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By *otBunsHun OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I was having a conversation with a fab friend earlier and they said that someone they'd met a while back had another meet planned for later that day aswell. ...we were wondering if multiple meets were common. ..has anybody here had 2 (or more?!) meets in a day?

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By *yd Charisse 10Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes but both social only get one day a week to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have

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By *otBunsHun OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Yes but both social only get one day a week to play "
Theres never enough hours in the day is there? I've got so much to do this weekend and have still managed to squeeze a social in but it would've been nice to have longer with them at least. ..but a coffee is a good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either

Knocking shop rings a bell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either

Knocking shop rings a bell "

Or they just enjoy sex and have free time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people do this to have a back up plan... just encase someone cancels at the last moment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do it and wouldn't want to be on someone's fuck conveyor belt either.

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By *nterracialWifeShareCouple
over a year ago

Galsgow 1&2 July

... even more so when one's got very limited precious time to play and, on top of that, has also got to travel from one country to another

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

About 10 years ago I used to see my FB regularly at lunch times (we worked together) and then an additional meet with maybe a couple of single girl later that day. Sometimes she’d join me for the meet in the afternoon. God I miss that girl!

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By *mandajane01TV/TS
over a year ago

Ballymena

Yes 3 in one day in different towns.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

When I first joined Fab I was amazed how easy it was and several times I had three meets in a day. I am far more discerning now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't do it and wouldn't want to be on someone's fuck conveyor belt either."

I give each of my meets 100% of my focus and would, quite frankly, prefer to go deep with one sexy friend than mess around lightly with many. So. No. I couldn't bring myself to do it either.

Would I mind it being done to me? Probably not. That's their business, not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No most I’ve had was 2 in a week

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"I wouldn't do it and wouldn't want to be on someone's fuck conveyor belt either."

I agree ,,, slabs of meat springs to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do people ever find the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gods no. I barely have the energy for one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 some one morning and then a 1-2-1 later that day

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either

Knocking shop rings a bell "

No judgement there then

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Tbh fab has to fit around work, kids, friends and a sick mum!

I remember the ‘shiny new fuck’ stage when I first joined fab - imo most people meet a lot at first when they’re given the choice/opportunity! I didn’t meet several times a day by any means - but I met a lot more often than I do now!

These days I’ll only meet if I really fancy them, like their personality and think we’ll be sexually compatible!

Hence I have far fewer meets - but bloody good ones!

And If a guy had a meet with me he’d be in no condition to have another meet that day anyway! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two in a day is the most for me. One social & one was for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am pretty sure I have been on the receiving end of being someone's multiple fucks per day and when I found out I felt (probably a bit unreasonably) really shit. So no I wouldn't do that. I like to give all my attention to one and if it has gone to plan I wouldn't be able to walk properly the rest of the day anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either

Knocking shop rings a bell

No judgement there then "

HOW DARE A WOMAN ENJOY SEX! SOMEONE ALERT THE ELDERS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either

Knocking shop rings a bell

No judgement there then

HOW DARE A WOMAN ENJOY SEX! SOMEONE ALERT THE ELDERS!"

You made me snort my tea out my nose....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't recall that I have, but I wouldn't necessarily say no. I just haven't had the need or inclination at the moment. Have had three different meets on three consecutive days though...

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either

Knocking shop rings a bell

No judgement there then

HOW DARE A WOMAN ENJOY SEX! SOMEONE ALERT THE ELDERS!"

Agree with you - but as you said above - if a meet had gone well you’d be in no condition to have five meets in a day - and certainly neither would I!

I wouldn’t condemn her morals - but I’d be tempted to give her advice on ‘quality control’!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I did once have two in a day, one in the late morning with a couple and one in the evening with a lady.

I slep well that night!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either

Knocking shop rings a bell

No judgement there then "

Thats what I thought. A gangbang is multi meets at one time. Whats the differance with gaps in?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I wouldn't do it and wouldn't want to be on someone's fuck conveyor belt either.

I agree ,,, slabs of meat springs to mind. "

Judgmental and double standards springs to mind.

People will do what they will do. If they choose to tell you and you talk about them in this manner, maybe their trust was misplaced.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

It's hard enough getting 1 at a time never mind multiple lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either

Knocking shop rings a bell

No judgement there then

Thats what I thought. A gangbang is multi meets at one time. Whats the differance with gaps in? "

Or playing with several people during an evening at a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ...we were wondering if multiple meets were common. ..has anybody here had 2 (or more?!) meets in a day? "

We have,yes,lucky these days to get one meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiple meets!! I'm lucky to ever get a meet haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do multiple socials but not my play meets.

I don't get as many spare days as I would like so prefer to have a couple of socials a day.

On Tuesday I originally had 3 planned . Ended up being 2 but worked well.

On meets I'm not into quick fuck and goes so would never fit more than one in

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By *traightguy101Man
over a year ago

Darlington

I've been on the recieving end of meeting someone after they dropped someone off and met me. I was initially uneasy about it, but I wouldn't judge her for it.

We all have needs after all.

This was before I came back to Fab. But I wouldn't meet two in one day, unless it was a group activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not that organised!!

And i’d rather meet a fella who was gagging for it and raring to go (and maybe go again) as opposed to a bloke who’d probably worn himself out shagging earlier in the day and was half hearted about the effort he put in.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either

Knocking shop rings a bell "

Bit of an odd comment to put on a swinging site where people are looking for NSA sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, something I have done and actually regret. Two mfms. Met the first couple and played, left, had a shower and then within an hour of leaving the first couple, was playing with the second.

In my defence the second couple had pretty much been begging me, (as strange as that seems!) to meet for a while and it was the only opportunity I had.

As others have pointed out, my performance wasn't anything to write home about, as when I was with the first couple I was thinking about the second and with the second I was pretty knackered after spending a few hours with the first.

Not something I would do again. In the same day.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

The quandary is, if I arrange a meet and the bastard doesn't show.....i've spent time getting ready, traveling, hotel room possibly, and I'm god damn HORNY!!! What then?!?

So it may just be wise to think ahead and have maybe 2 or 3 on standby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I had 3 meets in one day a while ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't do it and wouldn't want to be on someone's fuck conveyor belt either.

I agree ,,, slabs of meat springs to mind.

Judgmental and double standards springs to mind.

People will do what they will do. If they choose to tell you and you talk about them in this manner, maybe their trust was misplaced."

How is it double standards?

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By *estendboy121Man
over a year ago

south lakes


"When I first joined Fab I was amazed how easy it was and several times I had three meets in a day. I am far more discerning now!"

Social ?? or play ?? meets?

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've had multiple meets in one day. Enjoyed and had plenty of energy for all. It's basically just a gang bang but spread out over the day and each guy gets more attention than if they were all together.

So, if I can, I'll keep having multiple meets in a day, and if people have a problem with that then I don't care. I won't hold back my enjoyment because some strangers will think less of me for enjoying myself with multiple people in a day.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I wouldn't do it and wouldn't want to be on someone's fuck conveyor belt either.

I agree ,,, slabs of meat springs to mind.

Judgmental and double standards springs to mind.

People will do what they will do. If they choose to tell you and you talk about them in this manner, maybe their trust was misplaced.

How is it double standards?"

It is usually aimed at women somehow

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

Having 2 play meets in a day is normal for me when I have a day off work.

I do that every 2-3 weeks in fact.

One time I had up to 3 in one day, but felt so tired after the 3rd meet, so I won't attempt 3 in one day anymore.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"When I first joined Fab I was amazed how easy it was and several times I had three meets in a day. I am far more discerning now!

Social ?? or play ?? meets?"

They were play meets

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By *witch4Fun24Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Absolutely have. Had a visit from Princess early morning, another of my partners came over on his lunch break and I then spent the evening in my local club becoming closely acquainted with several people there too :D I have not arranged several meets in one day from here though, is usually club sessions where my regulars turn up or one of my partners visits me at home before i go out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 play meets in one Day..and 6 men at 1 hotel meet

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Yes thought I'd treat myself for my birthday.

I'd do it, if I was left unsatisfied as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but only when held house parties,different now trying to get one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had 4 play meets in one 24hrs. Woke up with one...met one late morning, met one early evening and then when I was in bed I got a call from an old friend.

Wouldn't do it again...... far too hard on my hips and knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have. It was a long time ago now and can't remember who, but one of them was someone I had either met before, or was a regular partner. I showered in between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had the time or the energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I did it it was during a very busy week for me. If I recall correctly I think I had sex with 7 men in 9 days. Could have been less men in less days though. 2 of them were a mfm and two were regular partners I think.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

It’s very rare that we only have one meet when we go out for fun .

The usual would be three , but will often be up to five or six depending on how busy the spots are we are frequenting .

Anyone judging us for this can do one because we do this for our pleasure and certainly not for the judgemental people who think their way is better .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people get so upset about total strangers judging them? Unless deep down they feel guilty.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Why do people get so upset about total strangers judging them? Unless deep down they feel guilty.

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I don’t think it’s because we feel guilty , we are so way past that ! Maybe in the first six months we may have , but not now seven years down the line . I think it’s more than we get upset because total strangers don’t know us , yet feel they can pass judgement on the way we do things .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can usually get more than one meet either Saturday or Sunday. And no, they are not on my 'conveyor belt'. I give plenty (maybe not 100% but close) of attention to every single one of my meets, and they are varied meets, not just pure fuck.

I don't care if anyone judges me on how many people in a day I meet, or what I do with them. Yes, I am a woman, and yes, I enjoy sex, having sexual attention, being spoiled, and teasing and spoiling my meets. If some sex police on here doesn't like that, that's their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is possible, I had one recently.. Two planned but the third unplanned and couldn't avoid because it was the first person, she missed me a lot overnight so she came to meet again, that was possible because we were staying on same hotel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so upset about total strangers judging them? Unless deep down they feel guilty.

I don’t think it’s because we feel guilty , we are so way past that ! Maybe in the first six months we may have , but not now seven years down the line . I think it’s more than we get upset because total strangers don’t know us , yet feel they can pass judgement on the way we do things . "

But they are total strangers. You both know the truth, the strangers don't. So why let it hurt you? You love what you do. Even if someone judges you in a negative way, so what? Life's too short to be sad.

I'll use my earlier comment as an example as I'm a 'stranger'. I couldn't do multiple meets because it would feel like a fuck conveyor belt. That's not my thing. But you- and the people you meet- love meeting multiple people in one session. It turns you and them on. You've found people you're compatible with and you're sharing a horny moment in time with them. I think that's cool as fuck. It really doesn't matter what I - or any other stranger thinks. You're having a fucking brilliant time so why let a stranger tarnish that brilliant feeling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two

That's almost a whole years worth

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Why do people get so upset about total strangers judging them? Unless deep down they feel guilty.

I don’t think it’s because we feel guilty , we are so way past that ! Maybe in the first six months we may have , but not now seven years down the line . I think it’s more than we get upset because total strangers don’t know us , yet feel they can pass judgement on the way we do things .

But they are total strangers. You both know the truth, the strangers don't. So why let it hurt you? You love what you do. Even if someone judges you in a negative way, so what? Life's too short to be sad.

I'll use my earlier comment as an example as I'm a 'stranger'. I couldn't do multiple meets because it would feel like a fuck conveyor belt. That's not my thing. But you- and the people you meet- love meeting multiple people in one session. It turns you and them on. You've found people you're compatible with and you're sharing a horny moment in time with them. I think that's cool as fuck. It really doesn't matter what I - or any other stranger thinks. You're having a fucking brilliant time so why let a stranger tarnish that brilliant feeling?

"

This is a very good way of looking at this subject .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I think I had 4 sex meets and 1 social pretty much every day I could.

I like sex. Lots of it.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

We’ve done it a couple of times

The first was on MrHs Birthday, he likes to watch me with other guys, the first meet ended up as a bi threesome (the guy said he was straight) but then wanted to suck MrHs cock while fucking me, MrH will never say no to a BJ, the second meet later than day was just me and the guy and MrH day in the corner enjoying himself watching

The other time we had multiple meets was when we had a gloryhole at our house, I often blew 2 or 3 guys a night there

MrsH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've had 2 in one day a few times. 1 social and 1 play

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