FabSwingers.com forum: No shows

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there a specific part of this site that enables you to let genuine users know the screen names of people who fail to show for an arranged meet ( apart from telling site admin )?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"Is there a specific part of this site that enables you to let genuine users know the screen names of people who fail to show for an arranged meet ( apart from telling site admin )?"

You didn't show for the meet hubby and I arranged with you. Can I tell everyone that YOU are a timewaster.........

Ooooppss, just did

And as this obviously isn't true, this is why we don't name and shame

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Is there a specific part of this site that enables you to let genuine users know the screen names of people who fail to show for an arranged meet ( apart from telling site admin )?"

No,and Madchick just explained why....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Madchick I'm confused... I have never spoken to u guys, not even arranged meet with u guys????

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"Madchick I'm confused... I have never spoken to u guys, not even arranged meet with u guys????"

Thats what you say, I say different.

Now, if there was to be an area for naming and shaming and I plastered your name across it as being a timewaster.... who are people going to believe?

Now do you see why we don't name and shame and .......

Read the bottom of my original post... you may see the irony

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Madchick I just got jist of ur reply lol. Just frustrating though cos I don't or should I say, I hate no shows as I was sat Here waiting and they never showed up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And yeah I understand that anyone could claim things about someone else. Think best to just learn from arranging meets with that specific user

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens!

Sorry mate but that's Fabs!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Forgotten bout it already lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We seem to get alot of no shows.. nothing we can do about it.. you just learn with time to know the people that aren't gonna show up...

A few tips to keep you ahead of the game in the future..

always try arrange meets at your home or their home,

always get their number and speak to both partners or the person if single. ( helps you get a better feel for them and suss out if they are really wanting to meet or not.. its harder to lie on the phone than it is online)

if you and they are able, show your faces on cam before the meet.

and make sure you call them or get them to call you at a specific time on the day of the meet to confirm.

none of these are surefire ways to stop no shows but they certainly help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I arrange to accom, I always allow time beforehand to have a quick clean up of the house and a good all over body scrub for myself.

That way, if they don't show, at least my house is neat and tidy and I am either a) ready to go out and find some fun or b) ready to slide into bed feeling all clean and fresh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Selfish as it may seem, I don't report no-shows, as they will only return with a new profile, and possibly disappoint me again. At least, as I now know their profile, they are blocked, and no longer a problem to me.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

"Selfish as it may seem, I don't report no-shows, as they will only return with a new profile, and possibly disappoint me again. At least, as I now know their profile, they are blocked, and no longer a problem to me."

Good tip

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Arrange to have first meet at a club, like we do, then if they dont show, you have loads of other ppl to enjoy the night with, and hopefully have lots of fun with too. Easy

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