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"....there would be bi-black couples, bi-white couples and all kinds of bi-interracial couples. Bisexual black men, bi single women and one or two hot as f**k convincing TVs. Well that's my fantasy anyway and I'm determined to make it a reality. The hunt for a venue in or around London has stepped up two gears and my target event date will be sometime in July or August. Sound interesting to anyone here? Oh and if you have a house, apartment or dungeon that would comfortably and discreetly host no more than 15-25 people I'd love to hear from you " Good luck in your new venture, would definitely be interested and will be keeping an eye on this post for updates. Re a venue maybe enquire about the Sutton house ? | |||
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"Why just black and white? There are more than 2 races you know " What’s the others? | |||
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"....there would be bi-black couples, bi-white couples and all kinds of bi-interracial couples. Bisexual black men, bi single women and one or two hot as f**k convincing TVs. Well that's my fantasy anyway and I'm determined to make it a reality. The hunt for a venue in or around London has stepped up two gears and my target event date will be sometime in July or August. Sound interesting to anyone here? Oh and if you have a house, apartment or dungeon that would comfortably and discreetly host no more than 15-25 people I'd love to hear from you Good luck in your new venture, would definitely be interested and will be keeping an eye on this post for updates. Re a venue maybe enquire about the Sutton house ?" Morning and thank you. I'm aiming for a semi-intimate vibe so its a bit too big. Plus I'd never get it on a Saturday which is what I'm aiming at. | |||
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"Why just black and white? There are more than 2 races you know " Oh I know. Hence the shorthand "and all kinds of bi-interracial couples" There would only be two restrictions 1) no straight people (STR8 profile Bi's are fine if they can get bi people they've met on here to speak on their behalf) 2) All the single guys have to be black. Beyond that there would be no iron-clad requirements | |||
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"I would love to come too. My house is teeny so can’t help there. V x " I hope you can make it too. Would be great to see you again. I'm still struggling to find an apartment/house but one or two spacious dungeons are looking very promising | |||
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"We’d be interested. Just an idea- as Kestrels is now closed maybe it’s worth aiming for a west of London venue.. there’s certainly a gap in the market. Is there a market in the gap ? Us x " Good idea. Although at this point I'm not really thinking with my business cap on. I just want more options when I get a craving for a genuinely bi male friendly atmosphere and don't feel inclined to hold back. There's just not enough choice in the weekends. Thank goodness for VA Bi night and NaughtyBiNature but more weekend choices over a calendar month would be nice too. | |||
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"We’d be interested. Just an idea- as Kestrels is now closed maybe it’s worth aiming for a west of London venue.. there’s certainly a gap in the market. Is there a market in the gap ? Us x Good idea. Although at this point I'm not really thinking with my business cap on. I just want more options when I get a craving for a genuinely bi male friendly atmosphere and don't feel inclined to hold back. There's just not enough choice in the weekends. Thank goodness for VA Bi night and NaughtyBiNature but more weekend choices over a calendar month would be nice too." VA has now also added a "Bi Friendly Night" on the third Friday of the month which can only be a good thing and hearing a lot of good things about Naughty Bi Nature too - but new nights are always welcome and can only help to break down that final barrier around bi males generally - the more it's seen as a popular thing, the more it becomes accepted. My only question would be why make a new event only open to black single males? Why not make it open to all? | |||
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"We’d be interested. Just an idea- as Kestrels is now closed maybe it’s worth aiming for a west of London venue.. there’s certainly a gap in the market. Is there a market in the gap ? Us x Good idea. Although at this point I'm not really thinking with my business cap on. I just want more options when I get a craving for a genuinely bi male friendly atmosphere and don't feel inclined to hold back. There's just not enough choice in the weekends. Thank goodness for VA Bi night and NaughtyBiNature but more weekend choices over a calendar month would be nice too. VA has now also added a "Bi Friendly Night" on the third Friday of the month which can only be a good thing and hearing a lot of good things about Naughty Bi Nature too - but new nights are always welcome and can only help to break down that final barrier around bi males generally - the more it's seen as a popular thing, the more it becomes accepted. My only question would be why make a new event only open to black single males? Why not make it open to all?" Agreed, however... In answer to your question it is basically to hopefully turn very specific fantasies into a reality. Even if I did decide to go down the commercial path the same rules would very likely apply. I would be going for a very particular vibe for a number of reasons. A couple of them being. a) If I hired a large venue and made it open to everyone that is bi there might be a danger of inadvertently competing with the other events. I would rather go for something different and in a sense complimentary so that all events are able to thrive. b) Were I to make this a bigger event I would also want to tap into the not fully catered to desire of cuckold couples to meet genuinely bi/bi-curious black guys. If you must know, on a personal level I have a slight preference for sucking delicious white cock. However for the sake of sufficiently different themed bi nights I would very likely stick with the above themes. | |||
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"We’d be interested. Just an idea- as Kestrels is now closed maybe it’s worth aiming for a west of London venue.. there’s certainly a gap in the market. Is there a market in the gap ? Us x Good idea. Although at this point I'm not really thinking with my business cap on. I just want more options when I get a craving for a genuinely bi male friendly atmosphere and don't feel inclined to hold back. There's just not enough choice in the weekends. Thank goodness for VA Bi night and NaughtyBiNature but more weekend choices over a calendar month would be nice too. VA has now also added a "Bi Friendly Night" on the third Friday of the month which can only be a good thing and hearing a lot of good things about Naughty Bi Nature too - but new nights are always welcome and can only help to break down that final barrier around bi males generally - the more it's seen as a popular thing, the more it becomes accepted. My only question would be why make a new event only open to black single males? Why not make it open to all? Agreed, however... In answer to your question it is basically to hopefully turn very specific fantasies into a reality. Even if I did decide to go down the commercial path the same rules would very likely apply. I would be going for a very particular vibe for a number of reasons. A couple of them being. a) If I hired a large venue and made it open to everyone that is bi there might be a danger of inadvertently competing with the other events. I would rather go for something different and in a sense complimentary so that all events are able to thrive. b) Were I to make this a bigger event I would also want to tap into the not fully catered to desire of cuckold couples to meet genuinely bi/bi-curious black guys. If you must know, on a personal level I have a slight preference for sucking delicious white cock. However for the sake of sufficiently different themed bi nights I would very likely stick with the above themes." All fair enough and my question was by no means a criticism or a "let me in" and apologies if it came across that way - was just genuinely curious as to your reasons for that decision. Know and appreciate that there are some who have very specific desires across all aspects of *this* life which may preclude others and fully understand and respect that. Truly hope it works out for you | |||
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"We’d be interested. Just an idea- as Kestrels is now closed maybe it’s worth aiming for a west of London venue.. there’s certainly a gap in the market. Is there a market in the gap ? Us x Good idea. Although at this point I'm not really thinking with my business cap on. I just want more options when I get a craving for a genuinely bi male friendly atmosphere and don't feel inclined to hold back. There's just not enough choice in the weekends. Thank goodness for VA Bi night and NaughtyBiNature but more weekend choices over a calendar month would be nice too. VA has now also added a "Bi Friendly Night" on the third Friday of the month which can only be a good thing and hearing a lot of good things about Naughty Bi Nature too - but new nights are always welcome and can only help to break down that final barrier around bi males generally - the more it's seen as a popular thing, the more it becomes accepted. My only question would be why make a new event only open to black single males? Why not make it open to all? Agreed, however... In answer to your question it is basically to hopefully turn very specific fantasies into a reality. Even if I did decide to go down the commercial path the same rules would very likely apply. I would be going for a very particular vibe for a number of reasons. A couple of them being. a) If I hired a large venue and made it open to everyone that is bi there might be a danger of inadvertently competing with the other events. I would rather go for something different and in a sense complimentary so that all events are able to thrive. b) Were I to make this a bigger event I would also want to tap into the not fully catered to desire of cuckold couples to meet genuinely bi/bi-curious black guys. If you must know, on a personal level I have a slight preference for sucking delicious white cock. However for the sake of sufficiently different themed bi nights I would very likely stick with the above themes. All fair enough and my question was by no means a criticism or a "let me in" and apologies if it came across that way - was just genuinely curious as to your reasons for that decision. Know and appreciate that there are some who have very specific desires across all aspects of *this* life which may preclude others and fully understand and respect that. Truly hope it works out for you " Thanks. Oh and I wouldn't worry, I'm not afraid of constructive criticism or comment and you always have something interesting to say in the forums. | |||
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"You seem like a really cool guy OP. I hope you manage to get this sorted. We'd be there like a shot if we we're in the UK." Awww thanks, that's very kind of you | |||
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" Thanks. Oh and I wouldn't worry, I'm not afraid of constructive criticism or comment and you always have something interesting to say in the forums." Thank you, very kind of you to say and likewise enjoy your posts. If ever we're at the same VA Bi Night would be a pleasure to meet you. | |||
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" Thanks. Oh and I wouldn't worry, I'm not afraid of constructive criticism or comment and you always have something interesting to say in the forums. Thank you, very kind of you to say and likewise enjoy your posts. If ever we're at the same VA Bi Night would be a pleasure to meet you. " Would be a pleasure I’m easy enough to spot. Bald short arse with a grey goatee | |||
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"Sounds a great idea and if run successfully, could you bring up north, let us know either way, we may just venture darn sarf...." Well the main motivation so far has been the freedom to have the opportunity for more bi fun in a judgement free environment but if there’s enough interest, something on a semi-regular basis will be given very serious consideration. Especially if the venue I look at this week is suitable for more than the 15-25 guest target that I’ve been aiming for. | |||
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"Dammit. That’s a festival weekend V x " Seriously, you mean VA festival weekend? I'm sorry. My main aim was to not clash with VA Bi night or NaughtyBiNature. But don't worry, fingers crossed it goes well and there will be others xx | |||
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"Yes sorry. I didn’t mean the VA festival. I shall be at Shambala that weekend " Shambala? I've not heard of that one. | |||
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"Sounded interesting until the insistence of bi, surely to be fully accepted ex lauding non bi people defeats the object? I'm completely fine around bi guys, just don't fancy them, but then I don't have to fancy every girl at an event either, doesn't make me a danger to the vibe! Often at Chams on a Friday as the atmosphere is so good. Also the mix you are after doesn't match your numbers, to get that level of mix you would need twice that number to appeal to everybody. For example my African wife just doesn't fancy black guys, so even if we qualified on the bi side the number of guys and girls she might like is severely restricted. Anyway, just our opinion on what might be a really cool idea. An event with less limited numbers insisting on just mixed race couples of any racial history could be very exciting! " Hi and thanks for the message. Its encouraging that you are ok around bi males but that is often not the case. I have often been in a situation where when there has been activity between guys other men in the club often have something negative to say and that is even on so called bi nights. For once we'd like to go to swinging events where we can relax and have fun without having to worry about what other people might say. There are countless swinging events that cater to the needs of others but more often than not genuinely bi friendly events are sidelined to midweek slots that for many are highly impractical. The vibe I am going for is not for everyone but I would like to think it serves the purpose of adding a bit more variety into the mix. | |||
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"Gutted I’m away that week, hope it goes well and will look out for the next date to be announced " Thanks me too, fingers firmly crossed | |||
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"Hope it goes brilliantly! Wish we were there, though I’m delighted to say we have our own very much smaller event being arranged for Sept. interracial cuckolding for all!" Thank you and I wish you good luck for your party too | |||
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"Probably a great advert " No idea what you meal | |||
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"Probably a great advert No idea what you meal " Ha yes you probably don't | |||
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"did this happen?" Its this Saturday | |||
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"did this happen? Its this Saturday" omg and you've still got places available at this late stage? | |||
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"did this happen? Its this Saturday" where mate | |||
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"did this happen? Its this Saturday where mate" You might want to read the opening post Good luck with it OP - know you've put a lot of effort into getting it just right and I hope it's a roaring success for you | |||
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"did this happen? Its this Saturday where mate" For the sake of discretion only those with a ticket are aware of the exact East London location | |||
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"did this happen? Its this Saturday where mate You might want to read the opening post Good luck with it OP - know you've put a lot of effort into getting it just right and I hope it's a roaring success for you " Thanks, I'm really excited | |||
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"If you do another let us know" Will do, if you add me to your friends list it will be easier to stay in touch. Danny | |||
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"2) All the single guys have to be black." Why do all the single guys have to be black? | |||
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"2) All the single guys have to be black. Why do all the single guys have to be black? " Not just black, black and bi. As a male the opportunity to attend genuinely bi male friendly (not just tolerant) events are limited. I'm goal is to add to the hopefully growing variety of choices available by catering to a very specific niche area of desire. | |||
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"Getting very close to securing a venue for the party. If everything goes to plan a date will be set for some time in July or August. Will keep all interested parties posted as things develop " I’d definitely be interested- please keep me informed as I’m looking forward to the big night ! | |||
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"Had forgotten about this - how did it go? Been meaning to ask. And to anyone criticising the specifics of this event - is it any different to events that cater to any other specific niche or taste? I'm not able to attend and accept that I don't meet the entrance criteria and really don't have an issue with it at all." Thank you, as you know when it comes to bi fun my personal preference is for bi white guys anyway. With regard to the actual launch party it went well and everyone seemed to love the dungeon that I hired. My only problem now is that its not available on a date that suits me until next year which is a bit of a pain. This why I'm thinking of finding a new venue to fill the gap. I will also be making a few changes. the biggest being that in future more tickets will be made available to TS/TVs.....lets just say there were a few requests from some of the black guys who attended | |||
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