FabSwingers.com forum: Bdsm

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bdsm.... Your kink or NMK? What you love or dislike about the lifestyle ?

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

I love the variety and scope.

I hate the misinterpretation of BDSM on places such as here.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"I love the variety and scope.

I hate the misinterpretation of BDSM on places such as here. "

This. I hate people assuming it's abuse.

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

"I love the variety and scope.

I hate the misinterpretation of BDSM on places such as here.

This. I hate people assuming it's abuse. "

Or that it's purely sexual.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

In its many forms, i love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the variety and scope.

I hate the misinterpretation of BDSM on places such as here.

This. I hate people assuming it's abuse.

Or that it's purely sexual."

What if it is to some people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the variety and scope.

I hate the misinterpretation of BDSM on places such as here.

This. I hate people assuming it's abuse. "
some people do need to learn about the difference. but internet pornography has fucked it up for everyone

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

I enjoy BDSM play, i must admit im not hard core, just tying, teasing, blondfolds, spanking, sensory deprivation etc. I have lots to learn and would love to know how to do rope work but unfortunately i strugle with shoe laces lol

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading

"I love the variety and scope.

I hate the misinterpretation of BDSM on places such as here.

This. I hate people assuming it's abuse.

Or that it's purely sexual.

What if it is to some people?"

Then they need to learn the difference. Abusers are a constant nuisance one the kink scene. Give everyone a bad name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to indulge in light bdsm

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

"I love the variety and scope.

I hate the misinterpretation of BDSM on places such as here.

This. I hate people assuming it's abuse.

Or that it's purely sexual.

What if it is to some people?"

Then that's great. I love to combine both but appreciate the values of each separately.

However there's nothing worse than trying to engage in or negotiate a scene with someone who's continually asking "when does the fucking happen?".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the bdsm lifestyle but at times hate how judgemental people can be, for something that is supposed to be open and accepting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

this is a great concern, I got looks of shock when I mearly knelt before my Dom at a play party ... no hands even touched me but I was deemed to be somewhat of a unconsenting captive to the extent I felt they felt thay had to report to the police and protect me

I submit as it frees my mind,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FB and I enjoy the BDSM side as in crop, restraints, etc, but hate to say it we always end up having sex, but that's us. Nice to have a cuddle at the end too to show that it was just bedroom fun and no harm was meant or intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bondage as part of my varied sex life. I am a switch, which means I can either play Domme or sub in the right circumstances, but much prefer domming nowadays. There is something incredibly hot in having a man tied up and at my mercy. I love finding out their sensitive spots using a variety of tools. But it is much more about waking up the senses and the obedience than about abusing the subs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love bondage as part of my varied sex life. I am a switch, which means I can either play Domme or sub in the right circumstances, but much prefer domming nowadays. There is something incredibly hot in having a man tied up and at my mercy. I love finding out their sensitive spots using a variety of tools. But it is much more about waking up the senses and the obedience than about abusing the subs"

One of my first times in bondage found out how ticklish I can be lol

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

We have a BDSM past although we have mellowed these days.... Suzie has been collared 10 years and has some very sexy whip scars on her arse, drives the guys wild when they fuck her from behind!

S showing herself off dressed in just a collar and butt plug has the same effect too.

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

"I love the variety and scope.

I hate the misinterpretation of BDSM on places such as here. "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the side of BDSM you would expect but as a switch I have to say for me it's the mental aspect, all about trust and the exchange of power. To truly submit is a thing of beauty

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Love it in all its various forms x

Between consenting play partners it is the sexiest form of fun x

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