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By *ogistical Nightmares OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

When talking to a couple on forums or messaging can you "tell" if you are talking to the male or female of the couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes.

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By *ogistical Nightmares OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

Personally I enjoy playing guess the gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter?

They are a couple and should be addressed ad such

Far too often guys chat to us and assume it's sweet,even though our profile says it's me, grey.

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By *ogistical Nightmares OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"Does it matter?

They are a couple and should be addressed ad such

Far too often guys chat to us and assume it's sweet,even though our profile says it's me, grey.

"

Totally agree, I never assume or will even ask who I am speaking to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get meassages assuming its her chatting not him..some even think its a single fem profile as havnt read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always send a message addressing both of them unless told that you are speaking to one or the other.

Thats a good rule of thumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quickest way to get yourself ignored is assuming, on the plus side, turns out im a sexy babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quickest way to get yourself ignored is assuming, on the plus side, turns out im a sexy babe "

That makes two of us! Aren't we a couple of lucky, but very sexy babes

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By *ogistical Nightmares OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"We get meassages assuming its her chatting not him..some even think its a single fem profile as havnt read it "

Don't you just love it when people don't read past the user name

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By *ogistical Nightmares OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"Quickest way to get yourself ignored is assuming, on the plus side, turns out im a sexy babe "

Aw cute

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By *ogistical Nightmares OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"Quickest way to get yourself ignored is assuming, on the plus side, turns out im a sexy babe

That makes two of us! Aren't we a couple of lucky, but very sexy babes "

Double cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quickest way to get a delete is to just address the woman of the couple if ya only interested in the woman go for the singles

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By *ogistical Nightmares OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"Quickest way to get a delete is to just address the woman of the couple if ya only interested in the woman go for the singles "

This also applies in clubs, well you can't delete, (but sometimes wish you could), but they get sharp shrift, from both of us

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'd say 80 percent of couples who contact me its just the fella. I always ask which half I'm talking to and the majority of the time it's the bloke and the other half is nowhere to be seen...

I always ask to voice verify with the female half...this generally results in tumble.

I've had couples meets but not off here as yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually sign off who's who.

Plus.. Eve can spell and correctly punctuate

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Females are more likely to put a x at the end of a message and men are more likely to assume that they are chatting to a women, when usually it's the male that's chatting, funny but true, posted by the male

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By *ogistical Nightmares OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"Females are more likely to put a x at the end of a message and men are more likely to assume that they are chatting to a women, when usually it's the male that's chatting, funny but true, posted by the male"

This is so, so true, no x's on here, so it could be either of us posting

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Females are more likely to put a x at the end of a message and men are more likely to assume that they are chatting to a women, when usually it's the male that's chatting, funny but true, posted by the male"

Recently I was getting messages with an 'x' at the end of each one, but it turned out to be the male half who was writing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say 80 percent of couples who contact me its just the fella. I always ask which half I'm talking to and the majority of the time it's the bloke and the other half is nowhere to be seen...

I always ask to voice verify with the female half...this generally results in tumble.

I've had couples meets but not off here as yet."

The chatrooms r the same says couple but its nearly always just the man or a man pretending to be a couple jog on

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I'd say 80 percent of couples who contact me its just the fella. I always ask which half I'm talking to and the majority of the time it's the bloke and the other half is nowhere to be seen...

I always ask to voice verify with the female half...this generally results in tumble.

I've had couples meets but not off here as yet."

I'm not allowed to put tumble w@#d apparently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never tell but most if the time it's usually the guy or that is what they tell me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99.9% of the couples that contact me it’s the male messaging....

It’s very rare to find a female arranging the meets for the couples.

The .1 percent that are female communicating it’s much easier to arrange meets because as a single male you know she is not being pressured into this.

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By *anandLeia72Couple
over a year ago

St. Helens

We always make it known how is sending the message. Most of the couples we chat do too. If it's not clear, ask!

Leia

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