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Oral sex.... Which do you prefer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you a giver or receiver or do you like them both equally?

I love giving and receiving to and from both sexes..... I do however love it when I use a vibrator on my clit as my Hubby gives me oral and licks out my .... hu hum....you know pussy hole hehehe...........guaranteed multiple orgasms for me and a wetted up mouth and beard for the Hubby.... everyone’s happy

Ladies if you haven’t tried, do, you’ll not regret it I promise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer receiving oral and have my ass rimmed ... I love giving a rim job too

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

Love it both ways, cream pies as well im just a dirty fucker though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer receiving oral and have my ass rimmed ... I love giving a rim job too "

Ah yes!!! The slip of the tongue .... I very rarely give a rim job but love to receive it from my Hubby..... maybe I should plan on returning the favour to him tonight? I don’t think he’ll mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ( Mrs) love giving oral- mixed with hands playing. Sensory overload. Love waking Mr P up with a blowie.

However- I am very shy at receiving and find it hard to relax. I worry as to what I smell like- which is nuts as I’ve only ever loved the smell of a woman or man down there .... and I promise you , I’m clean....

I’m getting better as my hubbie is good at it- think in previous partners I got bored as some earlier experiences felt - well pants ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer receiving oral and have my ass rimmed ... I love giving a rim job too

Ah yes!!! The slip of the tongue .... I very rarely give a rim job but love to receive it from my Hubby..... maybe I should plan on returning the favour to him tonight? I don’t think he’ll mind "
oh he won't mind I'm sure lol.. rimming is my fav x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to give gets me very horny indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a giver, i get more out of giving than receiving.

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By *endrix30Man
over a year ago

dudley

I love oral sex both ways, i love to spend alot of time licking a nice wet pussy and tongue fucking her hole while working her clit with my fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I LOVE going down and licking sucking tasting and eating pussy!!

I know it sounds cliched but... I get aroused and turned on by knowing that I am satisfying someone xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I ( Mrs) love giving oral- mixed with hands playing. Sensory overload. Love waking Mr P up with a blowie.

However- I am very shy at receiving and find it hard to relax. I worry as to what I smell like- which is nuts as I’ve only ever loved the smell of a woman or man down there .... and I promise you , I’m clean....

I’m getting better as my hubbie is good at it- think in previous partners I got bored as some earlier experiences felt - well pants ??

"

You know what your doing don’t you?.... your letting your anxiety/paranoia fuel your actions. In turn you are denying yourself and your husband something that you’ve suggested you like!

Try this.... but it requires you to trust your husband and his ability to choose and cast his own judgement........instead of trying to control if your hubby can give you oral Sex or not according to how much your thoughts tell you he shouldn’t because you might smell ( which I very doubt you do) .... give the control over fully to your husband..... you concentrate on laying back for England, legs open, eyes closed, breathing calmly and not letting your legs bolt together as you feel your husband get between your legs....... let him decide if he want to give you oral or not.... if your having an off day and he’s offended by your lady garden I’m sure he can still choose to stop or not.... but what if 90% there is no off day? It’s just fuelled by the fear that you maybe having an off day?..... let me kiss you taste you and if he doesn’t come away and gives you oral then that’s his choice and an indication that’s its all cool.... lay back, enjoy, don’t moan too loud if the windows open and repeat.... often xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it card to cum with a bj or onjoy really so il say give hearing her moan gives me pleasure

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

Prefer to give

There's something much more satisfying about being able to give pleasure and being able to control their pleasure aswell

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Both equally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to give, always have done. I do like receiving, but rarely cum from it, which can disappoint. Only had one partner who could make me cum time after time. But then she didn't like receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a receiver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy doing both , still haven't came from oral yet... The adventure continues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love giving... taking my time and getting the other person worked up... love the feeling of knowing the other person is close.. and you hand..lips.. mouth and tongue is going to make them explode!!!

Also love receiving.. but not all men are willing to take the time it sometimes needs for me to cum..or think I will come like out of a porno... and just go as hard and fast as possible...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I absolutely love giving... taking my time and getting the other person worked up... love the feeling of knowing the other person is close.. and you hand..lips.. mouth and tongue is going to make them explode!!!

Also love receiving.. but not all men are willing to take the time it sometimes needs for me to cum..or think I will come like out of a porno... and just go as hard and fast as possible... "

I would love to take my time between your thighs

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I never used to be able to cum from a bj so I've always preferred giving, hearing a women moan and squirm gave me great pleasure.

Then one woman broke the damn and now I can cum from a bj, so I really enjoy receiving now too, but giving just edges it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give and receive - I would say though that spending too much time on my banjo string kills it for me.

On the whole - I’m a giver.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

I love doing both. Nothing hotter than a good 69 especially if fingers are teasing ass too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Both giving and recieving are good

I love the feeling of giving pleaure and getting pleasure from a womans lips round my cock

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I always used to prefer giving until I met my current fwb, now I'd say it's about equal. Nothing hotter than a 69 when you both cum at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving and receiving, open to rimming either way too if they like it

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Receiver. I'm selfish like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ( Mrs ) love giving and receiving with men and women

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Receiver. I'm selfish like that "

Selfish is one thing but booking a week’s holiday and listing it as your preferred activity is something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy both love a good 69 aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a receiver unless iv had a drink then I will play and suck cock for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ( Mrs) love giving oral- mixed with hands playing. Sensory overload. Love waking Mr P up with a blowie.

However- I am very shy at receiving and find it hard to relax. I worry as to what I smell like- which is nuts as I’ve only ever loved the smell of a woman or man down there .... and I promise you , I’m clean....

I’m getting better as my hubbie is good at it- think in previous partners I got bored as some earlier experiences felt - well pants ??

You know what your doing don’t you?.... your letting your anxiety/paranoia fuel your actions. In turn you are denying yourself and your husband something that you’ve suggested you like!

Try this.... but it requires you to trust your husband and his ability to choose and cast his own judgement........instead of trying to control if your hubby can give you oral Sex or not according to how much your thoughts tell you he shouldn’t because you might smell ( which I very doubt you do) .... give the control over fully to your husband..... you concentrate on laying back for England, legs open, eyes closed, breathing calmly and not letting your legs bolt together as you feel your husband get between your legs....... let him decide if he want to give you oral or not.... if your having an off day and he’s offended by your lady garden I’m sure he can still choose to stop or not.... but what if 90% there is no off day? It’s just fuelled by the fear that you maybe having an off day?..... let me kiss you taste you and if he doesn’t come away and gives you oral then that’s his choice and an indication that’s its all cool.... lay back, enjoy, don’t moan too loud if the windows open and repeat.... often xx"

Good advice. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to give. Not so fussed receiving, guess I haven't found the right partner

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By *n it 86Man
over a year ago

stevenage

Giving gives me more pleasure

It turns me on more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer giving to receiving, especially if she is hairy downstairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but as a chick that only orgasms through oral it's a must for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you a giver or receiver or do you like them both equally?

I love giving and receiving to and from both sexes..... I do however love it when I use a vibrator on my clit as my Hubby gives me oral and licks out my .... hu hum....you know pussy hole hehehe...........guaranteed multiple orgasms for me and a wetted up mouth and beard for the Hubby.... everyone’s happy

Ladies if you haven’t tried, do, you’ll not regret it I promise x"

Sounds like you need hubby fucking you while a guy or girl licks your pussy at the same time !!!!

Exploding orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good 69 - but I'm a giver, on the (w)hole....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I like them equally however I'd say giving significantly more then receiving. Enjoy how wet it gets using fingers whilst licking and sucking, feeling the back arching, toes curling, body starting to squirm, legs tightening and hand clenching. All of that makes giving amazing and exciting for me.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I like to give ..

I believe it’s very empowering to give and have ultimate control over a ladies body and mind and try things to see how perceptive she is to different things..

But some vaginas look so bad I can’t do it ..

Im sure it’s the same for ladies and ugly cocks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to be sucked and rimmed.Love kissing pussy.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Happy with both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receiving, but I like giving too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a giver, i get more out of giving than receiving."

I work both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer giving, but I’ll do as I’m told.

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By *ndy500Man
over a year ago

Canterbury

Love to give oral to ladies to completion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give oral to either guys or girls, especially if they are nice and smooth and responsive!!!! Happy to suck, lick to completion, and am a sucker for face sitting mmmmmmm!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give... no to worried about receiving

Karla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving, happy to recieve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving, it’s what I’m best at

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