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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sure there are lots of us in the position of having to get a relative to take the kids for a night while you go for a meet or to a club.

Personally we haven't ever really been into "clubbing" for a long time so can't really use that to explain nights away.

What does everyone say they are away to do when they go off swinging?

We have used the meal and drinks one, the "we hoped to grab show tickets but there was nothing good available" etc

Just interested to hear what everyone else says

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a 'hobby' where you regularly meet with the same friends. People have given examples before of ideas to use but my mind's blank sorry!

This way you always use the same excuse and don't need to keep making new stuff up. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple just say you both need a little quality time together no more

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By *ornysxcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

We just get a sitter, an tell the kids we’re out for the night, no issues for us

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Date night .....

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By *unnymooncoupleCouple
over a year ago

Camberwell

Just say you are going for a dinner and some drinks after.

If you use a sitter, just say that you are going to a friends house, grab a bottle of wine and go

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Late night movie , date nights , meeting old school friends , invent some new friends that you spend time with , new hobby ( check what's on local that you could perhaps use ) haunted house nights , local bands playing gigs etc

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I'm sure there are lots of us in the position of having to get a relative to take the kids for a night while you go for a meet or to a club.

Personally we haven't ever really been into "clubbing" for a long time so can't really use that to explain nights away.

What does everyone say they are away to do when they go off swinging?

We have used the meal and drinks one, the "we hoped to grab show tickets but there was nothing good available" etc

Just interested to hear what everyone else says

Cheers"

Thing is, whatever you say they won't think it's secret cover for sex with strangers

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Date night, as has been said. What you do on your date night is up to you.

The more protracted and involved your reasons become the less believable they'll be. If however you establish regular date nights that involve a meal, some drinks and quality time together nobody will think anything of it.

When your children reach the age when you can leave them alone they start to be really inquisitive and suspicious it'll be really handy then to have date night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have made up friends that we go out for drinks with even though I always come back sober lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't get to clubs as often as we'd like but when we do my parents have them over night. We include trips to clubs with a meal out or a walk along a beach, so we're technically not lying and they know the area we are.

As it's my parents they like having the Children and recognise that we need some time to ourselves so it's win win.

Ginger

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3


"Date night ..... "

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Just tell them your off Dogging then secretly slip away to a swingers club.....problem solved

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

You’re having a night out, it really shouldn’t need anymore explanation than that or finding ways to make up stories.

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester


"Just tell them your off Dogging then secretly slip away to a swingers club.....problem solved "

That would work also, no messing about and straight to the point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some good ideas here, date night and no specific plans makes the most sense.

Although telling them we are dogging then going to a club might be easier to explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All we use to say was. Off to see a band,movies meal out etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have teens- younger kids would be much easier to get away with. Teens are suspicious of everything

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"We have teens- younger kids would be much easier to get away with. Teens are suspicious of everything "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont need to make up excuses or say anything, say your going out and if anybody asks questions just tell them to mind there own god damn business.

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