FabSwingers.com forum: Do men in couples fuck?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The majority on here seems to be couples where the men like wanking watching their wife being fucked. What happened to the good old wife swapping?

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

We both swap, which is strange as when we joined we said we would only ever soft swap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they fuck as well as me, most people would be happy they were just wanking

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By *avidW500Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

From the couples ive met. The Husbands are quite happy to watch and take pictures or video. Which is fine with me. Though I can also think of 2 husbands who would have a very fast fuck almost towards the end. To each their own pref I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both fuck or neither

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We both fuck or neither"

Yes we’re the same...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a speedboat and a jet ski for mine. The other wife wasn't too impressed though....

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We only play with single females but both indulge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I each have our own profiles, as we tend to find it hard to find chemistry amongst all four people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full swap or no swap for us.

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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago

ongar

"The majority on here seems to be couples where the men like wanking watching their wife being fucked. What happened to the good old wife swapping?"

They run out of Golf clubs...

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I rarely fuck , never have , as my thing is very much watching my wife having fun . Why is this ? I don’t know for sure , but the fact that on our joint hen and stag night at a swingers club I had seven bi females in a room with me and I realised I wasn’t so much a doer as a watcher . After twenty minutes I sneaked out to get some guys to join us so the pressure was off me .

The guys couldn’t believe I wanted them to partake in what was essentially most men’s dream come true . But I’d been like this for the whole 18 months of swinging before we got married , shagging maybe one in five women we met .

I’ve been the same for the last six years or so too , and I know I’m not the only married man who feels like this . As long as everyone knows the score , I can’t see the issue to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rarely fuck , never have , as my thing is very much watching my wife having fun . Why is this ? I don’t know for sure , but the fact that on our joint hen and stag night at a swingers club I had seven bi females in a room with me and I realised I wasn’t so much a doer as a watcher . After twenty minutes I sneaked out to get some guys to join us so the pressure was off me .

I’ve been the same for the last six years or so too , and I know I’m not the only married man who feels like this . As long as everyone knows the score , I can’t see the issue to be honest

There is no issue and im glad to see people having fun. Just a bit frustrating for my wife...

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I’ve had it happen the other way round, in clubs where couples will want to do everything with me the fem, but not let my ex partner touch them. As soon as a situation doesn’t suit, I just stop and walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The majority on here seems to be couples where the men like wanking watching their wife being fucked. What happened to the good old wife swapping?"

Oh yes indeed we both fuck but also I do fucking love seeing her in action...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m all for bit of wife swapping fun totally,and will let my wife meet guys but only if I’m inclined in the fun and games ,not sitting on sidelines watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just sit in the corner crying like a baby caused by the pain of seeing my wife enjoying sex with other people

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By *witch4Fun24Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

This one does; both at couple meets and off separately on his own. We both do in fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously can't comment on the swapping issue, but with the majority of my meets, while the husband is happy to watch his wife having fun, at some point he will join in, either with dp, spitroast or on a very few occasions dvp. Sometimes he will just take photos or film a session.

Usually depends on what the couple want and enjoy. If she enjoys playing with two or more guys, she isn't necessarily going to enjoy her husband sitting back and just watching. Four hands, two cocks, two mouths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The majority on here seems to be couples where the men like wanking watching their wife being fucked. What happened to the good old wife swapping?"

We do both , love watching her get fucked , but equally love fucking others as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just sit in the corner crying like a baby caused by the pain of seeing my wife enjoying sex with other people

You should seek professional advise if its painful...

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By *andhCouple
over a year ago

Ilford

If we are meeting a couple then I would certainly play during the meet

If we are meeting a guy then I generally sit back, watch and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just sit in the corner crying like a baby caused by the pain of seeing my wife enjoying sex with other people

You should seek professional advise if its painful...

How the hell would I explain that to a councillor???

Lucky for me that I absolutely love seeing this

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down

Full swap always.... never been a spectator sport for us

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Mr M doesn't sit there wanking but he’s not interested in fucking anyone else.

We all play our own way, its like saying dogging is a part of swinging when its not.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Both fully involved for us, love to watch and be watched by each other having fun.

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Full swap here

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both fuck, although the Mrs does love to watch me fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both like to get amongst it & watch at the same time

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Oh yes.

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

We both play, watching each other and being in a tangle of bodies is heaven. That said sometimes watching can be a huge turn on as well, depends on the vibe and the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both fuck, although the Mrs does love to watch me fuck "

Is that "fuck?" Or "fuck off?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both play or we don’t play at all.

The fun is in seeing us both get pleasured and pleasure others.

I the lady always get the short straw in my opinion as they get my hubby and the ladies get what I want but miss out on normally.

Hence why a lady is often a better option for me and us.

Just our thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both fuck, although the Mrs does love to watch me fuck

Is that "fuck?" Or "fuck off?"

Fuck first then we fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as I'm playing I don't mind watching Inked play but I'm not the type to sit back and wank whilst she's playing. It's not for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We both fuck, although the Mrs does love to watch me fuck

Is that "fuck?" Or "fuck off?"

Ahahahaha..

That was a good one...cheers..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both play if one feels left out during a meet we would walk away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We both play if one feels left out during a meet we would walk away"

Thats how it is. We always talk a lot and openly before a meet and double check we’re on the same page at the social drink before. I think the “chat work” before the meet is very important to avoud awkward situations like the one you described.

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down

"We both play if one feels left out during a meet we would walk away

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both fuck, although the Mrs does love to watch me fuck

Is that "fuck?" Or "fuck off?"

Fuck first then we fuck off

As long as it's not a "fuck n run" it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both fuck, although the Mrs does love to watch me fuck

Is that "fuck?" Or "fuck off?"

Ahahahaha..

That was a good one...cheers..!! "

We know them, a lovely lovely couple

so we're aloud to take the piss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We both fuck, although the Mrs does love to watch me fuck

Is that "fuck?" Or "fuck off?"

Ahahahaha..

That was a good one...cheers..!!

We know them, a lovely lovely couple

so we're aloud to take the piss

Nice...we do like sexy friendships that go beyond just sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both fuck, although the Mrs does love to watch me fuck

Is that "fuck?" Or "fuck off?"

Ahahahaha..

That was a good one...cheers..!!

We know them, a lovely lovely couple

so we're aloud to take the piss

Nice...we do like sexy friendships that go beyond just sex...

That's the thing, we havn't had sex with them........yet

Had lots of laughs at our local club though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We both fuck, although the Mrs does love to watch me fuck

Is that "fuck?" Or "fuck off?"

Ahahahaha..

That was a good one...cheers..!!

We know them, a lovely lovely couple

so we're aloud to take the piss

Nice...we do like sexy friendships that go beyond just sex...

That's the thing, we havn't had sex with them........yet

Had lots of laughs at our local club though

I hope you’ll all have the same good fun naked too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, there's been plenty of times we've gone to chams and husband has fucked and I've just watched. There's no way he'd be happy just sitting there not joining in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine does. When the oppertunity arrises anyway. Love watching him fuck another women while im getting fucked.

SweetMiss xx

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We both swap and wouldn't meet another couple if they didn't we are not interested in threesomes any kind of hot wife scenarios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer to both be involved and would never meet someone who just expected one or the other to watch for the entirety of playing. We like to play with each other and the other parties involved.

Makes things extra horny.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The majority on here seems to be couples where the men like wanking watching their wife being fucked. What happened to the good old wife swapping?"
didn’t ch4 pull the plug on it??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The majority on here seems to be couples where the men like wanking watching their wife being fucked. What happened to the good old wife swapping? didn’t ch4 pull the plug on it??

Speak more about it please...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do both, both meet solo and together with singles or other couples!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We are both equally involved as a rule.

Nita

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Dick does, I tend to stick to the ladies.

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By *oukevCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster

We both swap

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Both swap,but also have our own profiles too.

We enjoy watching each other

Miss

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish

If we meet a couple, we both fully take part. If we meet a single Guy, my hubby watches me being a Slut and takes pictures.

He doesn’t wank though

When I have got that dirty look on my face and been naughty enough, he joins in to spit roast me....yes I know to much information

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite enjoy fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different.

But for us it's about both of us having fun, not into watching each other, like to concentrate on who we are with.

Although hearing about what we got up to after is always fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called hotwifing alot of couples love it....

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By *erryc20Couple
over a year ago

Mendip Area

we certainly do

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By *arah with heelsCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford Lincolnshire

Most couples only want Sarah so hubby never gets the chance.we have never managed to find a couple when all 4 parties are totally happy

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Most couples only want Sarah so hubby never gets the chance.we have never managed to find a couple when all 4 parties are totally happy"

Your profile is very biased towards her though.

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By *ilNdoCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We both fuck! Not our cuppa tea to watch or be watched!

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By *arah with heelsCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford Lincolnshire

It is now after a couple of years he as lost hope and is now happy with the 3sums we have

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By *aucy SouthernersCouple
over a year ago

Honiton

We swap fully, we love it, watching each other (with others) is a huge turn on and why we like same room fun x

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"The majority on here seems to be couples where the men like wanking watching their wife being fucked. What happened to the good old wife swapping?"

I think we've met maybe two or three couples in three years where it's been a "both thumbs up" for us to possibly play.

I enjoy the Hotwife thing, and will join in rather than being some cuck.

But... It's mainly down to availability, statistics, and there's many more men than couples out there.

I'd love to get a chance to play, but I never get chance, so *shrugs*.

Flames

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The majority on here seems to be couples where the men like wanking watching their wife being fucked. What happened to the good old wife swapping?"

We are here but seems nobody wants us anymore xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love wife swapping

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By *erryc20Couple
over a year ago

Mendip Area

We also enjoy 'husband swapping', that can be fun too

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

as im getting older i fuck less but weve never had hardx n fast rules about who does what it usually the way the situation pans out wife swapping as in two couple has never realy done it for us its no different to playing away we always like that odd number so at least one of you is getting spoilt

weve always said four is the hardest number to swing with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love to fuck!

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