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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’ve been on here for a few weeks now and had a couple of meets.

Both were good, however the most recent one has left me a little flat as I wasn’t particularly fancied by the guy.

I’m trying to remind myself that you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea but can be quite difficult sometimes.

I’m a big girl (size 20, 42dd) and for quite a long time I’ve apologised for my size but realised that’s stupid. This is me, I like being curvy and will hopefully find a man who knows how to appreciate every little bit of me!!!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Well I've looked and I can't see why anyone would have a problem fancying you. I love the pics and appreciate curves. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat a curvy woman.

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By *anandLeia72Couple
over a year ago

St. Helens

There's a reason that some clubs have dedicated nights for bbw. Men love curves. Women do too. Love your body and I'm sure as you meet more men that appreciate you, your confidence will grow.

Good luck honey

Leia xx

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By *haremoreMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Look sexy to me.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So I’ve been on here for a few weeks now and had a couple of meets.

Both were good, however the most recent one has left me a little flat as I wasn’t particularly fancied by the guy.

I’m trying to remind myself that you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea but can be quite difficult sometimes.

I’m a big girl (size 20, 42dd) and for quite a long time I’ve apologised for my size but realised that’s stupid. This is me, I like being curvy and will hopefully find a man who knows how to appreciate every little bit of me!!!

"

Glad you like being curvy.

There are ‘some’ nice men on here but they take some funding but I really hope you find one honey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve been on here for a few weeks now and had a couple of meets.

Both were good, however the most recent one has left me a little flat as I wasn’t particularly fancied by the guy.

I’m trying to remind myself that you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea but can be quite difficult sometimes.

I’m a big girl (size 20, 42dd) and for quite a long time I’ve apologised for my size but realised that’s stupid. This is me, I like being curvy and will hopefully find a man who knows how to appreciate every little bit of me!!!

Glad you like being curvy.

There are ‘some’ nice men on here but they take some funding but I really hope you find one honey "

Yep, I'm very expensive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's seen your pics and profile before meeting then he's obviously an idiot.

While it can be hurtful to be rejected I'd rather send a pic that shows my body type upfront so to speak so then if they don't fancy me they can just say.

You're a beautiful lady and you deserve better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry that you were left feeling a little bit flat after your last meet. You hit the nail on the head though lovely. We can't be everyone's cup of tea. Hopefully you will enjoy your time with people who's preferences you do fit. I'm pleased that you are finally comfortable with who you are and no longer feel you need to apologise for it. I hope you continue to enjoy your fab journey

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

You have hidden your profile so unable to see. But the sizes you state sound fantastic to me there are lots of very sexy big women. I for one love large women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's his loss not yours he's a biggot. Don't let it bother you there is more decent people on here than bad

https://youtu.be/CjxugyZCfuw

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You have hidden your profile so unable to see. But the sizes you state sound fantastic to me there are lots of very sexy big women. I for one love large women "

Big and large are not words to describe a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve been on here for a few weeks now and had a couple of meets.

Both were good, however the most recent one has left me a little flat as I wasn’t particularly fancied by the guy.

I’m trying to remind myself that you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea but can be quite difficult sometimes.

I’m a big girl (size 20, 42dd) and for quite a long time I’ve apologised for my size but realised that’s stupid. This is me, I like being curvy and will hopefully find a man who knows how to appreciate every little bit of me!!!

You go girl. Looking good to me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. Big isn't a sexy word to use when describing a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm around the same size as you, and a lot older.

But I've met some great guys on here who adore the curves - so embrace them and enjoy your time on here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I can see you have played with both your meets. Why don't you social? That way you can know if they are really into you or just into a fuck that day? I have male friends on here and they have said that in the past they have felt obliged to play with someone they were not that into because they felt bad saying no on the day. With a social you can go away after it and decide if they are really what you are looking for and vice versa

I'm fat. I love my curves. Lots of other men and woman love my curves too. There is no way that I would waste my time with someone who wasn't obviously into me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction can be more than just physical attributes. It can be a combination of any number of things and ultimately comes down to compatibility.

Do not value your own self worth based on someone else's opinion. For some you won't be what they are looking for but for others you will be perfect. Keep going and go find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve been on here for a few weeks now and had a couple of meets.

Both were good, however the most recent one has left me a little flat as I wasn’t particularly fancied by the guy.

I’m trying to remind myself that you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea but can be quite difficult sometimes.

I’m a big girl (size 20, 42dd) and for quite a long time I’ve apologised for my size but realised that’s stupid. This is me, I like being curvy and will hopefully find a man who knows how to appreciate every little bit of me!!!

"

Hey don't be down. He didn't know what he was missing out on obviously

I used to almost apologise for being bigger but now I don't.

I have met some very nice men who love my wobbly bits so much more then I do.

There are lots of lovely men on FAB who will think you're delicious. Just get ready for the invites following this thread.

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By *eepgliderMan
over a year ago

Chacewater

It can be hard for any of us on fabs.

I don't think your pix show how voluptuous you are.

Attraction is a mysterious thing, and if you swing you need to be really at-ease about what you find attractive. Sorry you had one where his hormones simply didn't blast-off, but it is going to happen every now and again...

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

Both of your verifications are positive and say lovely things about you

So I’m a bit lost, as you mention the most recent meet when referring to two (and you have 2 veris).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your profile I don’t imagine you’ll have to wait long for a guy to adore those sweet curves xxxx

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"It's his loss not yours he's a biggot. Don't let it bother you there is more decent people on here than bad

https://youtu.be/CjxugyZCfuw"

He's a bigot because he didn't particularly fancy her?

He's a dick if he didn't like her but had sex with her anyway. But a bigot, no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your messages, on here and privately, felt rather down earlier but it’s not the end of the world is it!

Thanks for all the advice and compliments too, nice to know there’s some genuinely lovely people out there xx

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By *weeny_toddMan
over a year ago

Kent

Oh my, having seen the pics I’d say you really have no worries at all your body looks gorgeous I’d say the fella must have been having an off night rather than something to do with you! Have the best time beautiful x

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