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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More notice than chat! Our responsibilities and consideration toward our fellow partners in pleasure of whatever sexual orientation. STIs and HIV have reached epidemic levels. A vitally critical subject generally i mentioned and yet one that should be a banner reminder within the Forum pages. As we all know, there is no such thing as 100% safe sex outside absolute monogamy it with trusted play partners. The only guarantee, based on trust and responsibility is to ask prior to any contact, Are you clean' and know it. Anyone who cannot answer this question with absolute certain, irrespective of condoms as oral sex is of greater risk, should not be playing with anyone. STI testing on a regular basis is no guarantee of a person not having an infection where such an infection incubates over several days and longer. We are all,individually, responsible for ensuring the safety at any sexual encounter. Always ask, inoffensively, , 'are you clean'?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"More notice than chat! Our responsibilities and consideration toward our fellow partners in pleasure of whatever sexual orientation. STIs and HIV have reached epidemic levels. A vitally critical subject generally i mentioned and yet one that should be a banner reminder within the Forum pages. As we all know, there is no such thing as 100% safe sex outside absolute monogamy it with trusted play partners. The only guarantee, based on trust and responsibility is to ask prior to any contact, Are you clean' and know it. Anyone who cannot answer this question with absolute certain, irrespective of condoms as oral sex is of greater risk, should not be playing with anyone. STI testing on a regular basis is no guarantee of a person not having an infection where such an infection incubates over several days and longer. We are all,individually, responsible for ensuring the safety at any sexual encounter. Always ask, inoffensively, , 'are you clean'? "

So if , as you say testing is is no guarantee , and irrespective of condoms , oral sex is of greater risk , how does anyone who has sex with multiple partners know whether they are clean ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And they say "Yes, honest, cross my heart and hope to die".

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"And they say "Yes, honest, cross my heart and hope to die"."

Finger promise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More notice than chat! Our responsibilities and consideration toward our fellow partners in pleasure of whatever sexual orientation. STIs and HIV have reached epidemic levels. A vitally critical subject generally i mentioned and yet one that should be a banner reminder within the Forum pages. As we all know, there is no such thing as 100% safe sex outside absolute monogamy it with trusted play partners. The only guarantee, based on trust and responsibility is to ask prior to any contact, Are you clean' and know it. Anyone who cannot answer this question with absolute certain, irrespective of condoms as oral sex is of greater risk, should not be playing with anyone. STI testing on a regular basis is no guarantee of a person not having an infection where such an infection incubates over several days and longer. We are all,individually, responsible for ensuring the safety at any sexual encounter. Always ask, inoffensively, , 'are you clean'? "

Right, because they would never lie....

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"More notice than chat! Our responsibilities and consideration toward our fellow partners in pleasure of whatever sexual orientation. STIs and HIV have reached epidemic levels. A vitally critical subject generally i mentioned and yet one that should be a banner reminder within the Forum pages. As we all know, there is no such thing as 100% safe sex outside absolute monogamy it with trusted play partners. The only guarantee, based on trust and responsibility is to ask prior to any contact, Are you clean' and know it. Anyone who cannot answer this question with absolute certain, irrespective of condoms as oral sex is of greater risk, should not be playing with anyone. STI testing on a regular basis is no guarantee of a person not having an infection where such an infection incubates over several days and longer. We are all,individually, responsible for ensuring the safety at any sexual encounter. Always ask, inoffensively, , 'are you clean'?

Right, because they would never lie...."

Nobody ever lies on Fab

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

How long did that take to compose ok?

I am not entirely sure of the message.

Are you on a clean up mission?

Wish you well with the crusade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get tested on January 2nd, does that mean I’m all clear for the year ?

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where did you get the hiv epidemic crap from? Hiv is really well managed and people take suppressants which actually make them not infectious, their partners can take pep too.

Yes stis are prevalent in society but it's not more a epidemic than it's ever been.

If you concentrate on your own sexual health by using condoms and 3 monthly sti checks then you really don't need to know your partners sexual history. I doubt anyone would meet if they believed they were 'unclean' and if they knew they had a sti it would be diagnosed in a clinic and treated accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where did you get the hiv epidemic crap from? Hiv is really well managed and people take suppressants which actually make them not infectious, their partners can take pep too.

Yes stis are prevalent in society but it's not more a epidemic than it's ever been.

If you concentrate on your own sexual health by using condoms and 3 monthly sti checks then you really don't need to know your partners sexual history. I doubt anyone would meet if they believed they were 'unclean' and if they knew they had a sti it would be diagnosed in a clinic and treated accordingly "

Bloody professionals

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"More notice than chat! Our responsibilities and consideration toward our fellow partners in pleasure of whatever sexual orientation. STIs and HIV have reached epidemic levels. A vitally critical subject generally i mentioned and yet one that should be a banner reminder within the Forum pages. As we all know, there is no such thing as 100% safe sex outside absolute monogamy it with trusted play partners. The only guarantee, based on trust and responsibility is to ask prior to any contact, Are you clean' and know it. Anyone who cannot answer this question with absolute certain, irrespective of condoms as oral sex is of greater risk, should not be playing with anyone. STI testing on a regular basis is no guarantee of a person not having an infection where such an infection incubates over several days and longer. We are all,individually, responsible for ensuring the safety at any sexual encounter. Always ask, inoffensively, , 'are you clean'? "
Remind me why you think youre an expert on these topics?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"More notice than chat! Our responsibilities and consideration toward our fellow partners in pleasure of whatever sexual orientation. STIs and HIV have reached epidemic levels. A vitally critical subject generally i mentioned and yet one that should be a banner reminder within the Forum pages. As we all know, there is no such thing as 100% safe sex outside absolute monogamy it with trusted play partners. The only guarantee, based on trust and responsibility is to ask prior to any contact, Are you clean' and know it. Anyone who cannot answer this question with absolute certain, irrespective of condoms as oral sex is of greater risk, should not be playing with anyone. STI testing on a regular basis is no guarantee of a person not having an infection where such an infection incubates over several days and longer. We are all,individually, responsible for ensuring the safety at any sexual encounter. Always ask, inoffensively, , 'are you clean'? "

You've slightly contradicted yourself but I agree that we all have a responibility to be as safe as we feel appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Read the literature. The information is freely available. The issue here is taking responsibility for ourselves and others but there are those who dispute and deny fact. In effect, we take our chances. We make our choices.

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

If a person was unfortunate enough to catch say genital warts,even after treatment,the hpv virus will stay with said person after.you hope people are morally responsible to others in what and how they play.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"If a person was unfortunate enough to catch say genital warts,even after treatment,the hpv virus will stay with said person after.you hope people are morally responsible to others in what and how they play."

The HPV virus is widespread with or without warts - most have no symptoms

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