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Finding a real life partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you think are the chances of finding a real life partner on FAB? I’ve been thinking about dating but would love to combine both worlds, if you know what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined fab to avoid relationships for a while (bad run of crappy boyfriends). It didn’t turn out as expected to say the least. Brilliantly unexpected in fact. So, yes, it is possible to find a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s great to hear. I joined for similar reasons, no time or interest in anything more but now thinking I might be open to it. The “vanilla” sites are a bit hard to consider now as people are (as you would expect) more cautious and formal. How did you meet your partner, if you don’t mind me asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are quite a few long term relationships and several marriages that we know of have come out of Fabs in particular and the scene in general - don't discount it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, Good to hear x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm looking for a partner on here as well. Hard though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s great to hear. I joined for similar reasons, no time or interest in anything more but now thinking I might be open to it. The “vanilla” sites are a bit hard to consider now as people are (as you would expect) more cautious and formal. How did you meet your partner, if you don’t mind me asking?"

It started with a wink. Just one of those serendipitous moments early in Fab; thought he’d made a mistake as I was not even close to his league. Turns out not and here we are, still learning from each other and still laughing (and still having amazing sex).

Ok enough of the smug, I’m even making myself queezy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also works the other way, I thought I found someone I really connected with but the allure of fab was too much!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s great to hear. I joined for similar reasons, no time or interest in anything more but now thinking I might be open to it. The “vanilla” sites are a bit hard to consider now as people are (as you would expect) more cautious and formal. How did you meet your partner, if you don’t mind me asking?

It started with a wink. Just one of those serendipitous moments early in Fab; thought he’d made a mistake as I was not even close to his league. Turns out not and here we are, still learning from each other and still laughing (and still having amazing sex).

Ok enough of the smug, I’m even making myself queezy. "

Brilliant xxx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

That would be nice.

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

I've met my last two girlfriends on here. Ok they didn't last the course but that was not due to the lifestyle. Yes it is possible and I'd say relationships formed on here stand the same chances as ones formed on normal dating sites

Good luck

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Now wouldnt that be so nice. But the longer Im here the more I question why

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By *ierre1Man
over a year ago

Hinckley

I'm too looking for a relationship on here. I want a partner to do vanilla stuff with as well as the filthy fab stuff. Look me up ladies. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on and off fab for a while but more recently joined because of some really bad dates..which just left me feeling really fed up and rubbish about myself really..... and most of the real life dating sites are more like shag sites anyway... so came back on here because I love sex and have a filthy kinky side.. and decided I didn’t want a full on relationship at the moment (my self esteem needs to recover a bit haha) there’s a part of me that thinks to date someone on here would be great because you can be honest about your wants and needs sexually and to find someone on the same wavelength would be fantastic... but it’s finding someone you get on with too not just sexually but on levels and who wants the same thing and not just to fuck haha.... so I’m open to it but not looking as such!

Hope you find what your looking for!! Xx

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

My partner and I met on here & it turned out we were also neighbours! Two years on and still together

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What do you think are the chances of finding a real life partner on FAB? I’ve been thinking about dating but would love to combine both worlds, if you know what I mean?"

There has been a recent marriage of two Fab members. Good luck with it OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started a similar thread a while ago....love to find a similar minded partner from here....POF just doesnt cut it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO , forget it, they see it as permission to shag other women. AVOID, AVOID

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s great to hear. I joined for similar reasons, no time or interest in anything more but now thinking I might be open to it. The “vanilla” sites are a bit hard to consider now as people are (as you would expect) more cautious and formal. How did you meet your partner, if you don’t mind me asking?

It started with a wink. Just one of those serendipitous moments early in Fab; thought he’d made a mistake as I was not even close to his league. Turns out not and here we are, still learning from each other and still laughing (and still having amazing sex).

Ok enough of the smug, I’m even making myself queezy. "

Which league did you think you were in?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to find a guy with the naughtiness of fab to enjoy the vanilla side with too, don’t hold out much hope but ways hopeful x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"NO , forget it, they see it as permission to shag other women. AVOID, AVOID"

I've had that several times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d love to find a guy with the naughtiness of fab to enjoy the vanilla side with too, don’t hold out much hope but ways hopeful x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *andCforfunCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Met my other half on here and it’s been well over 2 years now and starting talking about moving in together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met my other half on here and it’s been well over 2 years now and starting talking about moving in together "

Congratulations xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve been on and off fab for a while but more recently joined because of some really bad dates..which just left me feeling really fed up and rubbish about myself really..... and most of the real life dating sites are more like shag sites anyway... so came back on here because I love sex and have a filthy kinky side.. and decided I didn’t want a full on relationship at the moment (my self esteem needs to recover a bit haha) there’s a part of me that thinks to date someone on here would be great because you can be honest about your wants and needs sexually and to find someone on the same wavelength would be fantastic... but it’s finding someone you get on with too not just sexually but on levels and who wants the same thing and not just to fuck haha.... so I’m open to it but not looking as such!

Hope you find what your looking for!! Xx"

You too lovely xx

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Would just be nice to find someone who is serious about dating full stop. Tried prof and tinder and even payed for match but all feel a waste of time. Maybe it's different for women but as a guy I'm finding it hard. To a point where the want for a relationship is slipping away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would just be nice to find someone who is serious about dating full stop. Tried prof and tinder and even payed for match but all feel a waste of time. Maybe it's different for women but as a guy I'm finding it hard. To a point where the want for a relationship is slipping away. "

I'm experiencing the same problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be good to find a long term partner I have had no meetings on here or zoosk or match I am honest maybe to honest

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By *parkle LoungeWoman
over a year ago

Cornwall

My last 3 relationships started from her or similar sites. One lasted a long time. It's not necessarily what I am looking for from here, it was an unexpected bonus and saved so much time faffing around trying to find out what one another likes sexually.

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

I tried using traditional dating sites. I had no intention of being dishonest and discovered very quickly that even revealing a fraction about my sexual side made women run a mile. Plus I found feeling the need to hold back and reveal in small doses both boring and frustrating.

On here I also struggled to meet anyone local that would consider the possibly of anything serious.

In the end I got lucky on that well known BDSM sight. Lots of social events are posted on it and the impression that I got was that a higher proportion of women are open to considering the possibility of a meaningful relationship.

Sure I've made a few compromises in that the way I now swing as part of a couple is different. However the trade off is more than worth it and being with someone who loves me and accepts me for who I am is...well just awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be great to have a 'Looking for More' section on here, has been debated for a long time, but nothing comes of it...

And yes, I'd like a relationship too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried using traditional dating sites. I had no intention of being dishonest and discovered very quickly that even revealing a fraction about my sexual side made women run a mile. Plus I found feeling the need to hold back and reveal in small doses both boring and frustrating.

On here I also struggled to meet anyone local that would consider the possibly of anything serious.

In the end I got lucky on that well known BDSM sight. Lots of social events are posted on it and the impression that I got was that a higher proportion of women are open to considering the possibility of a meaningful relationship.

Sure I've made a few compromises in that the way I now swing as part of a couple is different. However the trade off is more than worth it and being with someone who loves me and accepts me for who I am is...well just awesome.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Jack and I met here as singles

We weren't looking for more than fun ,but we just clicked

We live together now and it's been almost 2.5 years

I think many people are open to more than just fun here,good luck and hope you find what you are looking for .

Missxx

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"What do you think are the chances of finding a real life partner on FAB? I’ve been thinking about dating but would love to combine both worlds, if you know what I mean?"

Love this , food for thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to find the same on here too OP, we can only hope! x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m looking for more than wham bamm. Far more to life than quick sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

K and I met as a result of Fab and a group social, and now we've been together for seven months now with no signs of slowing down So it's definitely possible OP.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the idea of finding someone on here. Amazing sex is a prerequisite, but to "date" and share experiences outside of the bedroom, too?

I think I'm searching for unicorns...

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