FabSwingers.com forum: Not interested!

By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

When is it the right time to say one is not interested?

Is it during the first couple of minutes or is it after 200 and then you say something like, " I don't meet white people"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never said I don't like white people, but if I didn't I wouldn't enter into a conversation in the first place.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

If someone does not light your candle from the off than its only polite to not string them along. Mind you they could turn out your best mate regardless of not getting naked with them.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I send a "Nice but not for me" message very early on.

Saves messing around.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

if they dont float your boat a "thanks but no thanks" is much easier for all concerned.. I know I would rather know where I stand than being strung along and then dropped..

Honesty is always the best policy

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Why would you waste time talking to someone you're not interested in

Be kind , tell them and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if they dont float your boat a "thanks but no thanks" is much easier for all concerned.. I know I would rather know where I stand than being strung along and then dropped..

Honesty is always the best policy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You likes what ya likes. If you don't then it's okay to say it isn't gonna happen. Nicely though

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Why are you asking this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to say straight away.

Those that wont show face pics are hard as there has to be mutual attraction first, we aren't shallow just wouldn't normally cross paths in bed if we dont fancy them.

Or its like my dad used to say "you dont look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire" lol

Im sure a lot of guys do it anyway

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It is ok to say no to meeting somebody at the moment you decide that you don't fancy/like them. That could be early on in the email exchange or long down the line when you pick up on a trait you don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is it the right time to say one is not interested?

Is it during the first couple of minutes or is it after 200 and then you say something like, " I don't meet white people"?"

If you don't meet white people and they're white people, why wouldn't you just say that from the off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is usually say within the first few messages or sometimes I just don't rely saves the hassle of being abused.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

We have profiles for a reason.

Chatting does not equal meeting.

Some of us occasionally make exceptions.

Some do not.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Put it on your profile if you don't already,then they won't bother you.

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