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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I have been on fab for a few years now and have had some very good meets.

I have always been polite and respectful in my messages but find it's near impossible to get a reply.

I would appreciate any advice.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Just be yourself OP.

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By *heDirtyGentMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've had the same issues over my stints on fab I know it can be disheartening but my best advice is to just keep doing what you are doing and be patient.

A polite well thought out message goes a long way. You might just make some day.

You just don't know the recipients circumstances or tastes it's nothing personal if they don't reply.

I haven't seen your profile but as long as you have plenty of face pics and info to your own tastes and interests you'll soon find someone on the same page. Good luck

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By *anandLeia72Couple
over a year ago

St. Helens

You've got some good veris so that's in your favour. You should try a club or go on one of the big social nights held in your area. In all honesty I wouldn't linger on your profile too much cos your photos aren't attracting me too much. Work on those and you might get more attention.

Good luck.

Leia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blank profile pic and 3/4 public pics that are all different pics of your dick. Not the most attractive to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages that get my attention are ones that can make me laugh.

One liners are a non starter, as are telling me what you'd like to do to me.

Be polite and respectable and ensure you read peoples profiles before messaging, and relate something in your first message to their profile if you can.

That's what I like anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My approach is being friendly and courteous and ask basic questions such as doing anything nice today or been up to much etc . Don't be to intrusive by asking to many personal questions as discretion sometimes dictates and not because they maybe be married , sometimes a proffesion is key for being discreet.

When I send a message, ask them to delete the message if they aren't interested so I don't repeat message them , it works for me after 7 years of being on here

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you very much.

I will make my face pictures public and maybe add some more. I'm just not very good at taking pictures of myself.

This is the first time I have posted or even been on the forums but will definitely be spending more time here.

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