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"Words are not for the exclusive use of a particular race or culture. Those who take offence at such things where no offence is intended are just looking for an excuse to be offended." So very true. | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers." Replace the racial word for one attributed to any other ethnicity. Still sounds acceptable? | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers." If I say to my partner. "wow your tits really look good in that dress", all is fine. If I am introduced to your mum and say exactly the same thing, great offence will be taken. Context is everything. | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers." Two irish guys call each other a Mick , they both will laugh..... A non irish person calls both of these irish men Micks and they both will kick his ass... | |||
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"I really feel for that girl. I hope karma does something good for her " I felt heart sorry for her. It was a set up if ever I've saw one. The artist was a prick for doing that to her x | |||
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"I really feel for that girl. I hope karma does something good for her I felt heart sorry for her. It was a set up if ever I've saw one. The artist was a prick for doing that to her x" I hope people shout ‘nigga’ at him everywhere he goes for years to come | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers. Two irish guys call each other a Mick , they both will laugh..... A non irish person calls both of these irish men Micks and they both will kick his ass..." Out of interest, what if two non irish guys call each other mick? | |||
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"The only thing racist about the "N" word is that white people aren't allowed to use it due to the colour of our skin, black people use it all the time and often as a term of endearment but nobody thinks twice about it, if a white person uses it then suddenly its an offence word. " I think there is a difference between using it in speech, and singing a song lyric written by someone else. | |||
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"The only thing racist about the "N" word is that white people aren't allowed to use it due to the colour of our skin, black people use it all the time and often as a term of endearment but nobody thinks twice about it, if a white person uses it then suddenly its an offence word. " Correct. Live with it. | |||
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"The only thing racist about the "N" word is that white people aren't allowed to use it due to the colour of our skin, black people use it all the time and often as a term of endearment but nobody thinks twice about it, if a white person uses it then suddenly its an offence word. Correct. Live with it." So you think it's wrong to sing the song lyric? | |||
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"The only thing racist about the "N" word is that white people aren't allowed to use it due to the colour of our skin, black people use it all the time and often as a term of endearment but nobody thinks twice about it, if a white person uses it then suddenly its an offence word. " Yeah, it's so weird, why would a word that was historically used by white people to dehumanise and oppress black people be a problem for white people to say. As another poster said, context. And history. These things matter. | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers. If I say to my partner. "wow your tits really look good in that dress", all is fine. If I am introduced to your mum and say exactly the same thing, great offence will be taken. Context is everything. " But let’s say your partner was a professional singer and invites a random man in the audience to sing a duet with her and he has sing to her ‘wow your tits really look good in that dress’, that would presumably be ok because he’s ok singing what the lyrics dictate. Mrs | |||
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"The only thing racist about the "N" word is that white people aren't allowed to use it due to the colour of our skin, black people use it all the time and often as a term of endearment but nobody thinks twice about it, if a white person uses it then suddenly its an offence word. Yeah, it's so weird, why would a word that was historically used by white people to dehumanise and oppress black people be a problem for white people to say. As another poster said, context. And history. These things matter. " What you said is true. But i would argue the word has been "reclaimed "through the success of hip hop music. Bit like faggot. | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers. If I say to my partner. "wow your tits really look good in that dress", all is fine. If I am introduced to your mum and say exactly the same thing, great offence will be taken. Context is everything. But let’s say your partner was a professional singer and invites a random man in the audience to sing a duet with her and he has sing to her ‘wow your tits really look good in that dress’, that would presumably be ok because he’s ok singing what the lyrics dictate. Mrs " I was just arguing the general point which you get infuriatingly often which goes. "how can a white person saying." nigger" be racist when its a term black people call each other". That argument is monumentally stupid. If you are singing a song with the word in it, I would say context is still important. If you are singing a racist song including the word, you're probably a racist. If you are singing. "Oliver's Army" which uses the words "white nigger" ironically in the service of anti imperialism, I would say not. | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers. Two irish guys call each other a Mick , they both will laugh..... A non irish person calls both of these irish men Micks and they both will kick his ass... Out of interest, what if two non irish guys call each other mick? " They’re not Micks so it could viewed as offensive. Context is important. | |||
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"The only thing racist about the "N" word is that white people aren't allowed to use it due to the colour of our skin, black people use it all the time and often as a term of endearment but nobody thinks twice about it, if a white person uses it then suddenly its an offence word. Yeah, it's so weird, why would a word that was historically used by white people to dehumanise and oppress black people be a problem for white people to say. As another poster said, context. And history. These things matter. " So in the context of singing a song, is that acceptable? | |||
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"The only thing racist about the "N" word is that white people aren't allowed to use it due to the colour of our skin, black people use it all the time and often as a term of endearment but nobody thinks twice about it, if a white person uses it then suddenly its an offence word. Yeah, it's so weird, why would a word that was historically used by white people to dehumanise and oppress black people be a problem for white people to say. As another poster said, context. And history. These things matter. What you said is true. But i would argue the word has been "reclaimed "through the success of hip hop music. Bit like faggot. " Seems like there's still a way to go, to me. The N word is still used as a deliberate racial attack by plenty of people. | |||
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"The only thing racist about the "N" word is that white people aren't allowed to use it due to the colour of our skin, black people use it all the time and often as a term of endearment but nobody thinks twice about it, if a white person uses it then suddenly its an offence word. Yeah, it's so weird, why would a word that was historically used by white people to dehumanise and oppress black people be a problem for white people to say. As another poster said, context. And history. These things matter. So in the context of singing a song, is that acceptable? " Hard to say. Depends on the way it's used in the song, who the audience is, how they will react. | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers. Two irish guys call each other a Mick , they both will laugh..... A non irish person calls both of these irish men Micks and they both will kick his ass... Out of interest, what if two non irish guys call each other mick? They’re not Micks so it could viewed as offensive. Context is important. " Ok, i just find it absolutely hillarious to call my fellow white friend a nigga. Because he's the least gangsta person you can imagine. This is a recognise genre of humour. The Armstrong and Miller pilot scences are based on the same premise. They just don't use that naughty word. | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers. If I say to my partner. "wow your tits really look good in that dress", all is fine. If I am introduced to your mum and say exactly the same thing, great offence will be taken. Context is everything. But let’s say your partner was a professional singer and invites a random man in the audience to sing a duet with her and he has sing to her ‘wow your tits really look good in that dress’, that would presumably be ok because he’s ok singing what the lyrics dictate. Mrs I was just arguing the general point which you get infuriatingly often which goes. "how can a white person saying." nigger" be racist when its a term black people call each other". That argument is monumentally stupid. If you are singing a song with the word in it, I would say context is still important. If you are singing a racist song including the word, you're probably a racist. If you are singing. "Oliver's Army" which uses the words "white nigger" ironically in the service of anti imperialism, I would say not. " So what I want to know is, what would have been the best way for the white person to have dealt with the situation? I pride myself in usually getting these things right, but I have to admit, I would have been totally stumped in this situation. | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers. If I say to my partner. "wow your tits really look good in that dress", all is fine. If I am introduced to your mum and say exactly the same thing, great offence will be taken. Context is everything. But let’s say your partner was a professional singer and invites a random man in the audience to sing a duet with her and he has sing to her ‘wow your tits really look good in that dress’, that would presumably be ok because he’s ok singing what the lyrics dictate. Mrs I was just arguing the general point which you get infuriatingly often which goes. "how can a white person saying." nigger" be racist when its a term black people call each other". That argument is monumentally stupid. If you are singing a song with the word in it, I would say context is still important. If you are singing a racist song including the word, you're probably a racist. If you are singing. "Oliver's Army" which uses the words "white nigger" ironically in the service of anti imperialism, I would say not. So what I want to know is, what would have been the best way for the white person to have dealt with the situation? I pride myself in usually getting these things right, but I have to admit, I would have been totally stumped in this situation. " I wouldn't have accepted his invite to come on stage and he shouldn't have invited her, if the cultural context of this song is that only black people should sing it. | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers. If I say to my partner. "wow your tits really look good in that dress", all is fine. If I am introduced to your mum and say exactly the same thing, great offence will be taken. Context is everything. But let’s say your partner was a professional singer and invites a random man in the audience to sing a duet with her and he has sing to her ‘wow your tits really look good in that dress’, that would presumably be ok because he’s ok singing what the lyrics dictate. Mrs I was just arguing the general point which you get infuriatingly often which goes. "how can a white person saying." nigger" be racist when its a term black people call each other". That argument is monumentally stupid. If you are singing a song with the word in it, I would say context is still important. If you are singing a racist song including the word, you're probably a racist. If you are singing. "Oliver's Army" which uses the words "white nigger" ironically in the service of anti imperialism, I would say not. So what I want to know is, what would have been the best way for the white person to have dealt with the situation? I pride myself in usually getting these things right, but I have to admit, I would have been totally stumped in this situation. I wouldn't have accepted his invite to come on stage and he shouldn't have invited her, if the cultural context of this song is that only black people should sing it. " Yes if I had had the foresight to realise I would have to be singing a racist word I probably would have done the same as you. But I would have had to think quick. I don’t know the song, so I don’t know if it were obvious that it was a song that only black people should sing. The song writer clearly considered it reasonable for a white personal to sing his songs, otherwise he wouldn’t have invited her. Or if he didn’t was playing a very nasty game. | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers. If I say to my partner. "wow your tits really look good in that dress", all is fine. If I am introduced to your mum and say exactly the same thing, great offence will be taken. Context is everything. But let’s say your partner was a professional singer and invites a random man in the audience to sing a duet with her and he has sing to her ‘wow your tits really look good in that dress’, that would presumably be ok because he’s ok singing what the lyrics dictate. Mrs I was just arguing the general point which you get infuriatingly often which goes. "how can a white person saying." nigger" be racist when its a term black people call each other". That argument is monumentally stupid. If you are singing a song with the word in it, I would say context is still important. If you are singing a racist song including the word, you're probably a racist. If you are singing. "Oliver's Army" which uses the words "white nigger" ironically in the service of anti imperialism, I would say not. So what I want to know is, what would have been the best way for the white person to have dealt with the situation? I pride myself in usually getting these things right, but I have to admit, I would have been totally stumped in this situation. I wouldn't have accepted his invite to come on stage and he shouldn't have invited her, if the cultural context of this song is that only black people should sing it. Yes if I had had the foresight to realise I would have to be singing a racist word I probably would have done the same as you. But I would have had to think quick. I don’t know the song, so I don’t know if it were obvious that it was a song that only black people should sing. The song writer clearly considered it reasonable for a white personal to sing his songs, otherwise he wouldn’t have invited her. Or if he didn’t was playing a very nasty game." If you know the words to a song you're probably a big enough fan to know the connotations. | |||
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"If it’s in the song and widely accepted what’s the drama? I’m always confused how people of all colours think they can use racist terms towards each other and not take offence, yet when somebody of a different race uses the word they are offended? Can some one explain the logic and reasoning just for my benefit? Cheers. If I say to my partner. "wow your tits really look good in that dress", all is fine. If I am introduced to your mum and say exactly the same thing, great offence will be taken. Context is everything. But let’s say your partner was a professional singer and invites a random man in the audience to sing a duet with her and he has sing to her ‘wow your tits really look good in that dress’, that would presumably be ok because he’s ok singing what the lyrics dictate. Mrs I was just arguing the general point which you get infuriatingly often which goes. "how can a white person saying." nigger" be racist when its a term black people call each other". That argument is monumentally stupid. If you are singing a song with the word in it, I would say context is still important. If you are singing a racist song including the word, you're probably a racist. If you are singing. "Oliver's Army" which uses the words "white nigger" ironically in the service of anti imperialism, I would say not. So what I want to know is, what would have been the best way for the white person to have dealt with the situation? I pride myself in usually getting these things right, but I have to admit, I would have been totally stumped in this situation. I wouldn't have accepted his invite to come on stage and he shouldn't have invited her, if the cultural context of this song is that only black people should sing it. Yes if I had had the foresight to realise I would have to be singing a racist word I probably would have done the same as you. But I would have had to think quick. I don’t know the song, so I don’t know if it were obvious that it was a song that only black people should sing. The song writer clearly considered it reasonable for a white personal to sing his songs, otherwise he wouldn’t have invited her. Or if he didn’t was playing a very nasty game. If you know the words to a song you're probably a big enough fan to know the connotations. " Thats true. Admittedly I don’t know the story, so I don’t know if she was singing words from a screen, karaoke style, or if she knew the song well and was singing from her head. Maybe she foolishly respected the judgement of the man who invited her to sing his song. | |||
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"Oliver’s army calls them white “ N” words Although it’s bleeped out on the radio Eminem used it all the time too " Do believe that’s a reference to the Irish. Know one or two radio stations that don’t edit it out. XX | |||
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"Oliver’s army calls them white “ N” words Although it’s bleeped out on the radio Eminem used it all the time too Do believe that’s a reference to the Irish. Know one or two radio stations that don’t edit it out. XX" The song is about the British sending off young men to kill overseas generally and in Ireland in particular. . The lines in question go.. All it takes one itchy trigger One more widow, one less white nigger Apparently "White niggers" was a phrase used by British soldiers to refer to the Northern Irish Catholic population in the seventies. Hence it was an insult and a slur, but in the song it's used ironically to emphasize the dehumanisation going on. | |||
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