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BIG BLACK COCK WHATS THE DEAL??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi im single black guy from leeds and new to this site iv been on for a couple of months now and Wow whats the deal. there are so menny couples wanting black cock?? i get the woman who would like to try bbc and love it. im not sure about the hubby and why would you allways wants to watch???. if its the wifes treat of is it the hubbys fantacy???. please help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it,s a bit of both lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you're not complaining are you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many partners like to watch be in black cocks or white cocks.. they just like to watch..

To some its the last taboo.. for others.. its something perhaps they are curious about.. to others.. its just a sexy guy with a cock..

cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi im single black guy from leeds and new to this site iv been on for a couple of months now and Wow whats the deal. there are so menny couples wanting black cock?? i get the woman who would like to try bbc and love it. im not sure about the hubby and why would you allways wants to watch???. if its the wifes treat of is it the hubbys fantacy???. please help. "

Help?

You advertise yourself as "bbcdon", then you question peoples motives for wanting to meet. I just don`t understand your dilemma, perhaps just calling yourself "don" may help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi im single black guy from leeds and new to this site iv been on for a couple of months now and Wow whats the deal. there are so menny couples wanting black cock?? i get the woman who would like to try bbc and love it. im not sure about the hubby and why would you allways wants to watch???. if its the wifes treat of is it the hubbys fantacy???. please help.

Help?

You advertise yourself as "bbcdon", then you question peoples motives for wanting to meet. I just don`t understand your dilemma, perhaps just calling yourself "don" may help. "

The dilemma is he's not getting enough attention, dah! Or with that user name and this thread it's meant ironically tongue in cheek.

Nah...think I'll go with my initial thought...attention seeking!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi to the last comment and thankyou for the others. my ad can't be any more clear im a single guy 100% straight and only into one on one fun with woman only?. but still get lots of couples asking to meet???.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Hi to the last comment and thankyou for the others. my ad can't be any more clear im a single guy 100% straight and only into one on one fun with woman only?. but still get lots of couples asking to meet???. "

Go into your privacy settings and you can block couples from messaging you,not everyone reads profiles and will just contact you if they like the look of you

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Sorry I meant message filters and not privacy settings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi to the last comment and thankyou for the others. my ad can't be any more clear im a single guy 100% straight and only into one on one fun with woman only?. but still get lots of couples asking to meet???. "

Might help if you also removed the "couple" from your verifications.

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

i just love big black cock and my hub luvs watching me get it both happy with what we are doing and long may it go on keep the big black men coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi im single black guy from leeds and new to this site iv been on for a couple of months now and Wow whats the deal. there are so menny couples wanting black cock?? i get the woman who would like to try bbc and love it. im not sure about the hubby and why would you allways wants to watch???. if its the wifes treat of is it the hubbys fantacy???. please help.

Help?

You advertise yourself as "bbcdon", then you question peoples motives for wanting to meet. I just don`t understand your dilemma, perhaps just calling yourself "don" may help.

The dilemma is he's not getting enough attention, dah! Or with that user name and this thread it's meant ironically tongue in cheek.

Nah...think I'll go with my initial thought...attention seeking! "

And so what if it is! He has the right to put a thread up.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Do I or don't I add a post to this thread.. Damn! In it now I suppose...

Some ppl like yourself play it up... It doesn't sit well with me, so some of us don't!

For every action there is likely to be a reaction whether that is good or bad

So for example the ppl you are likely to attract from this post are probably the type of ppl I would shy away from

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Hi im single black guy from leeds and new to this site iv been on for a couple of months now and Wow whats the deal. there are so menny couples wanting black cock?? i get the woman who would like to try bbc and love it. im not sure about the hubby and why would you allways wants to watch???. if its the wifes treat of is it the hubbys fantacy???. please help. "

Its swinging hun...are you seriously saying that you are on this site and dont get threesomes,foursomes and moresomes

And pleabty of us dont care about the colour of the cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'm with Fabio, I'd love to meet him becuase he seems to be an intelligent and thoughtful guy where as people that think their cock is their main selling point always stike me as shallow and arrogant to a point that I'd question how good a shag they would actually be. If you chose to define yourself in a certain way then you have to expect that you will get certain responses.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

[Removed by poster at 05/11/11 13:45:46]

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

I just wish I had one (big i mean, don't care what colour)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

amke a fabflirts account..and meet swingers pretending to be single and that theyre after 1on1's lol

honestly dunno why some people put in their interest 'adult parties' when they they know this means meeting a range of people...and normally when it comes to the swing world...adult parties mean swinging adult parties....often these are filled with men women cpls

as to the aversion of other men watching a black cock go in...I couldnt give a toss really, I'm watching the pleasure the woman recieves as that turns me on and of course I'd be participating as much as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"amke a fabflirts account..and meet swingers pretending to be single and that theyre after 1on1's lol

honestly dunno why some people put in their interest 'adult parties' when they they know this means meeting a range of people...and normally when it comes to the swing world...adult parties mean swinging adult parties....often these are filled with men women cpls

as to the aversion of other men watching a black cock go in...I couldnt give a toss really, I'm watching the pleasure the woman recieves as that turns me on and of course I'd be participating as much as possible"

*make

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By *anther10158Couple
over a year ago

Burgess hill

BBc`s reach the parts i can`t

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

This thread made me laugh- just imagined a black cock with a skinny pair of legs and arms dashing about - ! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread made me laugh- just imagined a black cock with a skinny pair of legs and arms dashing about - ! Z"

described me to a tee!!!!!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"This thread made me laugh- just imagined a black cock with a skinny pair of legs and arms dashing about - ! Z

described me to a tee!!!!!!"

lol - surely there's more to the OP than just his appendage! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread made me laugh- just imagined a black cock with a skinny pair of legs and arms dashing about - ! Z

described me to a tee!!!!!!

lol - surely there's more to the OP than just his appendage! Z"

anyway Zoe enuff about the OP he doesnt want ya bent over in a spitroast like I do with steve....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some say When you had black theres no going back , And i have seen some lovely ones as chams .. and had some offers just need to go for it one friday night , lol xx and i will know if thats right or not , x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once upon a time the BBC used to be good, but ever since blankety blank it's not been the same...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi im single black guy from leeds and new to this site iv been on for a couple of months now and Wow whats the deal. there are so menny couples wanting black cock?? i get the woman who would like to try bbc and love it. im not sure about the hubby and why would you allways wants to watch???. if its the wifes treat of is it the hubbys fantacy???. please help.

Help?

You advertise yourself as "bbcdon", then you question peoples motives for wanting to meet. I just don`t understand your dilemma, perhaps just calling yourself "don" may help.

The dilemma is he's not getting enough attention, dah! Or with that user name and this thread it's meant ironically tongue in cheek.

Y

Nah...think I'll go with my initial thought...attention seeking!

And so what if it is! He has the right to put a thread up."

Where did I say he didn't have a right to put a thread up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are only single women real?

You say You want to meet REAL women so no couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big BLACK cock

Big WHITE cock

Essentially both the same, however there is still a strong fantasy basis around big black cocks probably originating from centuries ago when black workers, or slaves as they would have been called, were forbidden for sexual encounter, and we all know forbidden treasures enhance the temptation and will equally enhance the modern fantasy!

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Black, white, green, yellow. All the same to us, as long as the cock does what it says on the tin ie gives pleasure to the female half of us, then its doing its job.

More inportant to us is that we both gel personality wise, and so far no single guy has let us down. Unlike several couples!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are only single women real?

You say You want to meet REAL women so no couples? "

lol one on one meets...think thats basically the not liking of men being present during shagging...each to their own i guess...

some women cant stand another woman present so its fair enuff for guys

but I just love group fun...yet to find a 12 woman paddy-bang tho...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was a mid life crisis approching 40... turned to the dark side and I've never looked back... and it's a preference not an essential, but it IS a preference lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it was a mid life crisis approching 40... turned to the dark side and I've never looked back... and it's a preference not an essential, but it IS a preference lol! "

Princess lea, fancy sucking my lightsaber...och damn...tried to black it out but the paint just wont bond to the laserbeam!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont know what the big deal is on black cock, i have done mmf and one to ones in the past and if honest not that great! what i do find is they wear white socks on when fucking! WTF is that about!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Hi to the last comment and thankyou for the others. my ad can't be any more clear im a single guy 100% straight and only into one on one fun with woman only?. but still get lots of couples asking to meet???. "

On a swinging site... fuck me whatever next. The world has gone mad I tell ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i dont know what the big deal is on black cock, i have done mmf and one to ones in the past and if honest not that great! what i do find is they wear white socks on when fucking! WTF is that about!"

I'd rather u didnt generalise what people wear regarding their colour...theres collective terms I know...but urs doesnt sound that great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i dont know what the big deal is on black cock, i have done mmf and one to ones in the past and if honest not that great! what i do find is they wear white socks on when fucking! WTF is that about!

I'd rather u didnt generalise what people wear regarding their colour...theres collective terms I know...but urs doesnt sound that great"

I tend to wear black socks when I'm on the job, have you a problem with that or are you making something out of nothing?

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford


"For me it was a mid life crisis approching 40... turned to the dark side and I've never looked back... and it's a preference not an essential, but it IS a preference lol! "

same here hit 40 and nabbed my salsa teacher and had my own freworks display

have had some fantastic men of all races as well and some serious let downs from all races live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i dont know what the big deal is on black cock, i have done mmf and one to ones in the past and if honest not that great! what i do find is they wear white socks on when fucking! WTF is that about!

I'd rather u didnt generalise what people wear regarding their colour...theres collective terms I know...but urs doesnt sound that great

I tend to wear black socks when I'm on the job, have you a problem with that or are you making something out of nothing? "

lol wearing any socks is a mistake!!!!- unless its nylons...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BOGOF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine doesnt sound that great......you lost me? !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i dont know what the big deal is on black cock, i have done mmf and one to ones in the past and if honest not that great! what i do find is they wear white socks on when fucking! WTF is that about!

I'd rather u didnt generalise what people wear regarding their colour...theres collective terms I know...but urs doesnt sound that great

I tend to wear black socks when I'm on the job, have you a problem with that or are you making something out of nothing?

lol wearing any socks is a mistake!!!!- unless its nylons..."

lol. tried that but can't keep them up..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We attend Blackmans Fan Club parties. The guys who go are good looking, well dressed, sexy guys and lots of them seem to find me, a blonde, big boobed, older, curvy, big tummied and ass lady, attractive, so I seem to be quite popular there. So I go cause it feeds my ego I guess and it makes an old lady happy.

My OH enjoys watching guys come onto me, he likes to watch me work the room, strutting around in my finery, flirting and chatting with guys, acting provocatively and losing the coyness. I am different to my everyday persona whereby I am sensible and studious. He enjoys the transformation.

He doesn't just get off on the watching guys play with me, he is an active participant. he likes to visually see two guys play with me, one white and one black. It just appeals to him visually, so its a treat for the two of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trapped mine in my trouser zip once and it swelled up and went somewhat much darker in colour for a couple of days lol maybe I should have advertised my self as big black cock in genuine need of TLC haha

Tho on a serious note I dont understand the original post is he complaining that he is attracting the wrong kind of attention or what? I have seen loads of cpls profiles on here advertiseing for BBC so if he has a big cock and hes a black guy advertiseing him self as such then surley he cant be complaining that hes getting too much attention? lol the lucky sod some of us have to really work at sending msgs and hope they just dont go unread and deleted with the tons of others sent to that profile on that day

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

I'm attracted to dark skinned guys, so do find black guys turn me on. My partner likes to see me get turned on.. so, guessing that's why some men like to watch their wife with BBC.. Simples..

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hi im single black guy from leeds and new to this site iv been on for a couple of months now and Wow whats the deal. there are so menny couples wanting black cock?? i get the woman who would like to try bbc and love it. im not sure about the hubby and why would you allways wants to watch???. if its the wifes treat of is it the hubbys fantacy???. please help. "

You can't have bbc in your profile name and feign ignorance on the subject matter, so I suspect the OP is just flying a kite to see if he can out those who have a thing for black guys.

Personally I don't care too much for the term BBC because it promotes the false premise that all black guys have cocks the length and girth of a scaffolding pole. And it makes some black guys think that all they need to have going for them is the size and colour of their dicks.

That said, fantasies and kinks are numerous in the swinging scene, and there are swingers who have a preference for black guys. Just as there are swingers who have a preference for only white guys, and there are some who don't care either way.

That's just the way it is, and trying to understand what informs people's preferences is an exercise that will take you forever to work out.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

So many things on this thread......"dont care heat colour it is...black white....GREEN??? " think if i seen a green cock id run in the other direction and i ain't built for running.....also white women and black men....me personally love the contrast of the 2 skincolours.... Milky white skin and deep chocolate.....mmmm and bmfc is coming to th and i wanna go! Never been to a club in me life but gagging too....just a bit shy and dont wanna get me wobbly bits out haha x

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

*what not heat

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi im single black guy from leeds and new to this site iv been on for a couple of months now and Wow whats the deal. there are so menny couples wanting black cock?? i get the woman who would like to try bbc and love it. im not sure about the hubby and why would you allways wants to watch???. if its the wifes treat of is it the hubbys fantacy???. please help.

You can't have bbc in your profile name and feign ignorance on the subject matter, so I suspect the OP is just flying a kite to see if he can out those who have a thing for black guys.

Personally I don't care too much for the term BBC because it promotes the false premise that all black guys have cocks the length and girth of a scaffolding pole. And it makes some black guys think that all they need to have going for them is the size and colour of their dicks.

That said, fantasies and kinks are numerous in the swinging scene, and there are swingers who have a preference for black guys. Just as there are swingers who have a preference for only white guys, and there are some who don't care either way.

That's just the way it is, and trying to understand what informs people's preferences is an exercise that will take you forever to work out."

the problems them arise when people then want it both ways.... play it up all they want when it suits them, but then play "the race card" when it doesn't

not saying the OP is doing that at all before anyone asks...

it comes down in the end as someone else said above to how people "define" themselves.... in the grand scheme of things if BBC is the one thing that defines them in life or in swinging... go for it... I personally like to think of myself as more than just one aspect...but that is just me

but for every action there is a reaction... if that reaction is a negative one, you have no one to blame but yourself....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That old chest nut !I've seen this topic before am going to Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wanted to say thanks for that comment nice to know there are other black men not using that as a main selling point.

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By *iddytoxcplCouple
over a year ago

Stoke/Uttoxeter


" Never been to a club in me life but gagging too....just a bit shy and dont wanna get me wobbly bits out haha x"

Go enjoy yourself. Trust us both on this one, your "wobbly bits" will be highly attractive to plenty of people there.

J was shy when she first started the club scene with a "body image" problem, now her own perception of her body image has improved tenfold. She says go for it, you won't regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black cock scares me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Black cock scares me lol "
yes me aswell too big lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Black cock scares me lol "

is it my evil middle eye?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Black cock scares me lol yes me aswell too big lol "

mine is tiny...and friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha not just me then! I am not a fan of VVWE, anything above 8 will have my eyes watering lol

It's not a Black guy thing, its a huge cock thing and the two usually come hand in hand from what I have seen haha.......although, it could be fun trying

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By *ockchicWoman
over a year ago

Uttoxeter/Stoke-on-Trent


"Hi im single black guy from leeds and new to this site iv been on for a couple of months now and Wow whats the deal. there are so menny couples wanting black cock?? i get the woman who would like to try bbc and love it. im not sure about the hubby and why would you allways wants to watch???. if its the wifes treat of is it the hubbys fantacy???. please help. "

Okay - on reading this, I get the impression that the OP is genuinely perplexed about the interest from couples. Having read some (not all) of the thread, I see people taking the post as a 'complaint' or 'self-promotion' - I don't see it like that.

I believe that not all guys actually understand the concept of a guy wanting to watch his lady being pleasured by another - fair enough, and indeed - not all guys DO like it.

To the OP - as part of a couple myself, my man loves to see me being pleasured - by himself, another, or multiple men - he gets great pleasure from seeing me enjoy myself. This can be a black, white or Asian cock - the colour/race is immaterial - the size is also of no import to either of us. The "big black cock" thing does, however, seem to be, and as far as I can make out, has for a long time been a big fantasy for many women. I think it comes from the early (mistaken!) concept that all black men have huge cocks. Now although we know this not to be true, I think it still has a kind of 'fantasy' attraction.

What I will say to the OP is - men wanting to watch is more likely to be about him enjoying his lady's pleasure than wanting to see your cock. Enjoy your popularity and get out there and enjoy the lifestyle, because as others have stated, a lot of single guys struggle to get any response. If you cannot bring yourself to be comfortable in the presence of another guy, then be sure to put this clearly in your profile. But do give it a go (you haven't actually stated whether or not you have)you may find a new facet to enjoy.

Either way - have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was called a big cock on here the other day after I said thanx but no thanks to an unwanted msg lol that makes me think do they make full man sized human condoms as I would love to see the inside and working parts of the femal loooooooov tunnel and see were they gush from x

On a serious note tho hmmmm me thinks it would be nice to be popoular and in demand. If I had a big black cock I would deffo use it to my advantage and be meeting all the time on here so good luck to this chap who posted this I hope he has some great fun on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi to the last comment and thankyou for the others. my ad can't be any more clear im a single guy 100% straight and only into one on one fun with woman only?. but still get lots of couples asking to meet???.

Might help if you also removed the "couple" from your verifications. "

hahahahahahahaha quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had black guys an ifi do or don't it don't bother me it's the person that is the fun bit not their colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi im single black guy from leeds and new to this site iv been on for a couple of months now and Wow whats the deal. there are so menny couples wanting black cock?? i get the woman who would like to try bbc and love it. im not sure about the hubby and why would you allways wants to watch???. if its the wifes treat of is it the hubbys fantacy???. please help. "

who cares

you sound like you dont want all these offers

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

... why am I still awake???

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

The Black Guys fantasising about using the the white mans woman

the white guys fantasising about using the black guy to service his white woman

The white woman is fantasising about a new pair of shoes and getting all the cock she needs all ends up .lol

Bingo everyones using each other and they are all happy , well shes happiest lol

as micheal jackson once said "it dosent matter if youre black or white"

all that matters is whether you are a good or a bad person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got a thing for black women

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

For us it does not matter if it is Black or White. MrH is a Voyuer so likes to watch. he does like watching me with black as he admits the contrast of colour is very visual.

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs


"i got a thing for black women "

That thing youve got for black woman, is it a pair of ghd straightners lol x

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

Its Rick here , coming from Tottenham i know plenty of black guys in fact many on here and chams will know me personally and of my godfather who is from Trinidad and one of the original West Indian guys to come here on the assisted passage scheme . I grew up in 60sn 70s London side by side . Couldnt tell you the size of their cock but can tell you they are great blokes and have my respect as men ,, end of. Spose the difference is we grew up understanding each other so im well aware of the "White on Black" thing. to answer the op from a "white man whos part of the family" perspective. its a 2 way street, id say its mainly a white husband whos the main instigator (wont go into the reasons here" but black guys like it too again "for their reasons" that i wont go into. What i would say is that if more "white couples and BBWs" took the time to actually TALK to a black guy youd find (in most cases) a genuine, articulate decent guy who quite frankly hates being seem as a "cock on legs" and who actually hates being reffred to as a BBC. I mean when you see some of these profile on here emblazoned " Black only, BBC wanted" i have to laugh if you said that to my mates in london theyed look at you like you were mental, Its more the younger black guys and those living in provincial cities and towns that seem more prone to "play to the gallery"

All id say guys is this, i saw at first hand the shit my godfather and his co immigrants went through to establish themselves and their families as respected and established people . he married a white blonde woman for love and had 4 children, Ive sat in his house while shit was thrown at the windows, he didnt go through that to be known as a big black cock. he went through it to be called a british citizen and im proud to call him my mentor. if he caught some of the guys calling themselves a BBC theyd get more than a clip round the ear.

A big man, a big influence. a pioneer who came to seek a better life and was let down but never , ever bowed or beaten, peaceful and thoughtful but not weak a man who stood tall. a man id never dream of calling a BBC .

So as a previous poster (black im glad to say) said dont be playing the race card, I dont beleive you dont understand why it happens, But the more u play up to the "stereotype BBC" the more my godfathers struggle was in vain and the more twats like john terry think its ok to do and say what they do.

Good night America lol

Come on son youre better than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not what its cracked upto be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been in the scene a while, previously as part of a couple, I can comment from previous experience...

I enjoyed my partner being with a black guy, in the same way she enjoyed me being with a black woman. The contrast of skin colour is strangely erotic, visual stimulation is a powerful thing!

Again having been in many situations (as a couple) involving men of different creed/colour I can summise the following...

White, black, asain, half caste, etc - or however you want to categorise people of different racial backgrounds ... Skin colour does NOT determine cock size.

I have often heard the following...

Black = Large

White = Average

Asian = Small

Strangely I have met white, black, asian or whatever who fall into all those "Sizes"

Oh and to finish, an old school friend of mine, a black guy, likes to clear up this whole BBC thing with the following statement.

"A white man will show his cock to anyone who is remotely interested, regardless of how big or small it is! Black men with big cocks love to show them off if people want to see them, however black guys who don't fall into the stereotypical BBC myth don't get their cocks out... which is why I don't, because believe it or not as a black guy my cock isn't like a baby's arm holding a fucking apple"

Yes his view maybe blunt, but I think it pretty much explains alot...in my opinion anyway.

Right well, no doubt this topic will arise another 100+ times in the next 12months,in the same way that many single men start threads about never having met anyone on here after just being a member for a week!

Moving on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

use privacy settings to block couples contacting you if its a problem

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"not what its cracked upto be"

not surprised that came from someone who put this once in the forum:

"personally we wouldnt consider anybody whos been with a black guy or girl,nothing racial just our thoughts on it.each to their own"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not what its cracked upto be

not surprised that came from someone who put this once in the forum:

"personally we wouldnt consider anybody whos been with a black guy or girl,nothing racial just our thoughts on it.each to their own""

Oooh...was that them?!! What a fun night on the forums that was!

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By *itianmandyWoman
over a year ago

london


"Do I or don't I add a post to this thread.. Damn! In it now I suppose...

Some ppl like yourself play it up... It doesn't sit well with me, so some of us don't!

For every action there is likely to be a reaction whether that is good or bad

So for example the ppl you are likely to attract from this post are probably the type of ppl I would shy away from"

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Good point _abio. I once remember chatting to a black male friend here. He's young, very bright, attractive and urbane.

He was recounting how often if he's approached in clubs by the male of a couple, the main thrust (pardon the expression) of the interest was his skin colour rather than his other more significant qualities.

He was of the view that far from being flattering it was actually a turn off. He recounted how one hubby said he didn't feel threatened when his wife played with black men, because he knew she would never run off with one!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"because he knew she would never run off with one! "

As far as he knew anyway.

I just like darker men, full stop. Doesn't stop me from meeting white people at all, but when I see a black or asian guy in a club I can't help but look at them because they are so darned attractive. If they have something nice in their pants then more fun for me!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"not what its cracked upto be

not surprised that came from someone who put this once in the forum:

"personally we wouldnt consider anybody whos been with a black guy or girl,nothing racial just our thoughts on it.each to their own"

Oooh...was that them?!! What a fun night on the forums that was! "

i thought it was and the little green arrow helped...

funny enough they never come back after that....

actually have to say the response to that "comment" was one of the nights on here I was proud of how people reacted to it.....

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford


"not what its cracked upto be

not surprised that came from someone who put this once in the forum:

"personally we wouldnt consider anybody whos been with a black guy or girl,nothing racial just our thoughts on it.each to their own"

Oooh...was that them?!! What a fun night on the forums that was!

i thought it was and the little green arrow helped...

funny enough they never come back after that....

actually have to say the response to that "comment" was one of the nights on here I was proud of how people reacted to it....."

Me too! Surprised they're not still in hiding. lol

Sadly though we're all someone's stereotype, and some play up to it, which just perpetuates the myth.

The problem I have is this. I don't have a problem with people preferring black guys, just as there are those who aren't interested in black guys. But I do have a problem with the BBC notion, you're a black guy therefore you have a huge cock. Really? That's offensive because, unless I'm naked in front of you, that's fantasy and ignores me as a person.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I don't see it as a taboo thing at all.

I have a simple motto: if you can't join in - take photos. If you can't take photos - watch!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"not what its cracked upto be

not surprised that came from someone who put this once in the forum:

"personally we wouldnt consider anybody whos been with a black guy or girl,nothing racial just our thoughts on it.each to their own""

bit of a give away

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By *o DaddyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

so no freedom of choice then?,nor allowed an opinion either?.

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By *littylikka69Man
over a year ago

West Midlands


"But the more u play up to the "stereotype BBC" the more my godfathers struggle was in vain and the more twats like john terry think its ok to do and say what they do.

Good night America lol

Come on son youre better than that."

i should not believe too much my friend in what that soft pratt anton ferdinand claims john terry to have said during a recent qpr v chelsea game,ferdinand is just upset that hie daft brother rio is no longer up to england standard whilt terry is a current player!,can you just imagine the winding up by soft lad anton ferdinand in trying to distract terry from his game?.

nah!,it's far to easy for ferdinand to try to play the infamous "race card" it works everytime!.

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs


"But the more u play up to the "stereotype BBC" the more my godfathers struggle was in vain and the more twats like john terry think its ok to do and say what they do.

Good night America lol

Come on son youre better than that.

i should not believe too much my friend in what that soft pratt anton ferdinand claims john terry to have said during a recent qpr v chelsea game,ferdinand is just upset that hie daft brother rio is no longer up to england standard whilt terry is a current player!,can you just imagine the winding up by soft lad anton ferdinand in trying to distract terry from his game?.

nah!,it's far to easy for ferdinand to try to play the infamous "race card" it works everytime!."

i dont think Terry is a racist at all , but he is a nasty bastard (yes ive met the twat" If you had seen it then youll know he did call him a "Black cunt" not once but twice. " isssues there

1. i think calling someone a cunt is worse than anything else and thats being lost on everyone.

2. in the context it wasused rterry used the word "Black" as an Adjective. All the black guys i know are proud to be called black if its for the right resons. Terry used it asa derogotary personal insult, this fron the "saint" who fucked his best mates missus when he was his eam captain, took bribes to of , blubbeed to abramovich behind jose mourihnios back whe he threatened to drop him thus robbing chelsea of possibly the greatest european football manager of our time and a few other things that for legal reasons i cant mention here .

If anton ferdinand felt racially offended he had every right to complain and if the cpa prosecute the theres your answer.

anyway coming from worceter im surprised you know anything about footbal let alone london football, i worked in gloucester for 4 years and all the men there were into rugby, beer drinking and sheep lol

is that racist ooh lol

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By *isterTeaseMan
over a year ago

Chigwell


"But the more u play up to the "stereotype BBC" the more my godfathers struggle was in vain and the more twats like john terry think its ok to do and say what they do.

Good night America lol

Come on son youre better than that.

i should not believe too much my friend in what that soft pratt anton ferdinand claims john terry to have said during a recent qpr v chelsea game,ferdinand is just upset that hie daft brother rio is no longer up to england standard whilt terry is a current player!,can you just imagine the winding up by soft lad anton ferdinand in trying to distract terry from his game?.

nah!,it's far to easy for ferdinand to try to play the infamous "race card" it works everytime!.

i dont think Terry is a racist at all , but he is a nasty bastard (yes ive met the twat" If you had seen it then youll know he did call him a "Black cunt" not once but twice. " isssues there

1. i think calling someone a cunt is worse than anything else and thats being lost on everyone.

2. in the context it wasused rterry used the word "Black" as an Adjective. All the black guys i know are proud to be called black if its for the right resons. Terry used it asa derogotary personal insult, this fron the "saint" who fucked his best mates missus when he was his eam captain, took bribes to of , blubbeed to abramovich behind jose mourihnios back whe he threatened to drop him thus robbing chelsea of possibly the greatest european football manager of our time and a few other things that for legal reasons i cant mention here .

If anton ferdinand felt racially offended he had every right to complain and if the cpa prosecute the theres your answer.

anyway coming from worceter im surprised you know anything about footbal let alone london football, i worked in gloucester for 4 years and all the men there were into rugby, beer drinking and sheep lol

is that racist ooh lol "

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