FabSwingers.com forum: Why pretend

By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

To be interested if you have zero intention to meet?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"To be interested if you have zero intention to meet?

You been dogged out?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Prob just trying to be polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't so dunno

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"To be interested if you have zero intention to meet?

You been dogged out?"

Well actually met Monday, spoken all week over text, said she was on the way then never replied back despite reading my messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not good and makes you feel rubbish!! But hopefully next time will be better!!! X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"To be interested if you have zero intention to meet?

You been dogged out?

Well actually met Monday, spoken all week over text, said she was on the way then never replied back despite reading my messages. "

Oh. That’s different then. Anyone would be pissed off after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be interested if you have zero intention to meet?

You been dogged out?

Well actually met Monday, spoken all week over text, said she was on the way then never replied back despite reading my messages. "

I had that once, we had met twice for coffee and chatted for a couple of months, on the morning of the sex meet he wasn't replying to my texts, so I set off textured said I was on way. He ended up chucking me out coz he had been drinking and smoking all night and couldn't get it up. He wasn't from this site. Although it wasn't a stand up, looking back he clearly had cold feet. It was only my second sexual meet. I know better know. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever it was, wasn't who you thought they were.... e.g. male rather than female, ugly rather than attractive, unavailable rather than available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry you will get a text at 3 am one night this week.... like nothing ever happened..

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By *lim Jim 68Man
over a year ago

Guernsey

Unfortunately it happens...people get cold feet.

It would be so much better if they actually messaged saying that they'd changed their minds rather than the standard no reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately it happens...people get cold feet.

It would be so much better if they actually messaged saying that they'd changed their minds rather than the standard no reply."

This is called ghosting

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By *lim Jim 68Man
over a year ago

Guernsey

"Whoever it was, wasn't who you thought they were.... e.g. male rather than female, ugly rather than attractive, unavailable rather than available "

This could be the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever it was, wasn't who you thought they were.... e.g. male rather than female, ugly rather than attractive, unavailable rather than available

This could be the answer

Or her husband/boyfriend found her phone....

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"To be interested if you have zero intention to meet?

You been dogged out?

Well actually met Monday, spoken all week over text, said she was on the way then never replied back despite reading my messages. "

Ghosting! Terribly rude a simple changed my mind text would have been better! Onwards and upwards buttercup!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's cruel. But it says more about them than you.

Everyone has a right to change their mind but it's good manners to say so and give you some notice of their intention.

I wouldn't be suprised if you're blocked now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever it was, wasn't who you thought they were.... e.g. male rather than female, ugly rather than attractive, unavailable rather than available

This could be the answer

Sorry I've just re-read your original post and seen that you have already met once. In that case, couldn't get away because attached, or had a better offer. Either way not someone to take up a moment longer of your time.

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"It's cruel. But it says more about them than you.

Everyone has a right to change their mind but it's good manners to say so and give you some notice of their intention.

I wouldn't be suprised if you're blocked now? "

Nope not blocked, still blue ticked on WhatsApp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You guys think I don’t know things… but I know things

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You guys think I don’t know things… but I know things"
it’s been said that you don’t know the right things. Checkout the Scotland forum under ‘Loch Ness’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be interested if you have zero intention to meet?

You been dogged out?

Well actually met Monday, spoken all week over text, said she was on the way then never replied back despite reading my messages. "

Probably married and got cold feet, it's not only guys who do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me on POF. I got talking to a lass from Barnsley in December and we got on really well. Organised a date in February, three days before the date she blocked me on POF and Facebook.

I can't stand it when people string you along like that, nothing pisses me off more. I don't think they get cold feet per se, I think they do it because they get a kick out of it.

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