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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that a guy can have preferences of what women they are into..but when I state my preferences i get grief from guys

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By *amescoupleCouple
over a year ago

north walsham

Just gently advise them to jog on. You profile, your body, your choices. Respect them or lose them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insecurity at not living up to your expectations honey. Be proud you are selective and tell them.to jog on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just gently advise them to jog on. You profile, your body, your choices. Respect them or lose them."

Haha you trumped my jog on first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dual standards, it's not an all male trait, just seems like that at times if they mail asking for a meet and you say no thank you. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooh athena - you are gettin it all off your chest tonight aren't ya ? !

as for your question, it's gonna be part of the 1 of the 2 gameshows i am developing around the concept of and expectations of the using of 'sex' sites

one will be called 'double standards'

the other will be called 'rejection'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that a guy can have preferences of what women they are into..but when I state my preferences i get grief from guys"

i get it a lot too, when ive send a simple but polite sorry your not for me reply, some of the come backs i get are unreal

telling me im fat and ugly anyway, how they can do better than me down the pub, how i cant afford to be so picky, had one guy tell me i was nolthing but a two bit used whore lol

to be honest i find it quite amusing

egos shatter so easily dont they

and i just think....wow they must have really liked me to get so upset over me not wanting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that a guy can have preferences of what women they are into..but when I state my preferences i get grief from guys

i get it a lot too, when ive send a simple but polite sorry your not for me reply, some of the come backs i get are unreal

telling me im fat and ugly anyway, how they can do better than me down the pub, how i cant afford to be so picky, had one guy tell me i was nolthing but a two bit used whore lol

to be honest i find it quite amusing

egos shatter so easily dont they

and i just think....wow they must have really liked me to get so upset over me not wanting them "

I often wonder what they saw in me in the first place when they turn abusive in replies!

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

i put what i want on, i read ur's says it perfect, if thay cant move on thats their prob, but i get the nasty so u think ur so sexy ur a slut too, but i, like u know what i want, and not going to compromise to please anyone and not be true to me, go girl xx

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By *ucktruckCouple
over a year ago

derby

Don't even give them a second thought. If they can't accept the fact that you have your own tastes and desires you probably wouldn't want to communicate to them anyway.

Nice profile, don't let the bastards get you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that a guy can have preferences of what women they are into..but when I state my preferences i get grief from guys"

Everyone can have choices its just the idiots who complain about others having choices too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that a guy can have preferences of what women they are into..but when I state my preferences i get grief from guys"

You're not alone. Everyone gets grief for their preferences.

What makes me laugh is that even if you do fit the bill, that doesn't mean the person will meet you.

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By *herry n JonesyCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire / Leicester

I find it rather amusing when I get abuse from a guy after I have said no thanks. Just proves I was right to turn them down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that a guy can have preferences of what women they are into..but when I state my preferences i get grief from guys"

I just laugh and hit the block button

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that a guy can have preferences of what women they are into..but when I state my preferences i get grief from guys"

cos your on a sex site and are supposed to be well up for it!! erm, cos some are small minded idiots??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it rather amusing when I get abuse from a guy after I have said no thanks. Just proves I was right to turn them down!"

and thats just how i see it

i want to meet nice guys and if they are going to get abusive for me saying no id sooner it be on here than in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that a guy can have preferences of what women they are into..but when I state my preferences i get grief from guys"

You should have the same right to have preferences and enjoy them x

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By *atte ManMan
over a year ago

Only a car-ride from YOU -don't ask where you don't need to know !

I've had it too from women but their comments indicative of the shallow self rightous people they are- we ALL different but some people don't accept that-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit the block button as soon as you send the polite thanks but no thanks reply so that means they can't send an abusive reply. Either that or report it and ignore it. some people just can't handle rejection so have a dummy spitting tantrum.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block them, move on and not waste another second thinking about it......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a shame some get as het and hung up over one person saying no as they do, but I find those who lock on thinking that you're their sole salvation a bit sad really when there's countless others, but hey... there's always the odd one that gets a bit obsessed.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that a guy can have preferences of what women they are into..but when I state my preferences i get grief from guys

i get it a lot too, when ive send a simple but polite sorry your not for me reply, some of the come backs i get are unreal

telling me im fat and ugly anyway, how they can do better than me down the pub, how i cant afford to be so picky, had one guy tell me i was nolthing but a two bit used whore lol

to be honest i find it quite amusing

egos shatter so easily dont they

and i just think....wow they must have really liked me to get so upset over me not wanting them "

And i bet ur really sorry u didn't meet those sweet cuddly guys eh??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men automatically assume that as we are on a swingers site, we will meet and have sex with everyone who messages us

Yes i maybe on a swingers site but i am fussy who i meet and play with. just as i get over 100 messages aday doesn't matter to me in the slightest if i delete without replying or reply

as for the interests i mailed a single mail about his interests and when we was going to meet he bottled it said he was scared and it was fantasy only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that a guy can have preferences of what women they are into..but when I state my preferences i get grief from guys

i get it a lot too, when ive send a simple but polite sorry your not for me reply, some of the come backs i get are unreal

telling me im fat and ugly anyway, how they can do better than me down the pub, how i cant afford to be so picky, had one guy tell me i was nolthing but a two bit used whore lol

to be honest i find it quite amusing

egos shatter so easily dont they

and i just think....wow they must have really liked me to get so upset over me not wanting them "
I think a lot of guys can't get used to the fact that you ladies have a choice and that often that choice is no. They say its "a mans world". Not on here its not. Glad its not getting you down in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i no what you mean ,i chat to a guy on hear and if i say i dont want to meet for what ever reason ,i get abuse for it

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

It's your body, your mind, and your preference, if a guy doesn't like it and gives you abuse then you've obviously made the right decision.

Don't let the bad apples spoil the whole bunch. Have fun and ignore he rest.

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