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By *r and Mrs P Sand OP   Couple
over a year ago

South West

Mrs asking...

At what point do you stop being Bi curious to being bisexual?

Maybe it's a daft question but I genuinely wonder, ive had a few experiences now with some lovely sexy ladies so does that make me bisexual?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There isn’t an agreed time limit. Call yourself what you will. It’s entirely up to you. I’m bisexual cos a guy sucked my cock and I tried another guy to see if I liked it and I did. Then I didn’t meet another one for years.

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

In my opinion it's when you actually go for it and do something with someone of the same sex. But also can be bi if you've not yet went for it but know you want to.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Some guys use bi curious if they are orally bi

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex


"Some guys use bi curious if they are orally bi "

^ this.

If sexuality is a spectrum, rather than just 3 categories, then a person might never graduate from or to being "curious"

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester


"Mrs asking...

At what point do you stop being Bi curious to being bisexual?

Maybe it's a daft question but I genuinely wonder, ive had a few experiences now with some lovely sexy ladies so does that make me bisexual?

"

Why feel the need to be put in a pigeon hole? Just enjoy what you like without labels

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury


"Some guys use bi curious if they are orally bi

^ this.

If sexuality is a spectrum, rather than just 3 categories, then a person might never graduate from or to being "curious" "

Agreed. Actually agreed with most comments just didn't want to hijack the thread agreeing with people

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Mrs asking...

At what point do you stop being Bi curious to being bisexual?

Maybe it's a daft question but I genuinely wonder, ive had a few experiences now with some lovely sexy ladies so does that make me bisexual?

Why feel the need to be put in a pigeon hole? Just enjoy what you like without labels "

Maybe so you can easily find, or be found, by people who share your sexuality?

Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use bi curious.. Because I'm curious about trying things I've yet to try.

If and when I try, and I like or dislike. Is when I'll either say yeah I'm bi. Or it's not for me I'm "straight"

Adam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use bi curious.. Because I'm curious about trying things I've yet to try.

If and when I try, and I like or dislike. Is when I'll either say yeah I'm bi. Or it's not for me I'm "straight"

Adam "

That's a really good way to describe it for sure

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We would say if you are curious about something you then don't know. Once you have found something out you are not curious anymore. So we would say once that curiosity has been fulfilled you can no longer be curious. As for sexuality we would say you are then straight or Bisexual and like someone earlier said the label is only so others can see what interests you when it come to swinging or dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, a lady is fully bisexual if she is happy not only to receive pleasure from another woman, but is also happy to give.

I don't think I'll be very popular with couples after my next comment, but that's an observation that comes from experience. I have noticed that majority of women from couples are 'bi-curious' as the guy wants to experience two women. It's kind of 'come and get me, do whatever you want to me, but I'm not, in million years, going to even touch your pussy' attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admitted to being bi-curious while I was experimenting to see if I liked it, having denied my previous dalliances when I was younger were anything other than horny, youthful curiosity. Decided after experimenting that it wasn’t all that, so went back to being straight. Joined in on the forum and came to the realisation that I was actually bisexual or even pansexual when I realised there were guys and tv/ts I actually fancied. Ironically I haven’t had any sexual contact with men or tv’s or ts’s since and that was over 4 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try again...

Hetexible

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"For me, a lady is fully bisexual if she is happy not only to receive pleasure from another woman, but is also happy to give.

I don't think I'll be very popular with couples after my next comment, but that's an observation that comes from experience. I have noticed that majority of women from couples are 'bi-curious' as the guy wants to experience two women. It's kind of 'come and get me, do whatever you want to me, but I'm not, in million years, going to even touch your pussy' attitude. "

We have found ourselves in this scenario a couple of times. We then feel fooled and could we even say used and abused?? Bit of a strong word but Mrs F did not like how it felt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try again...

Hetexible "

Hetro-flexible without the rof in the middle

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"For me, a lady is fully bisexual if she is happy not only to receive pleasure from another woman, but is also happy to give.

I don't think I'll be very popular with couples after my next comment, but that's an observation that comes from experience. I have noticed that majority of women from couples are 'bi-curious' as the guy wants to experience two women. It's kind of 'come and get me, do whatever you want to me, but I'm not, in million years, going to even touch your pussy' attitude. "

Thats an interesting observation,

I'm totally straight, but have alwayswondered about the amount of couples only looking for bi fem couples .It seems that's what the majority of our updates look for.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have found ourselves in this scenario a couple of times. We then feel fooled and could we even say used and abused?? Bit of a strong word but Mrs F did not like how it felt"

Yes, I can imagine. I felt like that at times too

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"For me, a lady is fully bisexual if she is happy not only to receive pleasure from another woman, but is also happy to give.

I don't think I'll be very popular with couples after my next comment, but that's an observation that comes from experience. I have noticed that majority of women from couples are 'bi-curious' as the guy wants to experience two women. It's kind of 'come and get me, do whatever you want to me, but I'm not, in million years, going to even touch your pussy' attitude. "

I’d agree with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as bicurious still even though I've had lots of experiences with ladies..but I've yet to fully experience it..I certainly don't just lie back and take it but I still haven't gone the whole way!

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By *r and Mrs P Sand OP   Couple
over a year ago

South West

Thank you everyone.. just having a read through all the responses.

It isn't like I'm looking for a 'label' I was genuinely curious (pardon the pun) about how other people felt about it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think every one has their own way of determining it and there is certainly no right or wrong way to do so - for me, I was 'curious' until I had had a few bisexual experiences and changed to 'bisexual' once I was sure it was something I enjoyed and would continue to go back to

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By *evelhazeMan
over a year ago

north staffs

I’m bi courious. I have yet to experience my bi side yet. I’m waiting for the right couple to come a long to loose my bi virginity with. I want he first time to be mmf. After I have tried I would the class myself bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have put bi curious as my orientation as I realised I was also attracted to guys and whilst on here and seeing pics etc of guys, either in a couple or single, it was a turn on as well.

The things I would like to try so far are just sucking and wanking another guy.

Who knows where it may end?!

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

I am Bi Curious because I would never meet a woman for Girl on Girl and my man is the same but in a foursome we like to all 4 play together

SC xx

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I'd say it probably comes down to confidence and acceptance of your own sexuality. When you'd happily play with someone of the same sex with the same level of emotion and involvement as the opposite sex then you could reasonably consider yourself fully bi.

If it's more of a 'special occasion' thing then you're probably more towards the curious end of the spectrum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women pretend to be bisexual to get a fuck.

Men pretend to not be bisexual to get a fuck.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Most of the guys I meet are bisexual though they are reluctant to admit it. I don’t care really - I know what they like - it’s only a label. If guys want to be discreet or think their chances of meeting women will be reduced if they say they’re bi then it’s up to them.

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By *aughty_PompeyMan
over a year ago

Cosham

I think by the time I got to my eighth or ninth guy I stopped being curious....

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Some women pretend to be bisexual to get a fuck.

Some men pretend to not be bisexual to get a fuck."

FTFY and even then it's still a generalisation

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"I think by the time I got to my eighth or ninth guy I stopped being curious.... "

Guess you just had to keep checking to make sure you liked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women pretend to be bisexual to get a fuck.

Some men pretend to not be bisexual to get a fuck.

FTFY and even then it's still a generalisation "

Oops yep 'some'.

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By *atureMischiefCouple
over a year ago

Lutterworth


"Mrs asking...

At what point do you stop being Bi curious to being bisexual?

Maybe it's a daft question but I genuinely wonder, ive had a few experiences now with some lovely sexy ladies so does that make me bisexual?

"

When your curiosity is satisfied I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's when you stop being just curious about same sex sex and start actively seeking it. XXX

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By *aughty_PompeyMan
over a year ago

Cosham


"I think by the time I got to my eighth or ninth guy I stopped being curious....

Guess you just had to keep checking to make sure you liked it "

Well yes.... I think you need to check regularly...Lol

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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

I suppose, you’re Bi-Curious before you’ve tried it...

And Bi-Sexual after, but only if you liked it...

FOR EXAMPLE:

I was once curious about whether or not I liked Almond milk...

Now I’ve tried it... I know I like it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs asking...

At what point do you stop being Bi curious to being bisexual?

Maybe it's a daft question but I genuinely wonder, ive had a few experiences now with some lovely sexy ladies so does that make me bisexual?

"

You are bi when you actively seek same sex fun, curious when you aren't sure - simples...

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