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Women who dont talk to guys because of their sexual preference? Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nothing is set in stone uno sexual preference is normally more than one but most girls see on thing they are not into and dont speak. Why ladies scared you mite change your mind lool

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Not just “girls” as you call them.

Plenty of black homophobic guys around these parts too.

Ultimately it’s their choice though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not just “girls” as you call them.

Plenty of black homophobic guys around these parts too.

Ultimately it’s their choice though. "

That fair enough. But is it homophobia if it’s just not your thing?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Not just “girls” as you call them.

Plenty of black homophobic guys around these parts too.

Ultimately it’s their choice though.

That fair enough. But is it homophobia if it’s just not your thing?"

Not necessarily. Though one gent may be disappointed to know that being Jamaican or Jamaican descent does not automatically make you qualify as a heterosexual.

But if I wasn’t into bi guys as a fem, I’d try not to meet them, because sexually they are a higher risk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not just “girls” as you call them.

Plenty of black homophobic guys around these parts too.

Ultimately it’s their choice though.

That fair enough. But is it homophobia if it’s just not your thing?

Not necessarily. Though one gent may be disappointed to know that being Jamaican or Jamaican descent does not automatically make you qualify as a heterosexual.

But if I wasn’t into bi guys as a fem, I’d try not to meet them, because sexually they are a higher risk."

Wow well I agree with it being high risk and I’m Jamaican and I’m heterosexual. But I can tell you there are a few gays and DLs around lol

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Not just “girls” as you call them.

Plenty of black homophobic guys around these parts too.

Ultimately it’s their choice though.

That fair enough. But is it homophobia if it’s just not your thing?

Not necessarily. Though one gent may be disappointed to know that being Jamaican or Jamaican descent does not automatically make you qualify as a heterosexual.

But if I wasn’t into bi guys as a fem, I’d try not to meet them, because sexually they are a higher risk.

Wow well I agree with it being high risk and I’m Jamaican and I’m heterosexual. But I can tell you there are a few gays and DLs around lol"

I doubt very much if the bi / gay / straight ratios are any different. Just it’s culturally not acceptable and boy does that show on some profiles.

DLs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DLs???

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Down-low (sexual slang), a slang phrase, typically referring to a subculture of Black men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men.

Nice one OP. Not quite sure why you started the thread mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Down-low (sexual slang), a slang phrase, typically referring to a subculture of Black men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men.

Nice one OP. Not quite sure why you started the thread mind "

Just wanted some opinions on the above but you pointed out a problem a few girls have encountered. Like one of my female friends slept with this Jamaican guy. And then like three weeks after he confesses he has sex with men and he is a DL bottom and he wanted her to use a strap on. She was then scared told all who would hear and was worried genuinely the hole time waiting for the test results. It’s not right that is information that should be shared

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Well, I am very straight so not interested in anyone who is not. Personal choice, preference, who has the time, yada yada.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Down-low (sexual slang), a slang phrase, typically referring to a subculture of Black men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men.

Nice one OP. Not quite sure why you started the thread mind

Just wanted some opinions on the above but you pointed out a problem a few girls have encountered. Like one of my female friends slept with this Jamaican guy. And then like three weeks after he confesses he has sex with men and he is a DL bottom and he wanted her to use a strap on. She was then scared told all who would hear and was worried genuinely the hole time waiting for the test results. It’s not right that is information that should be shared "

She outed him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Down-low (sexual slang), a slang phrase, typically referring to a subculture of Black men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men.

Nice one OP. Not quite sure why you started the thread mind

Just wanted some opinions on the above but you pointed out a problem a few girls have encountered. Like one of my female friends slept with this Jamaican guy. And then like three weeks after he confesses he has sex with men and he is a DL bottom and he wanted her to use a strap on. She was then scared told all who would hear and was worried genuinely the hole time waiting for the test results. It’s not right that is information that should be shared

She outed him? "

Yeah she told everybody it’s a pity, but he should have just said he was into that before having unprotected sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has there ever been a man that was put off sleeping with a woman cause she was bi, nah didn’t think so ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bisexuality in men = high risk. Wow, that is quite a generalisation

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Bisexuality in men = high risk. Wow, that is quite a generalisation "

Er no / it’s an accepted fact by the NHS

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Down-low (sexual slang), a slang phrase, typically referring to a subculture of Black men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men.

Nice one OP. Not quite sure why you started the thread mind

Just wanted some opinions on the above but you pointed out a problem a few girls have encountered. Like one of my female friends slept with this Jamaican guy. And then like three weeks after he confesses he has sex with men and he is a DL bottom and he wanted her to use a strap on. She was then scared told all who would hear and was worried genuinely the hole time waiting for the test results. It’s not right that is information that should be shared

She outed him?

Yeah she told everybody it’s a pity, but he should have just said he was into that before having unprotected sex"

But only she is responsible really for her own sexual health

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bisexuality in men = high risk. Wow, that is quite a generalisation

Er no / it’s an accepted fact by the NHS "

That is true many captains have been launched by the NHS to combat this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bisexuality in men = high risk. Wow, that is quite a generalisation

Er no / it’s an accepted fact by the NHS "

Yeah, those pesky buggers sticking there cocks everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bisexuality in men = high risk. Wow, that is quite a generalisation

Er no / it’s an accepted fact by the NHS

That is true many captains have been launched by the NHS to combat this. "

Campaign*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bisexuality in men = high risk. Wow, that is quite a generalisation

Er no / it’s an accepted fact by the NHS

That is true many captains have been launched by the NHS to combat this.

Campaign*

"

Captains is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Down-low (sexual slang), a slang phrase, typically referring to a subculture of Black men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men.

Nice one OP. Not quite sure why you started the thread mind

Just wanted some opinions on the above but you pointed out a problem a few girls have encountered. Like one of my female friends slept with this Jamaican guy. And then like three weeks after he confesses he has sex with men and he is a DL bottom and he wanted her to use a strap on. She was then scared told all who would hear and was worried genuinely the hole time waiting for the test results. It’s not right that is information that should be shared

She outed him?

Yeah she told everybody it’s a pity, but he should have just said he was into that before having unprotected sex"

If he was fucking her bareback then she was incredibly naïve if she thought he was fucking everyone else with condoms. Horrible of her to out him.

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By *urve BallWoman
over a year ago

North London


"Down-low (sexual slang), a slang phrase, typically referring to a subculture of Black men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men.

Nice one OP. Not quite sure why you started the thread mind

Just wanted some opinions on the above but you pointed out a problem a few girls have encountered. Like one of my female friends slept with this Jamaican guy. And then like three weeks after he confesses he has sex with men and he is a DL bottom and he wanted her to use a strap on. She was then scared told all who would hear and was worried genuinely the hole time waiting for the test results. It’s not right that is information that should be shared

She outed him?

Yeah she told everybody it’s a pity, but he should have just said he was into that before having unprotected sex"

That's contradicting what you said in your original post. Had he told her, she wouldn't have slept with him. And judging by the outcome, it would have been better for both.

Preferences are there for a reason. Rather than trying to convince others to try stuff they clearly are not interested in, maybe you should instead look for people who share your preferences to begin with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Down-low (sexual slang), a slang phrase, typically referring to a subculture of Black men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men.

Nice one OP. Not quite sure why you started the thread mind

Just wanted some opinions on the above but you pointed out a problem a few girls have encountered. Like one of my female friends slept with this Jamaican guy. And then like three weeks after he confesses he has sex with men and he is a DL bottom and he wanted her to use a strap on. She was then scared told all who would hear and was worried genuinely the hole time waiting for the test results. It’s not right that is information that should be shared

She outed him?

Yeah she told everybody it’s a pity, but he should have just said he was into that before having unprotected sex

That's contradicting what you said in your original post. Had he told her, she wouldn't have slept with him. And judging by the outcome, it would have been better for both.

Preferences are there for a reason. Rather than trying to convince others to try stuff they clearly are not interested in, maybe you should instead look for people who share your preferences to begin with."

That’s a good point well said. But you seem a little annoyed so can I just point out I personally don’t have that problem just something I noticed. And the bi guy discussion was not related check the message thread and you will see how we got to that lol. But good view

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By *urve BallWoman
over a year ago

North London


"Down-low (sexual slang), a slang phrase, typically referring to a subculture of Black men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men.

Nice one OP. Not quite sure why you started the thread mind

Just wanted some opinions on the above but you pointed out a problem a few girls have encountered. Like one of my female friends slept with this Jamaican guy. And then like three weeks after he confesses he has sex with men and he is a DL bottom and he wanted her to use a strap on. She was then scared told all who would hear and was worried genuinely the hole time waiting for the test results. It’s not right that is information that should be shared

She outed him?

Yeah she told everybody it’s a pity, but he should have just said he was into that before having unprotected sex

That's contradicting what you said in your original post. Had he told her, she wouldn't have slept with him. And judging by the outcome, it would have been better for both.

Preferences are there for a reason. Rather than trying to convince others to try stuff they clearly are not interested in, maybe you should instead look for people who share your preferences to begin with.

That’s a good point well said. But you seem a little annoyed so can I just point out I personally don’t have that problem just something I noticed. And the bi guy discussion was not related check the message thread and you will see how we got to that lol. But good view "

Not annoyed at all. I just come across stern in general when posting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Down-low (sexual slang), a slang phrase, typically referring to a subculture of Black men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men.

Nice one OP. Not quite sure why you started the thread mind

Just wanted some opinions on the above but you pointed out a problem a few girls have encountered. Like one of my female friends slept with this Jamaican guy. And then like three weeks after he confesses he has sex with men and he is a DL bottom and he wanted her to use a strap on. She was then scared told all who would hear and was worried genuinely the hole time waiting for the test results. It’s not right that is information that should be shared

She outed him?

Yeah she told everybody it’s a pity, but he should have just said he was into that before having unprotected sex

That's contradicting what you said in your original post. Had he told her, she wouldn't have slept with him. And judging by the outcome, it would have been better for both.

Preferences are there for a reason. Rather than trying to convince others to try stuff they clearly are not interested in, maybe you should instead look for people who share your preferences to begin with.

That’s a good point well said. But you seem a little annoyed so can I just point out I personally don’t have that problem just something I noticed. And the bi guy discussion was not related check the message thread and you will see how we got to that lol. But good view

Not annoyed at all. I just come across stern in general when posting."

Lol ok no worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the OP was about him not being someone else's sexual preference and then not talking to him. Not about them not liking his sexual preferences and ignoring him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought the OP was about him not being someone else's sexual preference and then not talking to him. Not about them not liking his sexual preferences and ignoring him. "

Lol actually got nothing to do with me or my preference lol was just a question as I notice it happens to allot of people both on this site and others

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Bisexuality in men = high risk. Wow, that is quite a generalisation

Er no / it’s an accepted fact by the NHS "

I'd love to do a number crunch of data of a percentage of the hetero population that get tested, vs the percentage of the "homo sexual" population.

As one of the interesting stats is the gay vs bi vs "Men who have sex with men" - i.e. those in the closet (things that like Fab force people in to...)

But indeed, the statistics are *close* in the USA at least.

It's still 1 in 3 men contracting HIV is straight.

It's not like it's 8/10ths gay men.

Still... You pays your money, you takes your chance.

We don't play with Bi men "in the closet" as they are going to have the *highest* risk due the nature of living in the closet.

Flames

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Down-low (sexual slang), a slang phrase, typically referring to a subculture of Black men who usually identify as heterosexual, but who have sex with men.

Nice one OP. Not quite sure why you started the thread mind

Just wanted some opinions on the above but you pointed out a problem a few girls have encountered. Like one of my female friends slept with this Jamaican guy. And then like three weeks after he confesses he has sex with men and he is a DL bottom and he wanted her to use a strap on. She was then scared told all who would hear and was worried genuinely the hole time waiting for the test results. It’s not right that is information that should be shared

She outed him?

Yeah she told everybody it’s a pity, but he should have just said he was into that before having unprotected sex"

Hold on a minute, if she had unprotected sex then surely she is to blame for her own health scare

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