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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or has the amount of single blokes creating fake couples profiles and then saying that the male is playing solo had gone through the roof??

"Hi I'm Darren I have full permission from my wife to play away whilst she's abroad being an air hostess"

It's very boring. And not clever.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

She got called into work

She isn't feeling well

She's visiting relatives a million miles away

The kids have the plague

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have proof, report them

If not, ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've noticed this quite a lot too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Proof??

Get columbo!

There's just one more thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed a worrying trend of women pretending to be men here.

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

They're a normal fixture on Fab and have been for as long as I can remember. You could spot them by their pictures. The wife would always look amazing but the mans pictures of them were done in toilet cubical on a crappy mobile phone.

When I was part of a couple we agreed to meet "a couple" in a bar. He turned up and said the wife is on her way. He eventually got out his phone to call her. "Hello dear, where are you? " Paused to hear her reply. Just as he was about to say "oh dear that's a shame" his phone started to ring. It would have been awkward if he'd stuck around; now that's what I call a sheepish exit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Priceless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Proof??

Get columbo!

There's just one more thing..."

I read that in his voice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed a worrying trend of women pretending to be men here. "

I’ve noticed a worrying trend of profiles without photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

.....”Is it just me or has the amount of single blokes creating fake couples profiles.....”

Which are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just posted on this trend and for some reason it has now been deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you not have to get photo verified as a couple ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed a worrying trend of women pretending to be men here. "

There's a lot of men pretending to be women on here, but that's ok with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband has permission to play alone.

As do i.

Not everyone is fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely that’s what the block button is for? If they are not for you just block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be honest and accept you're not everyone's cup of tea (or coffee).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was about that muppet playing han solo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people always assume that the fella playing alone means fake profile. If you're worried that the profile is fake than just tell them no thanks and block.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"My husband has permission to play alone.

As do i.

Not everyone is fake "

Real here too..myself and little wifey have been swinging solo for a number of years with each others full blessing ..so there are genuine profiles out there not all are fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're a normal fixture on Fab and have been for as long as I can remember. You could spot them by their pictures. The wife would always look amazing but the mans pictures of them were done in toilet cubical on a crappy mobile phone.

When I was part of a couple we agreed to meet "a couple" in a bar. He turned up and said the wife is on her way. He eventually got out his phone to call her. "Hello dear, where are you? " Paused to hear her reply. Just as he was about to say "oh dear that's a shame" his phone started to ring. It would have been awkward if he'd stuck around; now that's what I call a sheepish exit.

"

That really made me laugh! That’s the sort of thing that happens to me if I try to bluff my way out of something. I stick to the truth now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve noticed most of the couples on my hotlist have also created single female profiles..

Now I have to add 2 profiles and fab the same pic twice ....

Man these swinging problems are tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed a worrying trend of women pretending to be men here.

I’ve noticed a worrying trend of profiles without photos. "

What? You mean you can't see my photo? The silhouette one? That's what I really look like. I'm just one big black shadow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not always a fake profile so many people on here are quick to tar everyone with the same brush...

We are a couple and we play as a couple you can clearly see that from our profile but we also play separately, sometimes it's genuine my hubby has sat back and watched me play, he's dropped me off and had pics sent to him, he's even watched over a video call on messenger I'd love for him to do the same for me and he'd love to surprise me one day but everyone automatically thinks he's pretending to be in a couple... it's ridiculous he gets told I want your wife to come or she needs to talk to us for an hour for so first (believe it or not it's not a surprise if I've confirmed I'm real )

We've even tried separate profiles and they got reported and changed into mf couples ones again

We've had our fair share of fake profiles and the amount of excuses you get is ridiculous yes but there are some genuine people on here unfortunately it's a complete double standard and if I was to msg someone saying I want to meet alone there wouldn't be so much agro and I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be accused of being fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband has full permission to play alone through our couples profile. Our profile isn’t fake though.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you not have to get photo verified as a couple ? "

We’ Not photo verified. Hopefully our meet veris make up for that though.

Mrs

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

We both play separately. However, owing to the fact that she has a vagina and I don't, she tends to get more opportunities...

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Is it just me or has the amount of single blokes creating fake couples profiles and then saying that the male is playing solo had gone through the roof??

"Hi I'm Darren I have full permission from my wife to play away whilst she's abroad being an air hostess"

It's very boring. And not clever."

We have played with plenty of men and women who are married or together but play solo too .

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

It’s just as common as the ‘single’ woman profiles that either say on their profile, or in messages, that they only meet with their partner

It’s frequenty a way to either get around filters or to increase the number of messages they get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roll up, roll up!

Folk lie on the internet! You heard it here first.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I'm a man pretending to be a man and I have a mum that says I can swing lol

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By *rsRogersTelfordWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Our couples profile gets this a LOT. Hi, I’m generic ladies name, take a look at my hot pics that are totally legit. Btw, would you be up for meeting my fella? I can’t meet due to me being imaginary.

We also have had a fair few of the single women who contact us, start up a conversation, then drop in they are in a couple and only looking to swing with their partner... well then why have the bloody singles profile then! We have single profiles for alone meets, and couples profile for us as a couple.

Don’t even get me started on the men being women thing... we have reported so many this last week where we have tineyed pics and found them to be fake, but alas, the site just won’t remove them...

C xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're a normal fixture on Fab and have been for as long as I can remember. You could spot them by their pictures. The wife would always look amazing but the mans pictures of them were done in toilet cubical on a crappy mobile phone.

When I was part of a couple we agreed to meet "a couple" in a bar. He turned up and said the wife is on her way. He eventually got out his phone to call her. "Hello dear, where are you? " Paused to hear her reply. Just as he was about to say "oh dear that's a shame" his phone started to ring. It would have been awkward if he'd stuck around; now that's what I call a sheepish exit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess sometimes it does happen and it’s genuine. If the couple has had a few verifications referring to them both they are more likely to be telling the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play solo and together..

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Had this again today.

We only play together, so we have a couples profile.

If anyone (male or female) messages from a couples profile saying they play alone, we ask that they message us back from their singles profile.

Then we block both if we suspect there was never a couple in the first place.

It's especially annoying considering meeting singles is our preferred option. We prefer to couples through social events and club visits.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's usually quite easy to wheedle out the fakes fairly quickly even if it's not that obvious from the profile text and pics (which it usually is) - simply saying that you're happy to potentially meet on their own but for peace of mind would like a word with the wife to be sure she's happy, or at least a picture of her holding that days paper or similar usually does the trick.

There are of course plenty of people who are playing solo with permission, I'm one of them and have made sure that this profile is cross-referenced not only to the couple's profile I'm part of but also my partners profile and it's never caused me a problem. Solo profiles may not work for everyone, but there are certainly ways to prove as best you can that you are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes we all know it happens, the original question was whether people were seeing it increase dramatically recently?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Do you not have to get photo verified as a couple ? "

Only if admin get a report of it being fake I think.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

It happens every were from Fab-facebook- Twitter

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