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Help for a Single Female! A Nice One too! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im a single female, obviously lol, ive had two meets with really nice guys, just drinks and chat, two meet ups with the same guy in fact but then thats it!! They talk of getting together etc but in my opinion they just want to text the life out of me which I find utterly boring, any tips please as whilst I cant meet and have fun straight away I do want some fun! Just seem to be meeting guys that want to text text text after the initial meet up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vol wrote a great guide for single females and posted it in the site help forum... maybe help

good luck xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a single female, obviously lol, ive had two meets with really nice guys, just drinks and chat, two meet ups with the same guy in fact but then thats it!! They talk of getting together etc but in my opinion they just want to text the life out of me which I find utterly boring, any tips please as whilst I cant meet and have fun straight away I do want some fun! Just seem to be meeting guys that want to text text text after the initial meet up x"

How awful for you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

where would I find that VIEW? x

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Without wanting to sound sarcastic - don't give out your mob number.

Arrange meets, even social ones through the site.

That way you only have to reply to messages when you want to, and your phone isnt going off all the time.

I know it might be a bit harder to arrange stuff without a number - i would suggest maybe getting a phone and sim just for people on here, that way one life doesnt interfere with the other.

Just my 2p worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go into forums and all the forums are listed on the left ,, go to 'site help' and it's in there xxx

by voluptuous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No didnt sound sarcastic at all, great advice actually, I think you could well be right to arrange things through here, then and only if we take things further exchange numbers. I do think though that some guys on here are just after friendship and it amazes me why they are on a swinging site! thanks x

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You'd be surprised!

A lot of guys will come on here initially to try and get a shag, but then they'll go all kinda soppy and want you to be their g/f etc.

Nothing wrong with that, but watch out for the ones who want to be possesive rather than the ones who might actually really like you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive read the excellent post by Voluptous and got lots of tips, thanks for suggesting it!

You know, I really didnt think it would be so hard finding someone who I could get on with and have some nice sexy fun lol, maybe I just have to chill a bit more and be patient lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd be surprised!

A lot of guys will come on here initially to try and get a shag, but then they'll go all kinda soppy and want you to be their g/f etc.

Nothing wrong with that, but watch out for the ones who want to be possesive rather than the ones who might actually really like you."

great advice dude

and also the ones who want to become swing partners and this opens the door for THEM to new meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U men are making alot of sense today...wots going on

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"You'd be surprised!

A lot of guys will come on here initially to try and get a shag, but then they'll go all kinda soppy and want you to be their g/f etc.

Nothing wrong with that, but watch out for the ones who want to be possesive rather than the ones who might actually really like you.

great advice dude

and also the ones who want to become swing partners and this opens the door for THEM to new meets xx"

Bingo!

All human life is here.

And most people are kind of being who they want to be/would like to be to some extent.

But a bit of nous, and thinking about who your going to meet and why when you're NOT horny will provide a lot of protection.

As i said to someone the other week, when this site works, it works brilliantly. But you have to sort the wheat from the chaff (and everyone has their own definitions/tastes etc)

I think the best question anyone can ask themselves on here is "why"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow im in awe

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Wow im in awe "

I've never heard of Awe, is it a suburb of Leeds?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow im in awe

I've never heard of Awe, is it a suburb of Leeds?!

"

Im not worthy oops ur there ...yeah ahem ill ave 2 show u sometime

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Wow im in awe

I've never heard of Awe, is it a suburb of Leeds?!

Im not worthy oops ur there ...yeah ahem ill ave 2 show u sometime "

TYPICAL single girl, two posts on a forum and she wants to meet!

WHEN will women stop hassling me for sex???!!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow im in awe

I've never heard of Awe, is it a suburb of Leeds?!

Im not worthy oops ur there ...yeah ahem ill ave 2 show u sometime

TYPICAL single girl, two posts on a forum and she wants to meet!

WHEN will women stop hassling me for sex???!!

x"

NOW

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Wow im in awe

I've never heard of Awe, is it a suburb of Leeds?!

Im not worthy oops ur there ...yeah ahem ill ave 2 show u sometime

TYPICAL single girl, two posts on a forum and she wants to meet!

WHEN will women stop hassling me for sex???!!

x

NOW "

Bugger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow im in awe

I've never heard of Awe, is it a suburb of Leeds?!

Im not worthy oops ur there ...yeah ahem ill ave 2 show u sometime

TYPICAL single girl, two posts on a forum and she wants to meet!

WHEN will women stop hassling me for sex???!!

x

NOW

Bugger! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have kept in contact with some of my playmates but apart from emails I dont send endless texts, unless we're sorting out another meet and then its just confiming details.

I'll have to nip back over Fallen and ignore you afterwards lol.

Chesters still there up from Wearmouth Hall?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure its the same thing but as a couple were often in touch with our friends/playmates.. we don't see them as any different to normal friends if honest.. hardly constant though but regular.

Love it when those we play with text us too... makes it all less clinical in a way....

Can see why you'd be bothered though, each to eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't you think your being a bit strict on your age range. Your 36, and you say pretty clearly, absolutely no one older than yourself. You could have a dozen guys near you, who are exactly what your after, but you won't entertain the idea because of a couple of months. Your choice, but your cutting out a lot of potentials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't you think your being a bit strict on your age range. Your 36, and you say pretty clearly, absolutely no one older than yourself. You could have a dozen guys near you, who are exactly what your after, but you won't entertain the idea because of a couple of months. Your choice, but your cutting out a lot of potentials. "

Go on M8, you get her to raise it to 38 and hightail it up there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no often i stick up for single guys but... if they annoyin u why not say it!! they either take the hint or the huff!! it can be hard to find the ideal of what you looking for but hey its the same with everythin! most iv met it bee a quick hiya and a when we gonna get it on lets swap lol good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow im in awe

I've never heard of Awe, is it a suburb of Leeds?!

Im not worthy oops ur there ...yeah ahem ill ave 2 show u sometime

TYPICAL single girl, two posts on a forum and she wants to meet!

WHEN will women stop hassling me for sex???!!

Wednesday - Washday ....no socks appeal

x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a single female, obviously lol, ive had two meets with really nice guys, just drinks and chat, two meet ups with the same guy in fact but then thats it!! They talk of getting together etc but in my opinion they just want to text the life out of me which I find utterly boring, any tips please as whilst I cant meet and have fun straight away I do want some fun! Just seem to be meeting guys that want to text text text after the initial meet up x"

Your profile says your bi-curious,so why not edge your bets and look for couples instead of just men?

Chances are you'd have better success down that road.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks TraceandRic but a bit nervous about meeting a couple, for now anyway! x

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