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Couples where wife has a bf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seen this a few times where the wives in couples have a bf/lover as well but how many husbands have a gf.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Seen this a few times where the wives in couples have a bf/lover as well but how many husbands have a gf."

Not this husband, its how we choose it to be, she has a couple of BF's and its all good with me.

I have no interest in other women and definitely not into guys either.

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By *itania70Woman
over a year ago

Denton


"Seen this a few times where the wives in couples have a bf/lover as well but how many husbands have a gf."
we are poly so don’t mind either. Hubby has a regular he’s been seeing for months. I’m still looking. So guess in the case hubby does Mrs doesn’t lol

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Wife has a fwb.I just have some fun at parties.she is not into swinging scene anymore.works ok for us.

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Wife has a boyfriend and couple of fwb as more highly sexed than me. She gets lots of fun and I get the pics and tales of what she's been up to works for us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watch this thread with open eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband has someone whom he sees about 3 times a year. I don’t get the involved. I’ve had a few lovers, but when I am seeing someone he’s involved.

Mrs

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By *ungrycplCouple
over a year ago

WORCESTER

We would love to find a boyfriend for my wife but alas to no avail yet.....maybe we'll get lucky one day.

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Would love to do this but scared that emotions would end up appearing.xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes. We can understand that could be an issue.

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

But then ask yourself a question did you think before you met your partner you'd find your other half who also enjoyed swinging with you. The possibilities to most things are always there if you ooen your mind and let them

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury


"Would love to do this but scared that emotions would end up appearing.xx"

I dated a married woman for about six months, yes we did have feelings for each other and had a very strong bond between (we're still very close friends). We went into it with eyes wide open knowing she had a husband she loved and I have a job that consumes my life. It's down to being honest with yourself as well as each other

If there are holes in your marriage then a fwb is only going to make them bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husbands had a girlfriend just over 2 years.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I truly don’t get the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing for married couples .

We swing and it’s always been 100% nsa , and that works for us . I would be devastated if my wife wanted a boyfriend for more than nsa , just as she would if I sought a girlfriend .

I know the old cliche will no doubt rear it’s head here , each to their own etc.... but if couples who have extra partners for more than nsa could explain why they need this , and what it adds to their relationship I would be most grateful .

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I truly don’t get the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing for married couples .

We swing and it’s always been 100% nsa , and that works for us . I would be devastated if my wife wanted a boyfriend for more than nsa , just as she would if I sought a girlfriend .

I know the old cliche will no doubt rear it’s head here , each to their own etc.... but if couples who have extra partners for more than nsa could explain why they need this , and what it adds to their relationship I would be most grateful ."

It's not a need it's how she prefers it.

Knowing the guy rather just a random, we can get that at a club anytime.

As you said it's why we are all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I truly don’t get the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing for married couples .

We swing and it’s always been 100% nsa , and that works for us . I would be devastated if my wife wanted a boyfriend for more than nsa , just as she would if I sought a girlfriend .

I know the old cliche will no doubt rear it’s head here , each to their own etc.... but if couples who have extra partners for more than nsa could explain why they need this , and what it adds to their relationship I would be most grateful ."

I think for me, I get kicks out of NRE (new relationship energy) - google it. It’s totally intoxicating for me, but by definition, not possible in an established relationship. So that’s why I pursue these casual affairs. I have the ability to compartmentalise my feelings, so any relationship I have has has no bearing on how I feel for my husband.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn’t interested in playing away when wife had a boy friend

But miss the lifestyle now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is her name chrissie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I truly don’t get the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing for married couples .

We swing and it’s always been 100% nsa , and that works for us . I would be devastated if my wife wanted a boyfriend for more than nsa , just as she would if I sought a girlfriend .

I know the old cliche will no doubt rear it’s head here , each to their own etc.... but if couples who have extra partners for more than nsa could explain why they need this , and what it adds to their relationship I would be most grateful .

I think for me, I get kicks out of NRE (new relationship energy) - google it. It’s totally intoxicating for me, but by definition, not possible in an established relationship. So that’s why I pursue these casual affairs. I have the ability to compartmentalise my feelings, so any relationship I have has has no bearing on how I feel for my husband.

Mrs"

You’ve just summed it up perfectly for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I truly don’t get the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing for married couples .

We swing and it’s always been 100% nsa , and that works for us . I would be devastated if my wife wanted a boyfriend for more than nsa , just as she would if I sought a girlfriend .

I know the old cliche will no doubt rear it’s head here , each to their own etc.... but if couples who have extra partners for more than nsa could explain why they need this , and what it adds to their relationship I would be most grateful .

I think for me, I get kicks out of NRE (new relationship energy) - google it. It’s totally intoxicating for me, but by definition, not possible in an established relationship. So that’s why I pursue these casual affairs. I have the ability to compartmentalise my feelings, so any relationship I have has has no bearing on how I feel for my husband.

Mrs

You’ve just summed it up perfectly for us "

I dont get it either .. i know so many cpl who have bf/gf on fab who are now seperated due to feelings being developed ...

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I truly don’t get the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing for married couples .

We swing and it’s always been 100% nsa , and that works for us . I would be devastated if my wife wanted a boyfriend for more than nsa , just as she would if I sought a girlfriend .

I know the old cliche will no doubt rear it’s head here , each to their own etc.... but if couples who have extra partners for more than nsa could explain why they need this , and what it adds to their relationship I would be most grateful .

I think for me, I get kicks out of NRE (new relationship energy) - google it. It’s totally intoxicating for me, but by definition, not possible in an established relationship. So that’s why I pursue these casual affairs. I have the ability to compartmentalise my feelings, so any relationship I have has has no bearing on how I feel for my husband.

Mrs

You’ve just summed it up perfectly for us

I dont get it either .. i know so many cpl who have bf/gf on fab who are now seperated due to feelings being developed ... "

Its all about knowing where the lines are that you dont cross.

Its called self control, get that it can be difficult but the grass just isnt greener on the other side.

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