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“We don’t send pictures”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do other couples on here deal with this?

Understandably some people are quite shy, or just nervous of being ‘outed’ due to jobs or family.

However we just look at it as common sense to know the face of who you’re going to be meeting first? Surely it’s not just us thinking this right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could mean single bloke pretending to be a couple

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

No it’s perfectly reasonable - it’s fine having them in private for family/work reasons, but refusing to share at all will put many off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing pics first. More to do with mutual openness than looks etc, but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"could mean single bloke pretending to be a couple

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The couple had a lot of single men verifications, I guess a lot of guys just don’t care ???????

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We're always suspicious of profiles with no pictures, if anyone refused to show us what they looked like, we would definitely pass them by.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Everyone is free to run their profile any way they choose but I wouldn’t really talk to someone if I didn’t know what they looked like and I definitely wouldn’t meet them

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Ya right men dont care, my GF is on here with no photos and the guys are so keen and dont even known or care how ugly she is, she's not ugly actually

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By *eahorsesCouple
over a year ago

North DeVon

We don't have photo's on here due to th work we do and also this site is not secure, how often do you see that others have had there photos taken by others.

Happy to send by other means but then only clothed one's.

Yes it means some people pass us by but that's there loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a site supporter you can send face pic and the auto delete it if shyness or privacy is the issue . Would anyone meet without seeing a face pic ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don't have photo's on here due to th work we do and also this site is not secure, how often do you see that others have had there photos taken by others.

Happy to send by other means but then only clothed one's.

Yes it means some people pass us by but that's there loss "

Yeah that’s understandable, we even offered and said snapchat or something similar if you’re that concerned of privacy. No response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It doesn't work for me so I would simply move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn’t want our work to find were here, but we find being open on the swing scene generates loyalty - we certainly don’t seem to get messed about they way some do on Fab. So sharing face pics is a calculated risk. But we also like to fish in a big fish pond. After all we’re here to have a good time, so don’t see the value in reducing our options.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have photo's on here due to th work we do and also this site is not secure, how often do you see that others have had there photos taken by others.

Happy to send by other means but then only clothed one's.

Yes it means some people pass us by but that's there loss

Yeah that’s understandable, we even offered and said snapchat or something similar if you’re that concerned of privacy. No response "

sounds a bit suspect, i'd move on .

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"As a site supporter you can send face pic and the auto delete it if shyness or privacy is the issue . Would anyone meet without seeing a face pic ?"

Doesn’t stop anyone screenshotting it!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I won’t send a face pic on here as you have no idea who you’re talking to.

There are plenty of other platforms to share photos on.

If they don’t want to do that either, then chances are they aren’t who they say they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont send face pics out ..it's never held us back in the twenty odd years of swinging..yes there as to be an attraction,as long as nobody looks like Quasimodo we are fine. we are not ugly or super good looking too.. but now it's mostly her that's having the fun we never really get asked for them anyway ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a site supporter you can send face pic and the auto delete it if shyness or privacy is the issue . Would anyone meet without seeing a face pic ?

Doesn’t stop anyone screenshotting it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get a swift good bye from me. I won't even chat if I haven't seen a face pic

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

No pic no meet. Simple enough for us. We both have jobs that are with the general public but we aren't ashamed of what we do. Personally speaking all this nonsense about being discreet because of jobs so can't have any pics anywhere is a load of bollocks. If you send a pic by any other means it can be screenshot so what's the difference to sending them on here?

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

No face pic no meet simples i say. No reason you should not be able to send privately especially as you can now have them deleted once message open n read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only send my face photo to people I have been chatting for a little bit on here and get on well with, when we're looking to set up a meet. Yes, I do take into account that they may not like what they see, but that is a risk I am prepared to take. I would not risk my face being plastered all over the internet and everyone knowing how I look like. That's also the reason I keep my face off my naughty pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to see a face picture now before meeting, I have met without one but don't anymore. I prefer to send my own face pic before a meet too.

I would not meet without seeing a face pic first but am happy to meet without seeing cock picture xxx

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I skip by people who won't send a face pic . I had a mm couple message me Friday and when I requested fave pics they sent action pics of them getting sucked

If they're hiding their face I assume there's a reason - fugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't exchange face pics how do you know who to look for when meeting ... especially if it's a social meet in a public place?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no face pic no meet the way that I look at is if I can put my face on fab then so can others

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We wouldn’t meet anybody that wasn’t willing to share pics.

We’re careful because we know some guys that work for us are on here, but if you’re talking to somebody and all seems genuine feel it would be strange not to exchange pictures. You’re going to see us soon enough anyway!

So in principle agree with a lack of public pictures, but if you are potentially looking at letting somebody share your bed, seems only natural that they know what you look like first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a minger. So I encourage blindfolds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just a minger. So I encourage blindfolds "

blindfolds are good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont send face pics. We rarely send body pics. Only had one guy not want to messege after we explained that. We meet socially to see if we all like each other and have never had anyone not want to meet to play after seeing us. Some guys we have play meets with are guys we have met while at a club so obviously they already know what we look like.

It works well for us

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