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Couples could you go a club alone?

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By *ccasionalfun OP   Couple
over a year ago

hereandthere

We have only ever been to clubs together and both have said if we were single we couldn't do it alone. Mr because of the way men get charged and treated like cattle and Nikki because she wouldn't like to be pestered all night

Couples would do it as a single?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done it ! And when I do it I just rely on the fact that I’ll know someone that I’ll go chat too and at least that gets me way from the single male group stood on there own nervously haha

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve never been to a proper adult club. I’d go on my own though, probably do more watching than talking on my first visit though.

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By *ccasionalfun OP   Couple
over a year ago

hereandthere


"I’ve done it ! And when I do it I just rely on the fact that I’ll know someone that I’ll go chat too and at least that gets me way from the single male group stood on there own nervously haha "

That's the best way . The way we see to work best is say hello to a couple you like The look of and carry on. If she is keen they will find you. Nikki always points out the guys she likes and she will approach them or I will.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

I would go alone not sure on wife.probably if she planned meet with a previous playmate. Not had any problems with people bothering us at club we use and not rip off admission prices either single male members charged same as couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve done it ! And when I do it I just rely on the fact that I’ll know someone that I’ll go chat too and at least that gets me way from the single male group stood on there own nervously haha

That's the best way . The way we see to work best is say hello to a couple you like The look of and carry on. If she is keen they will find you. Nikki always points out the guys she likes and she will approach them or I will."

Exactly mate ! I’m a confident lad so I’ll talk to anyone lol just to break the ice and get the night going

P.s I would defo approach u two

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Quite a few ladies attend AtlantisEVOLUTION without their partner sometimes.

They say they feel more comfortable there than even the local pub, they know people look out for each other.

The men also sometimes attend on their own too, can't see a problem as long as you are comfortable with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have only ever been to clubs together and both have said if we were single we couldn't do it alone. Mr because of the way men get charged and treated like cattle and Nikki because she wouldn't like to be pestered all night

Couples would do it as a single?"

Having previously gone together to check it out, we've agreed we would feel comfortable if the occasion arose to each go alone to the Vanilla Alternative MILF club, but that's about it

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

M has been on his own and had a great time (no play) but met people we subsequently played with B may do it sometime as well

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Agree with your analysis. No we wouldn't go alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could but the price a male has to pay don't think David would

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I could but the price a male has to pay don't think David would "

The username makes more sense now

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"We have only ever been to clubs together and both have said if we were single we couldn't do it alone. Mr because of the way men get charged and treated like cattle and Nikki because she wouldn't like to be pestered all night

Couples would do it as a single?"

We wouldn’t even swing as singles , never mind go to a club as a single .

With so many dating apps we wouldn’t even dream of coming onto a swinging site as singles .

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

I often go on my own on a Bi night.

Mrs M xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to go regular as a single to mingles club in Colchester.. started out by myself, then the wife wanted to come along too... but sometimes she let's me go by myself still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I George would go to a club alone just to enjoy the atmosphere if I got lucky would just be a bonus

mildred would never go alone she would be scared of all the guys pestering her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d def go to a cubs and cougars night alone

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Having done so as a couple, we both could go as singles, but won't.

We both are confident enough to metaphorically hold our own in a social context and are comfortable in making decisions that we can live with.

She's played alone in clubs with me talking with other women, whilst we weren't going to get it on at the time, it was good fun chatting with them and don't feel that it wasn't time well spent.

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By *rs Butterfly.Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I (Mrs B) have been to club's on my own and never had an issue. I find a polite no thank you works well if I am not interested.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Such a shame to see all the females saying they wouldn't go to a club, for fear of being pestered.

Some club's are like that, but other clubs are really fun and sociable. I never get pestered, because I happily chat to people and make it clear whether or not I am likely to play that night.

Men usually are respectful and understand the word no, without problems.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

No - neither of us we go alone. The main reason for us going to clubs is that we can enjoy watching each other indulging our fantasies.

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By *orth South DivideCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I (female) have been to Chameleons on my own and had a great chilled social evening. Whether I would do it again and if I would ever play alone is another matter. Certainly an option if I was single but I'm not.

N x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couples profile here. I go to clubs alone on occasion although I must admit I usually know other people that are also going that night

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I’m a single woman and although I occasionally go with play mates and friends, I’ve been going to clubs on my own for years and I love it.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I've done it as a single and now as a couple. I don't think I would go as a single again, I didn't really enjoy going alone and the experience has been infinitely better as a couple so I would just look back and compare. Maybe the only way I would go alone is if I had arranged to meet someone there in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d absolutely love J to go on her own and get ‘pestered’ all evening!!

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By *omeFreeMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

I've been alone once and with the Mrs a few times. Very different experiences. As a single guy I couldn't help feeling a bit self conscious with all the other single guys and yet as a couple, if we'd gone and there were no single guys, we would have been just as well shagging at home!

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

when we were going to clubs regular we had a wide circle of friends so either of us could go alone and be sure of company clubs are social as well as sexual especially if your a regular

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