FabSwingers.com forum: Etiquette for a meet

By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago

south lakes

What’s the preferred etiquette for a meet.

A) Meet/greet & play straight away

B) Social/drinks/food then play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the preferred etiquette for a meet.

A) Meet/greet & play straight away

B) Social/drinks/food then play"

B every time. Then on a second meet A.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Either. "

No food though.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Like a game of scrabble to break the ice, look at childhood photos and make sure i know their birthday and cats names before we progress to anything sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally coffee and then play x

But last meet was look at him and then jumped him lol x

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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago

south lakes

"Like a game of scrabble to break the ice, look at childhood photos and make sure i know their birthday and cats names before we progress to anything sexual. "

WTF you don’t like dogs?? What about the dogs name- some people just don’t care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B for us please

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Don't wipe your cock on her curtains is good etiquette #apparently

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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago

south lakes

"Don't wipe your cock on her curtains is good etiquette #apparently

Which curtains? My ex loved her beef curtains being rubbed lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Like a game of scrabble to break the ice, look at childhood photos and make sure i know their birthday and cats names before we progress to anything sexual. "

You forgot star signs and NI number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drink then play later if i can hold off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A for me usually . Im impatient

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

There's no right or wrong way... Take it as it comes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always prefer a social for the first meet. Then i can decide if id like to meet again and play

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Depends ~ everyone is different. With 5 veris you must realise that by now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always B first , then A 2nd meet onwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends ~ everyone is different. With 5 veris you must realise that by now? "

I think he's asking for our view on things.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Like a game of scrabble to break the ice, look at childhood photos and make sure i know their birthday and cats names before we progress to anything sexual.

You forgot star signs and NI number."

I think we confuse other couples because I'm like raj from the big bang theory and my wife is like leslie winkle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C) Just a coffee and non-sexual chat.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

B first then second meet A

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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago

south lakes

"Depends ~ everyone is different. With 5 veris you must realise that by now? "

I do I’m just curious as to other people’s thoughts. I like B, but have been involved with A a few times on first time meets. Knock on hotel room door, come in & told to strip. (I was expecting that BTW)

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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago

south lakes

"Depends ~ everyone is different. With 5 veris you must realise that by now?

I think he's asking for our view on things. "

Indeed I am. Just curious. I’ve been away from scene a while & there seams to be more socials happening. Just wondered if that was becoming the more preferable option. Think it’s always good to understand what makes someone tick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like a game of scrabble to break the ice, look at childhood photos and make sure i know their birthday and cats names before we progress to anything sexual. "

I play scrabble on my tablet and have a few childhod photos to share. No cats im afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer etiquette to be thrown out the window when I meet. It's whatever the mood dictates... normally meet, rip each other's clothes off, fuck, eat/ drink repeat numerous times in whatever order till it's time to go home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B for first meet and subsequent meets. Well drinks at the very least.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you both agree to?

No right or wrong to that question

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Always B. Unless I am in a club feeling naughty then it might be A

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By *offee27Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Usually expect it to be A but had plenty where we jumped into B first time (their choice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A always sounds a good option. Just in case there's no second meet;-)

Then B to recover our strength ..

Then back to A

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Depends on the person. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cup of tea and a chat about reverse image search could be entertaining

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

Used to B always but recently we are moving more to A.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

B .. With option of both of us leaving if its not going well .

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Prefer B first, then A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the preferred etiquette for a meet.

A) Meet/greet & play straight away

B) Social/drinks/food then play"

c) read the profile - all the clues are there. if they mention a social - go for a social. if not select A)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the few things I dislike about the swing scene, is that option B seems to be only available for the first meet. Why not every time?

Mrs

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Always B for me , well that’s my preference . A has happened a couple of times though

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"Cup of tea and a chat about reverse image search could be entertaining

A pessimist is just a well informed optimist...

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"B first then second meet A"

So it’s all going to plan then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the few things I dislike about the swing scene, is that option B seems to be only available for the first meet. Why not every time?

Mrs"

Because once people know you’re not a serial killer they tend to meet you in their homes...

It’s much cheaper than going out all the time.

I usually bring a bottle of wine or liquor , and the couples provide the food when I’m invited to someone’s home....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the few things I dislike about the swing scene, is that option B seems to be only available for the first meet. Why not every time?

Mrs

Because once people know you’re not a serial killer they tend to meet you in their homes...

It’s much cheaper than going out all the time.

I usually bring a bottle of wine or liquor , and the couples provide the food when I’m invited to someone’s home...."

I wasn’t suggesting going out all the time. Drink and food in the home is equally as acceptable and something we usually do with our guests. It was option A being ‘meet, great and play straight away’ for a second meet that jars with me a bit.

Mrs

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