen #fussy bitch

I always tell peeps nothing will happen on the social meet. Saves any awkwardness

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I always tell peeps nothing will happen on the social meet. Saves any awkwardness "

Same!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I always tell peeps nothing will happen on the social meet. Saves any awkwardness

Same!! "

That's coz we're smart. Lay the law down from the start. Any signs of pressure and they can fuck right off. I also tell them I have rules for a reason, and if they try to bypass them it shows a lack of respect for boundaries, which is always good to know asap.... Fuck right off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’m the same, as we are looking for regular partners, we aren’t here for one offs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was wondering how many of us would be up for meeting up for a drink and and a chat and see where it leads? "

Are you talking about an organised social meet, op? Of which there are usually a few of in an area, although you may have to travel?

Or are you talking about meeting someone for a social after chatting on here.

If it's the first and there are none in your area, why not post on the meet section of the forums? Do you have a venue? It's a good way for people to relax and see people offline and make a judgement on whether they would want to meet them again. I'm only guessing as I have never been to one.

If it's the second, then the majority of my play meets, both on here and other ways, have taken place after a social. Always a good idea to meet someone in a public place and have a chat to see how you get on. Occasionally these have turned into immediate play, going elsewhere, but more often than not, a play date was arranged for another time. Yet to have a social that hasn't gone any further. But that has been because I don't usually meet someone after just a couple of messages.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Not for us .

We aren’t into getting a sitter , getting dressed up and going somewhere to meet up with someone to then decide whether we want to fuck them another time .

Pointless and a waste of precious time .

We will only have an arranged meet with a view to play if there’s an attraction on the same night . We have turned down so many potential meets by sticking to our guns on this one , but it’s the only way for us , and we always have fun filled nights when we do go out

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We go to arranged socials but like the previous poster said it takes up too much of potential play tinge to meet socially if only meeting an individual.

Socialising for us can take place in the bar area of a club, a little chat with each other to make a decision on whether we have chemistry with the other person/s then invite to play.

We do socialise with fab friends though, rugby matches, meals, gigs etc. These are people we've known a while and know we already like them!

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