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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anybody else think this site is getting more like a dating site that a sex with strangers site???????

w xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

erm..... no

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

No.

And I don't think swinging is necessarily about sex with literally strangers, lots of people want to have at least a conversation or two first!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Nope, wish it was lol would like a few dates now and then Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kind of agree tbh

I have known a lot of single girls who come on the scene and coupled up with someone within a month. They then often decide only to meet with couples or with other guys as part of their couple (while presumably, the male partner still meets solo?). One in particular fit me down to the ground, didn't want a bf and then coupled up with my bessie mate on here and they have both left the site.

Each to their own and happy for people who find love, but it does get a little frustrating (particularly when I loose a regular play mate!).

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nope, but as a single female I never understand why men think we would just go and meet anybody! Do you not think we have to think about our own safety? Do you think we would just drop everything to meet someone after 1 message? Or do you think you are such a great catch that every female is just dying to meet you?

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By *DSRMan
over a year ago

leicester

No i am thinking it's more of a forum site than anything, since the forum is the be all end all of my experience so far

But the future holds a place for you and me, yes i mean you... don't sit there think, who me? yes i mean you i'm cumming for ya xx

mwah xxxx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I tend to find with the blokes I've met on here they are either just after a one nighter, or they want a relationship. All fine and dandy - after all everyone uses the site the way they want to. However I have no interest in regular meets and the guys who start talking about me becoming 'exclusive' put me right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to have sex with stranges lol. I can date on fabs sure but my dates tend to end in sex hahaha. I like to know the people I meet etc but it's what you want it to be. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're single and looking to meet with others interested in swinging, where else would you meet someone? It's not for you to say how people use this site. Are you annoyed that available women take themselves off the market? That's life, kiddo.

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden


"No i am thinking it's more of a forum site than anything, since the forum is the be all end all of my experience so far

But the future holds a place for you and me, yes i mean you... don't sit there think, who me? yes i mean you i'm cumming for ya xx

mwah xxxx"

no, no don't do it. please leave me alone.

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By *DSRMan
over a year ago

leicester


"No i am thinking it's more of a forum site than anything, since the forum is the be all end all of my experience so far

But the future holds a place for you and me, yes i mean you... don't sit there think, who me? yes i mean you i'm cumming for ya xx

mwah xxxx

no, no don't do it. please leave me alone. "

LOL

come here you big cuddly bear you... & a big TIGGLY under there :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iknow the people i have sex with and alot end up friends ..i am not looking to run away with them just sex .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OUCH!!! it seems i've provoked a reaction. It was an observation not a direct experience on my part.it just seems that a lot of single fems end up in a relationship with someone they have met whilst on here. i thought (obviously wrongly) that places like fab would be the last place you'd be looking at for a long term relationship. For the record i'm 14 years happily married and we play together and occasionally seperately.

w xx

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By *weet medicineWoman
over a year ago

Kesgrave


"Nope, wish it was lol would like a few dates now and then Haha "

i second that lol haha

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I think we all have our own preferences as to how we meet people and what we seek.

Thats what makes the site interesting

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"OUCH!!! it seems i've provoked a reaction. It was an observation not a direct experience on my part.it just seems that a lot of single fems end up in a relationship with someone they have met whilst on here. i thought (obviously wrongly) that places like fab would be the last place you'd be looking at for a long term relationship. For the record i'm 14 years happily married and we play together and occasionally seperately.

w xx "

do you know what I hate.... when people make "observations" and try to demean how other people use the site.....

yeah you could call that provoking a reaction......

the site is what you make of it...

me, i like to get to know people a bit first before i play with them... my way isn't the be all and end all... and if I tried to tell people that I'd be rightly set upon....

if you prefer the "sex with strangers" lark... you do that, however just be aware that there are lots of people here that will be as turned off and run in the other direction... as will be turned on..

if your action.. caused this reaction... then the only person you can blame is the person in the mirror...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Does anybody else think this site is getting more like a dating site that a sex with strangers site???????

w xx"

In some ways I do think it is getting more like a dating site than a swinging site... if I think back to how swinging sites worked for me in the past.

But then I don't thinking swinging is all about just shagging a stranger as you suggest.

I do think most swinging sites are being invaded more by people who are less adventurous and only seeking vanilla style sex... just M+F 1-2-1.... pretty much what you get on dating sites.

More and more people join who then claim to have no idea how a person in a relationship could watch their partner being shagged by someone else, who state no way would a partner of theirs be swinging, who are only interested in swinging as a stop gap between relationships (with 'nice' people)… and the classic “I am straight so I don’t want to meet couples”

I remember when it was so much easier to start talking to two guys in chat and they wouldn't freak out if you suggested "why don't we all meet up"... and god forbid you do that as a single guy on here... you'd have a thread started about you in 30 seconds flat saying what an ungrateful cunt you were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find people like becoming cpls at christmas time...weird eh lol...and soon disband over the festive period......

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Does anybody else think this site is getting more like a dating site that a sex with strangers site???????

w xx"

Not for us no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i really cant stand the type of person who is happy to have sex with any lady on a swing site but wouldnt want a date with anyone on a swing site (or want his partner to be involved in anything like that ) i have honestly seen profiles where the guy says im looking for a long term reltionship but until i find her ive decided to come on here .............i know its all personal choice ... but some people !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sine when was coupling up with someone to shag others considered dating haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OUCH!!! it seems i've provoked a reaction. It was an observation not a direct experience on my part.it just seems that a lot of single fems end up in a relationship with someone they have met whilst on here. i thought (obviously wrongly) that places like fab would be the last place you'd be looking at for a long term relationship. For the record i'm 14 years happily married and we play together and occasionally seperately.

w xx "

No mention of your wife in your profile I would have sex with you for that reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OUCH!!! it seems i've provoked a reaction. It was an observation not a direct experience on my part.it just seems that a lot of single fems end up in a relationship with someone they have met whilst on here. i thought (obviously wrongly) that places like fab would be the last place you'd be looking at for a long term relationship. For the record i'm 14 years happily married and we play together and occasionally seperately.

w xx

No mention of your wife in your profile I would have sex with you for that reason "

some gys get all the luck!!!!-does my blowup wife count???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OUCH!!! it seems i've provoked a reaction. It was an observation not a direct experience on my part.it just seems that a lot of single fems end up in a relationship with someone they have met whilst on here. i thought (obviously wrongly) that places like fab would be the last place you'd be looking at for a long term relationship. For the record i'm 14 years happily married and we play together and occasionally seperately.

w xx

No mention of your wife in your profile I would have sex with you for that reason "

Wouldn't.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OUCH!!! it seems i've provoked a reaction. It was an observation not a direct experience on my part.it just seems that a lot of single fems end up in a relationship with someone they have met whilst on here. i thought (obviously wrongly) that places like fab would be the last place you'd be looking at for a long term relationship. For the record i'm 14 years happily married and we play together and occasionally seperately.

w xx

No mention of your wife in your profile I would have sex with you for that reason

some gys get all the luck!!!!-does my blowup wife count???"

Ment to say wouldn't pmsl. yeh bring the blow up wife for some added kinkk paddy xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok i lose. I think i've been shot down.

W xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have a point.

I wouldnt say it more like a dating site, its more like people cant wait to couple up and scream from the rooftops that they are a couple and will only play as a couple and are so happy.

I have seen guys on my friends list couple up, I have also seen the 'im only playing with the 1 special person, im getting all I need' tosh as well.

When I see that, I start the game of How long will it last? Which is normally between 2 to 4 weeks. Before they have 'broken up' and are slagging each other on their status's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anybody else think this site is getting more like a dating site that a sex with strangers site???????

w xx"

yeah it is .............................

of course fucking not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can barely ve be able to class some of my regular friends as fuckbuddies...i think its a term thats been twisted to mean more than it should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reg fuck buds are fab but they arent dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"reg fuck buds are fab but they arent dates"

sorry, it was in reference to people using the site o find partners lol...mainly to increase their meet status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're single and looking to meet with others interested in swinging, where else would you meet someone? It's not for you to say how people use this site. Are you annoyed that available women take themselves off the market? That's life, kiddo."

+1

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"OUCH!!! it seems i've provoked a reaction. It was an observation not a direct experience on my part.it just seems that a lot of single fems end up in a relationship with someone they have met whilst on here. i thought (obviously wrongly) that places like fab would be the last place you'd be looking at for a long term relationship. For the record i'm 14 years happily married and we play together and occasionally seperately.

w xx

No mention of your wife in your profile I would have sex with you for that reason

Wouldn't............. "

Perhaps this is his singles profile?

Or not!

lol

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"OUCH!!! it seems i've provoked a reaction. It was an observation not a direct experience on my part.it just seems that a lot of single fems end up in a relationship with someone they have met whilst on here. i thought (obviously wrongly) that places like fab would be the last place you'd be looking at for a long term relationship. For the record i'm 14 years happily married and we play together and occasionally seperately.

w xx

No mention of your wife in your profile I would have sex with you for that reason

Wouldn't............. "

And he can accom

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