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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The two word no bloke wants to hear said, it kicks your confidence into the gutter, and, when you do take someting to assist, there is always the thought at the back of your mind that it wont work.

My question to anyone who suffers from this, is how do you overcome the phychological problems. I k ow that cialis and viagra work, but there is always that thought in the back of your mind that it wont.

Any advise would be greatly recieved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One on one meets with fems m8 I am spot on and dont need any help at all. Get me in a meet with a mf couple and I get a tad nervous if I aint met them before and have to relax into the situation and not rush things and just go with the flow and then its ok and theres not a problem at all. If they rush me and its all perform now then I really do struggle. I had a meet on a doggin site once and was really starting to get it on and get there when all at once loads of other people turned up and I had stage fright and couldnt get hard again for love nor money so to speak and that really did play on me for a long time to be honest and still to this day if I am in a big crowd full of people I struggle to get hard so feel the need to take a pill before hand and im hard even if a girl opens her hand bag let alone her leggs m8. Catch 22 tho is after I have taken a pill to get me hard in an audience setting I cant cum full stop and for me its just a complete waste of time going there as I dont get any enjoyment at all from the meet

My advice to you is stick to what you no and what you are comfy with and take things from there and avoid meets like gang bangs or clubs with loads of folks in or partys were maybe you will get watched lol tho thats were loads of fun is at I spose. Other than that you could find a couple who will take into consideration your nerves etc etc and be paitent with you and show you the ropes to relax. I no thats what I did and it wored very well for me but like I say in a large crowd of people I still suffer from this and it dont make it any better the fact that you no ur expected to perform and therfore cant cos its on your mind before hand

Hope this is of some help and I aint waffled on to much here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One on one meets with fems m8 I am spot on and dont need any help at all. Get me in a meet with a mf couple and I get a tad nervous if I aint met them before and have to relax into the situation and not rush things and just go with the flow and then its ok and theres not a problem at all. If they rush me and its all perform now then I really do struggle. I had a meet on a doggin site once and was really starting to get it on and get there when all at once loads of other people turned up and I had stage fright and couldnt get hard again for love nor money so to speak and that really did play on me for a long time to be honest and still to this day if I am in a big crowd full of people I struggle to get hard so feel the need to take a pill before hand and im hard even if a girl opens her hand bag let alone her leggs m8. Catch 22 tho is after I have taken a pill to get me hard in an audience setting I cant cum full stop and for me its just a complete waste of time going there as I dont get any enjoyment at all from the meet

My advice to you is stick to what you no and what you are comfy with and take things from there and avoid meets like gang bangs or clubs with loads of folks in or partys were maybe you will get watched lol tho thats were loads of fun is at I spose. Other than that you could find a couple who will take into consideration your nerves etc etc and be paitent with you and show you the ropes to relax. I no thats what I did and it wored very well for me but like I say in a large crowd of people I still suffer from this and it dont make it any better the fact that you no ur expected to perform and therfore cant cos its on your mind before hand

Hope this is of some help and I aint waffled on to much here "

Good waffling....its tough at times....avoid the pressure to perform...it might mean changing the way you play etc...self reproach is the worst thing you can do...relax and adjust..

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