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Strapon sex and the style

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here is one to start the week and will probably end in a bit of contraversity....

So guys having strapon sex.....now in my mind and Roxy’s and prob a few more if a woman is giving a guy strapon sex then that’s cool and tbh the guy can remain straight A’s it’s different sexes doing it and that’s cool.

However.....does it make any difference to the style and shape of the strapon? We was chatting the other day and left it open to opinion. If it’s a smooth strapon then all is good but what if the guy really likes a cock shaped one? Does that then lead towards a path of bisexuality as actually they like the feeling of a cock with the head and veins?

Not here to judge as Roxy is bi and I have no problems with Bi or gay guys as that’s who we prefer to meet.

If you can’t say anything nice or constructive then please go find another thread.

Mrs

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

Can't help but think you're overthinking this. If a guy likes taking a strapon, he likes taking a strapon. Why get worried about labels?

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

There is no path to being bi, if you are then you are, it’s not something that can be changed or developed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a strap on looks like is neither here nor there...

Ribbed (which could include veins), smooth, g spot curved, whatever..

Doesn't matter. What does is the sensation that are created.

Mistress Amelia x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not judging or labelling anyone just asking what I thought was a reasonable question, just wondered if the style of strapon makes a difference to how or if you move on from that style of play.

We have many styles from smooth to cock style ones and agree with others on here it’s the sensation that counts.

Mrs

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It is no more bisexual than a lesbian using a penis shaped dildo, that would not make her straight.

It is just a pleasurable shaped toy, nothing more.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

What would that make people who use sex toys in the form of animals?

M-F contact is heterosexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In no way does it make you bi or gay or anything else! Its just pleasuee at the end of the day so take what you enjoy, use it & have fun, dont worry about labels or what others think! Its your pleasure, not theirs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The odd occasions I have had a strap on used I was not thinking of the sexuality side of it - for me it was a submissive act

I have also had discussions with people who say if you like strap on you want the real thing, but they dont get there is a difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We use them a lot in our play time and we both enjoy the feeling it gives us.

It’s nice to see the varied opinions on here.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer cock shaped. Mrs has tried out a few on me and cock shaped definitely feels best to me. And she looks great wearing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use them a lot in our play time and we both enjoy the feeling it gives us.

It’s nice to see the varied opinions on here.

Mrs"

if can ask do you consider him less of a man for letting him use a strapon on him like some do? I get the impression it is just an extension of your relationship and love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No that’s fine, no i still see him as a mans man and most of the time in daily life that’s how we live. It’s at weekends and some evenings that Roxy likes to make an appearance.

That’s the good thing about us we can live and lead a normal life to the general people but when we want we can have a different type of fun that suits us.

I suppose we are lucky

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No that’s fine, no i still see him as a mans man and most of the time in daily life that’s how we live. It’s at weekends and some evenings that Roxy likes to make an appearance.

That’s the good thing about us we can live and lead a normal life to the general people but when we want we can have a different type of fun that suits us.

I suppose we are lucky

Mrs"

Would agree you are as not many can find that balance and connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me someone is only bisexual if they are attracted to or would have a relationship with both sexes, I am not attracted to guys but don't mind sucking cock, and my Mrs has used a strap on me, but I don't label myself, I just do what I enjoy and don't care what others think of it.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Personally I like the extra sensations that are caused by the contours and the ridge on the head of the dildo. Otherwise its just a stretch of either partially full or empty feeling. Being a Bi-guy I don't consider pegging as anything other than a heterosexual act as its a woman giving a man (me) a great deal of pleasure.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"To me someone is only bisexual if they are attracted to or would have a relationship with both sexes, I am not attracted to guys but don't mind sucking cock, and my Mrs has used a strap on me, but I don't label myself, I just do what I enjoy and don't care what others think of it. "

So you’d think that Sir is straight then. Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me sexuality is all to do with attraction, which sex you are attracted to and would have a proper relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to try it, haven’t yet. But if I had to choose, it would probably be a cock shaped one. If it’s smooth it doesn’t look like there would be as much feeling as with a life like one.

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

Your sexuality is just a small part of who you are. Don't let your likes and dislikes define you

Men have the prostate gland so anal sex can be much more enjoyable for us than women (I'm not saying all) having your arse plundered by a woman is no different to having her suck you off. What you do doesn't define your sexuality in that respect.

If you see a guy and think he's fit I'd love to do naughty things to him then chances are you are bisexual. So what?

I would suggest experiment with different dildos and pic the one you like (consider douching too it makes it more pleasent for your bedding)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fully bisexual so enjoy cocks as well as pussys, but I prefer strapons to be smooth. Or have a prostate stimulation curve to them. The shape of a strapon has absolutely no bearing on the sexualities of the giver or the recipient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imho the integral part of being gay or bi is the attraction and feelings for the same sex.

A strap on being used by a woman on a guy (no matter the shape of the ‘tool of choice’)doesn’t mean said guy will crave cock forever more if not interested in guy’s in the first place??

Personally I quite like the woman in control angle but doesn’t mean I want a guy pulling up to my bumper lol

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